x

75% of people globally want unbiased news (Pew Research) but are concerned they're not getting that.

Get balanced coverage with Symby. See how stories are covered across diverse outlets and spot when one side covers a story the other skips.

PODCAST

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

Sony Music Entertainment

Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise. On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools

society & culture relationships

All Episodes

10:04

Introducing: How to Date

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2025/02/03

Looking for love or navigating the modern dating world? We've got just the thing! How to Date is your ultimate guide to the highs, lows, and everything in between of modern romance. Hosted by broadcaster and author Elizabeth Day and relationship expert Mel Schilling, this podcast masterclass dives deep into the complexities of finding connection in today’s world.Whether you're decoding dating apps, breaking old patterns, or building confidence, Elizabeth and Mel are here to help—with humour,

en

23:05

Endings Make Way For New Beginnings

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/06/21

The last hurrah! Thank you SO much for supporting the podcast and sending in all your dilemmas, icks, confessions and red flags over the past year. This podcast couldn't have happened without you! This final episode not only looks at the usual icks and confessions but also at the great things you've achieved over the last year. Thank you and keep following @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram for more content. A Sony Music Entertainment production. Find more great podcasts from Sony Music

en

22:59

Where Can I Find A Life Partner?

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/06/19

It's the final agony aunt episode!! Lala takes a look at your latest dilemmas like what to do when a man is masturbating in public and how best to approach the topic of an absent father when you share a child. Plus Lala looks at where we should really be looking to meet life partners. If you've been a victim of assualt you can find help and support at https://www.victimsupport.org.uk/ A Sony Music Entertainment production. Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at

en

30:55

Wokefish and Brocialists

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/06/17

Voting registration closes tomorrow and your vote counts! If you're confused about who to vote for you're not alone but that doesn't mean you shouldn't vote. And what about dating someone who has different political views to you or doesn't think voting is important? Lala faced this in a past romantic relationship and took matters in to her own hands. Plus look out for the wokefish and brosialists. Register to vote here: www.gov.ukregister-to-vote If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in

en

22:47

Lala's Confession

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/06/14

It's Friday confessions and you guys have been up to all sorts...like being fingered by a co-worker when you're pregnant with your boyfriends baby (!), preventing your cheating exes friend from getting a job AND having sex with people in front of your husband. Plus one of you asked this week if you are a red flag and Lala ends the episode with a confession of her own. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape

en

21:25

Put Off By Pubes

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/06/12

Being made to feel disgusting because of pubic hair, worrying about cutting off contact with someone who is suicidal and your long term partner is texting another woman. Lala gives her two cents on your love and relationship dilemmas. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! If you're a victim of abuse you can find support at helpline@womensaid.org.uk If you or anyone you know is feeling

en

25:39

The Other Side of Cosmetic Surgery

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/06/10

Following on from the conversation with Ashley and Lauren from the Nip, Tuck, Not Giving A... podcast, Lala delves deeper into the problematic side to cosmetic surgery and the conflicting feelings it can bring up. She opens up about her own insecurities when it comes to looking good and her body image and asks should we be embracing this industry or rebelling against it?If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic

en

25:29

Ghosted so I put them on Grindr

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/06/07

It's confessions Friday and you lot haven't been holding back... From identifying with Martha from Baby Reindeer to getting ghosted and putting their photos on Grindr, to sleeping with all your flatmates AND the landlord... Lala shares her thoughts on your sectrets. Plus he won't post you on his main feed, he comments on his daughters body and all five ex girlfriends have cheated on him - is it a red flag??If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and

en

22:12

Do Groomers Know They're Grooming?

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/06/05

Do groomers understand the control they have over their victims? Is smashing plates normal behaviour if I have PMDD? How would you cope co-living with an ex? Lala tackles your questions this week.Lucy Faithfull Foundation: https://www.lucyfaithfull.org.uk/ ACTS Fast: https://www.actsfast.org.uk/ Rights Of Women: https://www.rightsofwomen.org.uk/ If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape

en

25:15

WIll I Ever Have Sex Again? With Sofie Hagen

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/06/03

Sofie Hagen is a Danish comedian, podcaster, fat acceptance campaigner, and author of the new book, Will I Ever Have Sex Again?. In this conversation, Lala speaks with Sofie about the challenges many people face in having the sex they desire, the complexities of dating for fat people, and the importance of honesty in body image discussions. They also delve into Sofie's thoughts on the term "involuntarily celibate" and explore their theory on the four stages of saying no. If you'd like to ask

