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Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert

Lola Jean & Stephen Penta

In the age of porn on our phones and vibrators around our necks, is the future of love doomed? Sex Educator & Olympian Squirter Lola Jean and Reluctant Sexpert Stephen Penta (former producer of Guys We F**ked Podcast) tow both sides of the line. They are the vigilante sex educators no one asked for, creating the next gen Kama Sutra you deserve.

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01:30:53

Is Our Love Full Of Shit? (w Mistress Shayla)

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/10/02

If our love is full of shit, how much confidence does it take to throatfuck that shit in someone’s mouth? Wait….what? You never asked… we answered, and the answer is this weeks’ guest: Mistress Shayla. A charismatic Texas sadist with a heart of gold. Shayla is seasoned in many areas of FemDom but where her heart shines brightest is when someone is covered in her sweet, sweet excrement. How does one get into pooping on people and why? What do her submissives get out of it and what does she enjoy

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01:15:13

Is Our Love Kinky? (w/ Mistress Nikita Reign)

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/09/25

If being kinky is a spectrum from a simple roleplay all the way to chastity and eternal servitude, where does a new Pro Domme (Dominatrix) fall into it? Kicking off a string of BDSM focused guests is someone on the newer side of Pro Domming, but who is no stranger to smut. Mistress Nikita Reign is a true performance artist. From peep shows to titty bars to her latest medium: Domination. We talk to Nikita about the difference between Pro Domming in Australia versus the U.S., the role of community

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01:30:57

Is Our Love Body Conscious? (Sex After An Eating...

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/09/18

With all of the positive strides modern media is making with showcasing different types of bodies and faces, it can feel like body positivity is a simple compliment away, right? It’s not always as easy as telling yourself “I Love You” specifically if that negativity is rooted in insecurity and esteeming through others. *cough* Stephen *cough* This weeks guest Devon Moretti is a body image coach, but she didn’t get there overnight. Devon tells us the steps she took to getting to more accepting place

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01:24:54

Is Our Love Intimate (with Sex Therapist Cyndi Darnell)

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/09/11

In our continued pursuit of all conversations sex & kink, this weeks' guest Cyndi Darnell, a leading sex therapist and educator, brings us back to our human core: INTIMACY. We have an in depth convo about fostering intimacy within our various types of relationships. Cyndi also illuminates how her clientele has changed over time, and addresses some of the most common issues that bring clients into her office (we're looking at you sexual dysfunction stress!). PLUS Lola and Stephen cover some butt

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01:36:57

Is Our Love HYPNOTIZED? (Erotic Hypnosis with Wizard:...

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/09/04

This week on Is Our Love we talk to a *fucking* Wizard. Find out how one becomes a fucking wizard and what a real life wizard even does. Devin Person dispels the mystique behind erotic hypnosis and what happens when a hypnosis goes dark. So much of pleasure based sex ed focuses on physical touch, but how can one manipulate the mind as a part of the mind-body experience? Whether you subscribe or not, hypnotism has many interesting parallels to BDSM and sex. PLUS, Stephen and Lola get hypnotized and

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01:38:03

Is Our Love a One Night Stand?

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/08/28

No conversation about sex is complete without talking about the one night stand. So commonplace its earned its own abbreviation: ONS. One-night standspert MOMO (@momosinmieda) joins Stephen and Lola as we break down what constitutes a one night stand. Are one night stands inherently bad & what can be done to improve them? With vivid stories from one night stands past, present, and maybe even the future, Momo and Lola bond over shared ghosts and Stephen gets to the bottom of why cis-dudes are so

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53:25

Is Our Love the Fetishization of Asian Women?

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/08/21

This week we boldly go where two white podcasters dare not tread... for good reason. Inspired by a listener question regarding the fetishization of her race within her dating pursuits, Stephen and Lola try their best not to “white savior” by bringing in roommates and friends Yuko and Rachel. Both Yuko and Rachel grew up in wildly different parts of the US and have had wildly different experiences as asian women. Get ready to tighten your butthole as we discuss wildly uncomfortable, yet necessary

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01:07:41

Is Our Love A Summer Fling

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/08/14

It's summer and we've been on vacation! Lola and Stephen reconvene after a little break and recount what happened with their summer flings and things. While Lola fucked (and educated) her way through Europe, the Reluctant Sexpert spent his days sex nerding at Sex Camp. There's some romance, revelations... at least a few good stories. Whether you realize you’re more of a Dad than a Daddy or that you need to keep your European submissive in check, capture the fleeting flag of that summer fling and get

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01:33:39

Is Our Love Codependent w/ Rachel Khints

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/08/07

If codependency is a spectrum, where is a healthy place to sit? How can you tell if your relationship is in equilibrium or codependent AF? Are you in-love or enmeshed? This week we sit down with Rachel Khints, who specializes in treating codependency with a focus on group therapy. We learn the correlation between codependency treatment and Al-anon as well as where codependent tendencies typically come from. Starting with esteeming ourselves. Rachel walks us through the five compartments of

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01:26:01

Is Our Love A Multi-Orgasmic Man (Non-Ejaculatory...

