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Nobody Asked Us

Nobody Asked Us is the podcast where a husband (Melo) and wife (Nat) talk through life as a married couple in our 30s with two young daughters. We’re not here to give advice—but we are giving each other our two cents.Join us as we navigate this next chapter filled with shifting friendships, new goals, spiritual growth, random hobbies, and everything in between. We’re not experts—just two people trying to figure it out out loud.Some days, it feels like we’ve got it all together. Other days… you’ll

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43:36

The Real Reason Sex Changes After Marriage (And Kids)...

Nobody Asked Us ·

2025/08/31

Dating sex is not married sex. In this candid conversation, we break down why intimacy shifts after “I do”—from courting and spontaneity to the mental load, exhaustion, kids, and the infamous frequency debate. We unpack the “seasons” women move through, why men rarely leave the “want it” season, and how couples can stop keeping score and start collaborating.

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36:39

Why Making Friends as Adults Is So Hard (The Hidden...

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2025/08/28

Kids can make friends on the playground in five minutes. Adults? Not so much. In this episode, we dive into why friendships change once you have kids, routines, and responsibilities that take over your time.We share what it was like dropping our daughter off at Pre-K, how parent networks end up shaping your own friendships, and why some relationships fade while others last decades. Melo also talks about his trip to the Dominican Republic with his dad and brother after 30 years, and the surprising

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24:22

Marriage Rules from 1913 + Sydney Sweeney Ad Controversy

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2025/08/17

In 1913, an etiquette magazine published a “manual for marriage” — complete with do’s and don’ts for wives and husbands. Over 100 years later, we’re reading it for the first time… and reacting in real time.From meeting your husband at the door every day to not wearing violet ties with green socks, some of these rules are hilariously outdated, others still make sense, and a few are just plain wild.We also dive into the Sydney Sweeney / American Eagle ad backlash, why it went viral, and what it says

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41:32

The Devil’s Playbook for Destroying Families...

Nobody Asked Us ·

2025/08/10

What if the enemy of your marriage didn’t attack with chaos — but with convenience, silence, and distraction?We asked ChatGPT a chilling question: “If you were the devil, how would you destroy a happy family?” The six strategies it returned weren’t extreme, they were painfully familiar.From making a husband feel he’s never enough, to weakening a wife through comparison, to turning teammates into opponents, we break down each tactic, share how we’ve seen them show up in our own home, and talk about

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54:59

Painful Detours: When Life Breaks the Plan (or Your Jaw)

Nobody Asked Us ·

2025/08/03

Some of the most defining moments in life don’t happen on purpose, they blindside you, break the plan, and leave you trying to make sense of what just happened. In this episode, Melo shares the story of getting randomly punched in the face by a stranger at a Cinco de Mayo event — a hit that shattered his jaw and rewired how he saw people, protection, and partnership. Nat opens up about a failed move to LA to pursue her dream, and how the version of success she was chasing ended up breaking her down

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39:54

The Truth About Your 20s: Why You Feel Stuck, Behind,...

Nobody Asked Us ·

2025/07/27

Feeling stuck in your 20s isn’t just in your head — it’s a mix of pressure, confusion, and a bunch of lies culture feeds you about success, freedom, and who you’re supposed to be. In this episode, we’re breaking down why your 20s feel so overwhelming, what no one tells you about this decade, and how to avoid sleepwalking through some of the most important years of your life. We also talk about the trap of comparing timelines, the toxic side of hustle culture, the myth of “finding yourself” by

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64:41

How to Spot Toxic People (Before They Ruin Your Life)...

Nobody Asked Us ·

2025/07/20

Toxic people come in many forms — and they’re not always easy to recognize. Sometimes it’s the friend who only shows up when they need something. Other times, it’s the family member who crosses a line and expects you to stay quiet.In this episode, we talk about the real signs of toxicity, how to tell the difference between someone who’s flawed vs. someone who’s manipulative, and the hard truth about letting go — even when it’s uncomfortable.We also share personal stories of toxic dynamics we’ve

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31:00

How We Stay Sane as Parents: Marriage Systems, Money...

Nobody Asked Us ·

2025/07/13

Modern marriage is a lot to manage — and with kids in the mix, it can feel like total chaos. In this episode, we’re breaking down the real systems that keep our relationship (and sanity) intact: from shared calendars and clear roles to how we finally merged finances and why we think one bank account changed everything. We also talk about gift-giving, traditions, parenting routines, and the small things that help us function as a team, not just roommates raising kids. Spoiler: it’s not always pretty,

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42:01

Marriage Is Dying — Are Men Giving Up on Love?

Nobody Asked Us ·

2025/07/06

Marriage is on the decline, and we’re not surprised — but we are concerned.In this episode, we unpack why fewer men want to get married, how dating culture has changed, and what it means for the next generation (including our daughters). From hookup culture to dating apps, blurred gender roles to fear of divorce, we’re diving into the big questions no one seems to be asking.We also share our own story: the pressures we felt, the boundaries we set, and how we knew it was time to commit.Whether you're

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41:33

Regret-Proof Your 20s: The Advice We Wish We Got

Nobody Asked Us ·

2025/06/29

Ever wish you could go back and give your younger self a real talk? Yeah… same. In this episode, we get honest about the hard lessons we’ve learned—about fear, friendships, love, focus, and how not all advice is worth listening to.From dimming our own light to make others comfortable, to holding grudges that stole years we can’t get back, we’re unpacking all the moments that taught us what really matters. This one’s for anyone still figuring it out (like we are).Drop a comment with the best advice

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27:33

Things We’re Trying to Change After Having Kids

Nobody Asked Us ·

2025/06/23

We didn’t think a bottle of milk would start one of our biggest fights—but here we are. In this episode, we talk about the small things that spiral, how our kids keep us in check, and the stuff we’re trying to do better now that we’re raising two little humans. From fighting less to cutting out certain music, here’s what’s been on our hearts lately.New episodes every Sunday at 8pm.

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47:48

Life After Marriage & Kids in Your 30's

Nobody Asked Us ·

2025/06/17

So what really changes after you get married and have kids? We sit down in our 30s to unpack it all: how our immune systems have taken a nosedive and how everything from sleep training to diaper bags became our new reality. We chat about how friendships change, why date nights feel like a distant memory, and the guilt and joy that come with planning every move around two wild toddlers. We even share why waiting to have kids in our 30s made all the difference, from emotional readiness to financial

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