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Turns Out I"m Into It!

Turns Out I’m Into It is your backstage pass to the world of kink—where curiosity is queen, shame is stripped away, and nothing is off-limits. Hosted by somatic sexologist Harley Rabbit, this podcast delves into the psychology of desire, exploring how BDSM, power dynamics, and play can unlock self-discovery, intimacy, and even healing.From abduction fantasies to shibari, age play to non-monogamy, Harley serves up candid personal stories and juicy interviews with kink experts from around the globe

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85:41

#87: The Love Language of Rope — with Deadmaxis and...

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2025/05/14

Send us a text In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by Deadmaxis and Aura Grey—partners in life, kink, and the art of rope. Known for their stunning suspension performances at events like Hardbeat Byron and Berlin’s Dark Circus, this couple brings over a decade of love and a deep connection to their rope journey. We explore: 🔹 How they went from a vanilla marriage to exploring kink together 🔹 The emotional and psychological impact of rope in their relationship 🔹 De...

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37:48

#86: How Old Do You Feel in the Bedroom?

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2025/04/23

Send us a text What happens when your birthday brings up more than cake and candles? In this raw and personal episode, Harley opens up about what it’s like to navigate aging as a sexual woman in a culture obsessed with youth. From noticing lines in the mirror to feeling like time is running out for certain fantasies, this episode is a vulnerable look at the internal stories we carry—and how kink can help us rewrite them. You’ll hear: Why the sex Harley has now is so much better than what she ...

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40:08

#85: I’m Not Ashamed to Love Masculine Men

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2025/04/16

Send us a text In this episode, I explore the difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity—and why I’m tired of pretending that being attracted to masculine men is something to be ashamed of. Inspired by a scene in Beastars (an anime on Netflix), I unpack what it means to celebrate masculine power without excusing harm. We talk about violence, tenderness, emotional maturity, and why the sexiest men are often the ones who could fight—but don’t need to. From MMA rings to Formula One tra...

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28:34

#84: What Turns You On—and What Turns You Off!...

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2025/04/02

Send us a text Do you ever feel like your body just isn’t showing up for sex—even when your mind is totally on board? Maybe you want to feel turned on, but nothing’s happening down there. Or maybe you feel ashamed, confused, or frustrated when your desire doesn’t match what your partner (or you!) expect. In this episode, Harley Rabbit introduces the dual control model, a powerful framework from the world of sexology that could change the way you think about arousal forever. You’ll learn how y...

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33:58

#83: What If You Could Be Anyone? The Magic of Kink...

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2025/03/19

Send us a text Ever felt too self-conscious to fully enjoy sex? Maybe you struggle to switch off from life stress, or you find yourself stuck in your head during intimate moments. In this episode, Harley Rabbit shares a powerful technique for breaking free from insecurity and fully immersing yourself in pleasure—by stepping into a kink persona. A kink persona isn’t just roleplay—it’s a way to tap into different aspects of yourself, experiment with new fantasies, and unleash parts of your sexu...

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36:21

#82: Sub or Bottom? Exploring the Many Flavours of...

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2025/03/12

Send us a text When you first explore submission, it’s easy to get caught up in labels and stereotypes—but what if those don’t quite fit? Do you have to love obedience, service, or degradation to be a sub? Or maybe you’re drawn to pain or bondage, but don’t feel like surrendering control? In this episode, Harley Rabbit helps you untangle your submissive identity, exploring the many ways submission can look. Whether you’re a good sub, brat, masochist, or rope bunny, this episode will guide you...

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30:29

#81: Am I Kinky Enough? Breaking Free from Stereotypes

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2025/03/05

Send us a text Have you ever wondered if you're kinky enough to belong in the kink community? Maybe you feel like you don’t fit the stereotypical Dominant/submissive (D/s) mold or that your desires aren’t “intense” enough to count. In this episode, Harley Rabbit dives into the many ways people explore kink—whether through full-time dynamics, occasional play, private fantasies, or even solo experiences. Kink doesn’t have to look one way, and there’s no test you need to pass to belong. We'll al...

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116:51

#80: Rope Mastery & Mind Games: A Shibari Masterclass...

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2025/02/19

Send us a text In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by the incredible Miss Gen—Shibari educator, performer, and rope sadist. As head of Evil Girls HQ in Brisbane and a Shihan (Master Instructor) in Kazami Ryu Shibari, she has 25+ years of experience training with top rope masters and performing in Japan. We explore: 🔹 Miss Gen’s journey into rope – From self-tying as a child to discovering her dominant side. 🔹 The psychology of rope play – How energy, connection, and ant...

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29:44

#79: How to Play with Gender in BDSM

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2025/02/12

Send us a text Most people don’t realise just how much gender shapes the way we play in BDSM. Whether we’re leaning into traditional roles—like masculine dominance and feminine submission—or subverting them entirely, gender dynamics influence kink in ways we often don’t even notice. In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, we dive into: 🔹 How gender roles show up in BDSM 🔹 Masculine dominance vs. feminine submission – Why it turns us on 🔹 Subverting gender norms – Femdom, feminisation, and

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64:14

#78: Religious Shame, BDSM, and the Psychology of...