en

20:01

Menstrual Cup and Chilli in Yoga Pants confessions

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/05/31

Father Lala is here to absolve you of all your recent confessions and sins. From wiping your nether regions with a sock, to rubbing chilli in your ex's yoga pants. Lala digs into your confessions. Plus your red flag questions are answered, such as, is it a red flag if he's a drug dealer? Or Is it a red flag that he's asked me not to speak to other men? Lala calls out your relationship red flags.If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's

en

14:41

Your Mum Texting Your Ex

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/05/29

Lala breaks down your latest dating dilemmas. From an ex boyfriend who enjoyed swinging and sex parties, to educating men on their cat calling behaviour and a mum that is contacting an ex against your will. Get involved in the conversation over on Lala's socials. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music

en

21:44

Ask A Bloke Part 2

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/05/27

Lala puts more of your 'Ask a Bloke' questions to Kae Kurd and Marcus Bronzy from the Haven't Got a Clue podcast. You asked, do guys show thier friends nudes you've sent them? Where are the single, emotionally available men hanging out these days? And do you care what a vulva looks like? And listen, it doesn't matter what the opposite sex thinks, but sometimes it's nice to know. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this

en

25:50

Ask a Bloke Part 1

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/05/24

Lala chats to Kae Kurd and Marcus Bronzy, hosts of Ain't Got A Clue podcast. She gives them the 'bear or man' in a forest scenario and puts your 'ask a bloke' questions to them. From 'what is it about sex that makes men cheat and lie for it ?' to 'when your naked are you thinking about her body or yours?'. Join us on Monday for part 2! If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music

en

20:18

Rate My D**k!

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/05/22

Turning 30 and suddenly being seen as wife material, your partner paying for someone to rate his d**k on Only Fans. Plus, dumped by your boyfriend ,via text, after unprotected sex, when trying for a baby AND given no explanation! Wow! Lala tries to make sense of your latest sex and relationship dilemmas. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find

en

26:46

Danny Dyer's Toxic Masculinity Documentary

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/05/20

After Danny Dyer's documentary 'Where Toxic Masculinity Comes From', Lala received masses of dm's from you wanting to know her opinion on it. So here it is. Lala breaks down the documentary, she discusses why it was important that it was made but also where it totally missed out on challenging problematic issues and opinions. Unlike Danny's conclusion that there is a war on men and that everyone sees masculinity as a bad thing, Lala observes that toxic masculinity is alive and kicking and a result

en

23:07

Sleeping With Two Brothers

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/05/17

It's Friday and that means it's time to get all your secrets and sins off your chest. From sleeping with two brothers at the same time to sleeping with someone you just don't fancy. Lala gets into all your latest confessions. Plus, he loves a strip club and he wants to reconnect with a female friend - is it a red flag? And head into your weekend right with your Friday night reminder. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this

en

19:26

Frightened of Forty

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/05/15

Lala has got all your sex, relationship, dating and life dilemmas and she's ready to answer them. From anxiety about letting go and trusting in a new relationship to feeling insecure about his erectile dysfunction and worrying about being a failure when turning 40. This agony aunt tells it to you straight. If you'd like to ask Lala a question get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find

en

27:55

Valuing Different Views with Africa Brooke

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/05/13

Lala speaks to Africa Brooke the globally recognised consultant, mentor and speaker and who has a new book out 'The Third Persepctive'. She went viral for her letter 'While I'm Leaving The Cult of Wokeness' where she rebuked the notion that because she is a black woman she is opressed. She encourages Lala to challenge some of her own beliefs and thoughts and feels without Africa's input on important topics such as trolling and cancel culture it would be a space less understood and debated. Their

en

24:03

Always Arguing with Sarah Jayne Dunn (Formally Mandy...

It"s Not You, It"s Them...But It Might Be You with... ·

2024/05/10

Lala talks to actor and podcaster, Sarah Jayne Dunn. Sarah was controversially let go from her long running role as Mandy in Hollyoaks after revealing she had set up an Only Fans page. They discuss Sarah's experience of using an often misunderstood platform and how having such a public life from a young age affected her dating experiences. Plus, always arguing in the early stages of a relationship and not being introduced to your partners child, Lala and Sarah answer some of your dating

en

150 results

Similar Podcasts

The Daily Horoscope

The Daily Horoscope

The Michael Decon Program

Michael Decon

Kalimera Koveos

Andrea Koveos

The Documentary Podcast

BBC World Service

Smarter leben

DER SPIEGEL