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PODCAST

The Secure Husband

M. Bruce Abbott, M.A, CPC

A Secure Husband no longer seeks validation from his wife—he stands strong in self-worth, meets his own emotional needs, and leads with confidence and clarity. I’ve been where you are, and I’m here to help you break free from old patterns, reclaim your strength, and transform your marriage from the inside out.

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All Episodes

9:42

Why She Isn't Into Sex As Much As You Are.

The Secure Husband ·

2025/05/24

You want sex. She doesn’t.You feel confused, rejected, and maybe even ashamed.You wonder:“Why doesn’t she want me like I want her?”“Is something wrong with me… or her?”In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we explain what’s really going on when your wife isn’t as interested in sex — and why it doesn’t mean she’s broken or you’re not enough.Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:✅ Why men and women experience sex differently✅ How stress and hormones affect your wife’s desire✅ Why

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11:10

The Problem With Giving To Get: Unspoken Deals That...

The Secure Husband ·

2025/05/22

You do something nice.You help around the house.You give a compliment or say “I love you.”But deep down, you’re hoping she gives something back — maybe sex, affection, or appreciation.That’s called giving to get, and it’s ruining your connection.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we break down:What “giving to get” really meansWhy your wife feels confused or pressuredHow to stop scorekeeping and start leading with honestyWhy hidden expectations are hurting your marriageIn this

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9:24

Stop Guilt-Tripping Her About Sex — It’s Not Bringing...

The Secure Husband ·

2025/05/20

If you’ve ever said:“Why don’t you want me?”“You never initiate anymore.”“You’d have sex with me if you really loved me…”This episode is for you.Guilt does not create intimacy. It creates pressure.And pressure pushes her away — every single time.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we explain why guilt never works, what’s really going on underneath your words, and how to build real connection without using shame, blame, or emotional pressure.This video will help you:✅ Understand

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8:35

Self Love is Not Selfish Nor Narcissistic

The Secure Husband ·

2025/05/18

You’ve been told real men always sacrifice. That setting boundaries is cold. That taking care of yourself is selfish.But here’s the truth:Self love is not selfish. Self love is not narcissistic. Self love is strength.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we unpack a lie many men were raised to believe — that putting yourself first means you're doing something wrong. You’ll learn why loving yourself is actually the most loving thing you can do for your marriage.This video will help

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9:52

Different Woman, Same Wounds: Why the Next...

The Secure Husband ·

2025/05/16

Thinking about starting over with someone new?Feeling tired, disconnected, or done with your marriage?This episode is your wake-up call.In today’s video, we talk about a truth most men miss:👉 You can leave your marriage...👉 You can find someone new who laughs at your jokes and wants you again...👉 But if you don’t heal your inner wounds — the next relationship will end up just like this one.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, you’ll learn:✅ Why the next woman feels so good — at

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9:15

You May Be Able to Live Without Affection, But I Can't

The Secure Husband ·

2025/05/14

If you feel starved without touch… you’re not weak.You’re human.This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast is for the man who feels like he can’t live without affection. You feel the pain of not being hugged, held, or touched — and it’s starting to feel like you’re falling apart.In this video, we break down:Why affection is a real, valid need — not a weaknessWhen craving touch becomes emotional survivalHow to stop letting her affection define your worthWhat to do when she pulls away and you

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8:51

Yes, You're Each 100% Responsible for Your Own...

The Secure Husband ·

2025/05/13

You are the only one in charge of your happiness.But your energy still shapes your marriage every single day.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we break down the truth that many men miss:You can’t make your wife happy — but your words, actions, and attitude affect her deeply.When you lead yourself with strength, peace, and purpose…You create an emotional space where love, trust, and joy can grow again.👊 In this video, you’ll learn:Why chasing her affection kills connectionHow

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11:14

Understanding Your Wife's Desire: Why It Changed

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2025/05/10

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9:58

If I Stop Chasing Her, Am I Giving Up on Sex and...

The Secure Husband ·

2025/05/08

You’re tired of chasing your wife.Tired of being the one who always reaches out first.Tired of feeling unwanted, unheard, and unseen.So you’re asking the question:“If I stop trying, am I giving up on intimacy?”This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast gives you the answer — in clear, honest, simple language.You’re not giving up.You’re giving up the pressure.And that is what gives intimacy a chance to grow again.▶️ In this episode, you’ll learn:Why chasing creates distance, not desireWhat

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10:22

It’s Not Love — It’s Neediness

The Secure Husband ·

2025/05/06

Do you feel like you're being loving, but she feels smothered? It's neediness, not love.This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast will challenge what you think love looks like. If you find yourself giving affection but getting distance in return, this is for you.Here’s what we cover:✅ Why your “love” might actually be emotional neediness✅ How insecurity from childhood can show up in marriage✅ Why pressure, jealousy, and clinginess push her away✅ How to stop chasing and start loving from

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8:39

Why You Feel Lonely in Your Marriage (And What It’s...