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2025/02/05

Send us a text In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by the incredible Shelby Devlin, a sex and intimacy coach with nearly a decade of experience specializing in BDSM and kink. With a master's degree in sexuality studies and a role as an advanced instructor at the Somatica Institute, Shelby brings a wealth of knowledge to our conversation. We dive into two powerful topics: 🔹 Religious shame & sexuality – How religious conditioning shapes our sexual identities, and how to

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40:45

#77 How to Tell Your Partner What You're Really...

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2025/01/29

Send us a textSharing your sexual fantasies with a partner can feel incredibly vulnerable... maybe even terrifying! In this episode, Harley Rabbit dives deep into why it’s so hard to open up about our desires and offers practical, no-pressure strategies to help you navigate these conversations with confidence and curiosity. Whether you're hoping to act on your fantasies or simply share them for deeper intimacy, this episode will equip you with the tools to hopefully make it a positive experie...

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34:24

#76: Are my Sexual Fantasies Normal? Here's What...

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2025/01/15

Send us a textEpisode Summary:In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, Harley Rabbit dives deep into the fascinating world of sexual fantasies, exploring why so many of us feel shame about them and how science challenges the idea of “normal” fantasies. Harley breaks down a landmark study, “What Exactly Is an Unusual Sexual Fantasy?”, which surveyed over 1,500 people to determine which fantasies are rare, unusual, common, or typical. Along the way, Harley shares personal insights, busts myths...

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#75: Santa's Little Helpers: Naughty Sex Toy Secrets...

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2024/12/18

Send us a textIt’s time to add a little extra joy to your holiday season! In this special Christmas episode, I’m joined by the fabulous Wendy Setless, a Somatica-trained sexual health, pleasure, and relationship coach, and the resident sexologist at her local adult store.Wendy brings her infectious enthusiasm and deep knowledge to help us navigate the world of adult toys—from vibrators and strokers to kegel balls and vibrating cock rings. Whether you’re looking to explore solo or spice things...

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35:53

#74: My Secret "Cock Worship" Fantasy: How Fantasies...

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2024/12/11

Send us a textIn this week’s episode, Harley Rabbit takes a deep dive into the world of sexual fantasies and reveals one of her most provocative ones—a cock worship scenario rooted in her submissive desires.Harley discusses how fantasies can unlock deeper arousal, help you connect with your core desires, and transform your sex life—whether you're indulging solo or with a partner. She explores why fantasising is healthy, how it doesn’t reflect your real-life values, and how to incorporate your...

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#73: 4 Common Beliefs About Women’s Sexuality You’re...

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2024/11/27

Send us a textIn this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, Harley Rabbit takes on some of the most stubborn myths and misconceptions about women’s sexuality. Whether you’re a woman navigating these expectations or a man eager to understand your partner better, this episode is for you.Harley shares her personal experiences and insights from studying sexology, conversations with clients and friends, and challenges commonly held beliefs that might be holding you back from a more fulfilling sex life...

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35:59

#72: Permission to be Sexy! Lessons from a Burlesque...

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2024/11/20

Send us a textIn this empowering episode, Harley Rabbit dives into the topic of sex positivity and overcoming shame around sexuality. Sharing personal stories, including a formative memory from high school and a transformative recent experience in a burlesque dance class, Harley explores how societal messages shape our views on expressing sexuality. Harley reflects on reclaiming self-confidence and finding permission to be authentically sexy in a world that often discourages it.Referenced in ...

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42:24

#71: Overcoming Old Stories - How Kink Helped me get...

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2024/11/13

Send us a textIn this episode, Harley Rabbit opens up about finally getting her first tattoo—a significant milestone that stirred up childhood memories and beliefs. Harley reflects on how her journey into kink and pain play has reshaped her understanding of resilience, pain, and bravery. Sharing stories about childhood fears, needle phobias, and reclaiming agency through kink, Harley discusses how these experiences helped overcome lifelong limiting beliefs.Tune in for an honest, empowering di...

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33:36

#70: Harley Ruins Your Favorite Love Songs - Teddy...

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2024/10/30

Send us a textIn this episode, Harley dives into a fun yet insightful analysis of three popular love songs that might make you rethink your playlist: I Lose Control by Teddy Swims, Elastic Heart by Sia, and Grenade by Bruno Mars. Taking on the role of a relationship coach, Harley imagines these song lyrics as if they were clients sitting in a therapy session, sharing their romantic struggles.Harley explores how these songs, while catchy and romantic on the surface, often glorify toxic behavio...

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71:08

#69: How Men Can Safely Explore CNC- Interview with...

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2024/10/16

Send us a textCNC (Consensual Non-Consent) is often discussed from a woman’s perspective, but what about men? In this episode, I’m joined by Dotch, a Somatica® practitioner who once saw CNC as a hard limit but has since learned to enjoy facilitating these fantasies. Dotch shares his journey, from initial discomfort to embracing CNC in a way that feels safe, consensual, and exciting. We discuss the challenges men face, including shame and the fear of crossing boundaries, and offer insights on ...

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42:01

#69: Understanding Your Attachment Style

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2024/10/03

Send us a textIn this episode, Harley Rabbit delves into attachment theory and its relevance to the kink community. The discussion covers the four main attachment styles: secure, avoidant, anxious, and disorganized, exploring how these styles affect relationships and personal dynamics. Harley emphasizes the importance of understanding these attachment styles to foster self-awareness and compassion, and discusses the potential for developing an earned secure attachment through personal growth ...

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