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/07/31

No greater sex goal has plagued man more than the non-ejaculatory orgasm. Ok... well maybe not, but unless you’ve been living under a 'fuck' rock, chances are you’ve heard of The Multi-Orgasmic Man. Sometimes thought only to only be achieved by tantric yogi’s meditating in mountains (and livestreaming to youtube), Dominus Eros is here to clear the air. Whether you're a full on guru seeking that sweet 8 hour Sting-esque fucksesh, or a skeptical realist hoping to practically up your game, Dominus

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01:11:05

Is Our Love A Safer Space? (Gamifying Your Orgy w...

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/07/24

Exploring sex and love is all fine and dandy but where are we doing all this uber progressive sexploration? Safe(r) spaces are crucial to creating sex positive communities (and sex positive humans)... and Robin Scott is creating some of the most fun, progressive events around. This week, Robin shares how a Roman fertility fest of slapping goat flesh on nubile virgins inspired the gamified orgy that became Eutopia Rising. Even if getting filthy with sticky buns at "THE GREAT BROOKLYN BOINK OFF" isn't

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01:19:39

Is Our Love Forever Vol. 1

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/07/17

We're finally tackling our first LOVE spectacular! Is there a reason we're inherently attracted to the “wrong” people? How do you date for love vs. date for sport? This week, Stephen takes the wheel as the resident hopeless romantic as we're joined by Bobby, who knows a thing or three about love. Two men discuss falling in and out of love, while resident relationship virgin Lola Jean searches for answers. ------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom

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01:15:33

Is our Love Bisexual?

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/07/10

Is bisexuality a 50/50 split or is it a bit more complicated than that. Join us for all the confusion from the bicurious to the biphobic, we discuss all sides of the Kinsey scale and question if straight is built out of fear, ignorance or a definite identity. Julia Koerwer, MSW, joins us to drop knowledge on bisexuality as a demisexual dating an aromantic. Confused, yet? Experiment and question your identity on this weeks’ episode where we talk about everything from Harry Potter erotica to exploring

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01:27:57

Is Our Love CockDependent? (Body Acceptance With Jojo...

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/07/03

When it comes to body acceptance, bodies with penises tend to focus on just that: PENISES. And as our guest--and current person we’re fangirling over--Jojo Bear puts it: while a part of the body but it tends to be the part of the body we focus on the most. How does one’s relationship with their penis relate to one’s relationship with their body? How does one begin to tackle what they view as “issues.” Jojo Bear introduces us to Soft Cock Massage and PreJac and questions why much of our sex revolves

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51:47

Is Our Love A Gaping Hole

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/06/26

Lola Jean and Stephen make the best of getting stood up by their guest and take things in an unexpected direction: Anal. Well, maybe not so unexpected. From fucking butts, to having their butts fucked, Is Our Love explores first time anal and how that compares to the anal they’re currently having. Whether you’re an anal connoisseur or haven’t spelunked into the great unknown, there’s something for everyone in this episode. If you have a sex or relationship question for us or have a topic you want to

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01:07:57

Is Our Love (master)BATIN' (with the Bate' Coach!)

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/06/19

Where do we learn to masturbate? How do we know if what we’re doing is enough and how would we get better at it? Masturbation coaching is a thing and we sat down with none other than The Bate Coach to discuss his methods of changing men’s relationship with how they view masturbation and getting off in general. Whether you scream to slayer in your car or you like to lift heavy things, everyone’s got a different thing. The Bate Coach provides a glimpse into gay spaces and makes us ponder if straight

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01:10:29

Is Our Love DICKS! with Zachary Zane

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/06/12

Peen. Cock. Dick. A penis by another other name....well, you get the idea: we’re talking about dicks this week. Zachary Zane joins us to give his unique perspective on hooking up with gay men and straight women and how they differ when it comes to dicks. What makes a pretty penis? And we take a stab at the age old question: does size matter? From early ED to meat market sauna debauchery, Zackary spares no detail in our quest to uncover the universal truths to the peen. PLUS We dig into a fan email

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01:11:00

Does Our Love start with Cunnilinugs? (w/ Alison Moon)

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/06/05

What’s with the illustrious “v” word? Learn the difference between a Vagina and a Vulva and why knowing that will make you a better lover (and, likely... person.) This week Allison Moon (Author of Girl Sex 101 & Bad Dyke) helps us with R&D on all things vulva. Join our own Vulvapalooza as we discuss the ups and downs of having a vulva and why we need to continuously learn our partners bodies--even in long term relationships. ------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola

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01:20:29

Is Our Love a First Kiss?

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/05/29

Your eyes connect... you lean in with that 'look'... but are you getting butterflies or just slammin' faces? What makes a good kiss and can you up your game? Is a kiss connection chemical, or a skill? This week we're joined by real life couple and kissing comrades Kat and Gerard who have both kissed their fair share of men and women for play and for work. Professional kissing. Kat and Gerard discuss the difference between acting kissing and kissing for funsies. PLUS we all slam faces and makeout..

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01:33:53

Is Our Love A Real Connection? : Flirtgame w/ Olive...

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert ·

2019/05/22

What makes one a good flirt--or for that matter--a bad one? Are we flirting right now? How does one flirt in the post #metoo era? Professional word-sayer Olive Persimmon (author of 'Unintentionally Celibate' and 'The Coitus Chronicles') joins us this week to discuss her jump from a 5 year celibacy streak to being coached by a pick-up artist. From grown men climbing bunk beds to throwing napkins for attention, Olive takes us through the mating habits of flirting and being flirted with. PLUS, Stephen

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