The Secure Husband ·

2025/05/04

Do you feel lonely in your marriage — like you live with your wife, but you feel invisible?You’re not broken. You’re not weak. You’re not crazy.But the truth is, the loneliness isn’t just about her pulling away…It’s about a part of you that you’ve left behind.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we show you why you feel disconnected — and how healing your inner boy is the first step to bringing real connection, safety, and love back into your life.You’ll learn how to:✅ Understand

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10:03

How Do I Reconnect With My Wife Without Chasing?

The Secure Husband ·

2025/05/02

You love your wife. You still want to hold her. You want to feel close again — but every time you reach for her, she pulls away.If you’ve asked yourself,“How do I reconnect without chasing or pressuring her?”this episode is for you.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we walk through a clear, step-by-step process to help you reconnect with your wife — not by begging, but by healing.You’ll learn how to:✅ Offer love without needing a response✅ Heal the part of you that feels

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13:15

Your Wife Cannot Be Your God: Why You Need a Higher...

The Secure Husband ·

2025/04/30

If your peace rises and falls based on your wife’s mood...If you feel rejected, worthless, or unloved when she pulls away...You may be looking to your wife for something she was never meant to give.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we explain why no woman — even a great wife — can be your emotional source, and what happens when she feels the pressure to be everything for you.We’ll walk step-by-step through The Secure Husband Process, a clear six-part path to help you:✅ Stop

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13:25

Stop Having 'The Talk': Why Begging for Sex Is...

The Secure Husband ·

2025/04/28

You’ve been thinking about it.You’re hurt.You’re about to have “the talk” with your wife:“We never have sex anymore.”“Why don’t you initiate?”“I feel unwanted.”Sound familiar?This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast explains why those talks often backfire — and how chasing, begging, and emotional pressure actually drive intimacy away.This isn’t about blaming you. It’s about helping you lead.In this episode, we walk through The Secure Husband Process — a six-step plan to:✔ Stop the

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12:47

Your Wife Says She's Done With The Marriage - What Do...

The Secure Husband ·

2025/04/26

If your wife says she’s done… but hasn’t left yet — this episode is for you.Maybe she’s checked out. She’s cold, distant, and barely speaks to you.She says things like:“I’m tired.”“I don’t think this is working.”“I don’t feel anything anymore.”You know you pushed her away — maybe through distance, control, neglect, or emotional chaos.And now you want to fix it… but she’s already almost gone.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, you’ll get a clear step-by-step plan for what to do

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9:46

She Hasn’t Initiated Sex in 10 Years — Now What?

The Secure Husband ·

2025/04/24

If your wife hasn’t initiated sex in years, you’re not alone — and you’re not broken.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we tackle one of the hardest and most painful topics in marriage: feeling unwanted and unseen in the bedroom.You’ve been patient. You’ve tried to be loving. You’ve done your best.But nothing has changed. And now you feel rejected, angry, and confused.This episode will show you what to do next — not by blaming your wife or giving up, but by healing the deeper

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12:50

Build a Life, Not a Pedestal: Why Your Wife Should Be...

The Secure Husband ·

2025/04/21

Have you made your wife the center of your world?Are you losing yourself trying to hold the marriage together?In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we’re talking to men who’ve built their identity around their wife—and now feel empty, resentful, or stuck when the connection fades.Your wife should be a gift in your life, not the reason you feel worthy.And the truth is—if she’s your whole foundation, it’s only a matter of time before it cracks.Here’s what you’ll learn in this

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13:49

Why Your Marriage Feels So Hard — Even When You’re...

The Secure Husband ·

2025/04/19

You show up. You try hard. You do everything “right.”So why does your marriage still feel so hard?If you're a good man who helps, listens, gives, and shows up every day—but still feels unwanted, unseen, or unappreciated—this episode is for you.In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce breaks down why things feel so heavy even when you're doing everything you're supposed to do. He shows you how working from fear, unhealed wounds, or people-pleasing keeps you stuck, and how to

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12:43

When You're Stuck In Your Marriage: Do I Stay? Do I...

The Secure Husband ·

2025/04/16

Feeling stuck in your marriage? You're not alone. Maybe you're not in crisis—but you're not happy either. The love feels distant. You're living like roommates. And you're caught between two painful options:👉 “Should I stay and suffer?”👉 “Should I leave and wreck everything?”This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast is for men who feel lost in that in-between space. There’s no clear answer, but there is a path forward. And it doesn’t start with your wife—it starts with you.In this

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10:52

You're Not Weak, You're Wounded | Why Some Men Don't...

The Secure Husband ·

2025/04/15

Have you ever been called "too emotional" or "needy"? Maybe you've felt ashamed because you care deeply, want connection, and struggle when your wife pulls away. If so, this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast is for you.You are not weak. You are wounded—and wounded doesn’t mean broken. It means there’s something inside you that needs healing, not hiding.In this episode, Bruce Abbott breaks down:✔️ Why some men mock emotional strength✔️ How childhood pain shapes how you react in

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