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The Openlove101 Show

John & Jackie Melfi

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we"re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the

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10:36

Sharing Your Partner is OK

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/01/16

#107 How the heck can I watch my partner with someone else and be ok with it? This is a very common question for those who are getting into the lifestyle and haven't tried it before. And for some people who do try it, they have negative feelings and wonder how that can dissipate and transform into compersion for their partner. We talk about all that and more in this video!

09:42

Swinging is Fun

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/01/09

#106 We talk a lot about the deep emotional side of swinging - jealousy, fear, etc., so today we'd go the opposite direction and talk about the fun and lighter side of swinging and being in an open relationship.

08:45

Establishing Defined Boundaries in your open...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/12/26

#104 In part 1 of our discussion on boundaries, we talked about the importance and nuances of creating them. In this part 2, we're going to talk about the transition into re-establishing boundaries. This is where a month or two and some playdates have gone by and now it's time to look back at what worked and what didn't work, how do we make our box bigger, smaller, or different, and what really to do next now that you've come this far.

15:06

John and Jackie Exploring the Swinging Lifestyle:...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/12/19

#103 In this episode of "Ask John and Jackie" they will engage with questions from their audience, providing valuable insights and advice on topics related to the swinger lifestyle. They cover a range of questions, from entering the lifestyle as a single individual to the importance of discussing and revisiting boundaries within a relationship. " There's no rigid rule in a swinger club that says you have to do something. You can do whatever you want to do." Jackie

10:04

Establishing Defined Boundaries in your open...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/12/12

#102 What's the big deal about boundaries one might say? Well, it could lead to a disaster in the start of your open relationship before it even begins.

18:58

Our Sexual Journey in the Swinging Lifestyle: The...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/12/05

#101 In this episode, John and Jackie share their personal experiences in the swinger lifestyle, discussing both the positive and challenging aspects. They talk about how they got started in the lifestyle, navigating open relationships, and the growth of their own relationship over the years. "Being invested in a long-term relationship doesn't preclude having an open exciting dynamic." John

10:08

Your Open Relationship will FAIL Without This

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/11/28

#100 Whatever spectrum of the lifestyle you're playing at, let's say everything is sailing smoothly...until... You hit those rough waters. Maybe it's a playdate that went wrong. Maybe it's taking a step too far past a boundary. Maybe it's a nasty emotion that rears its ugly head that you weren't prepared for. So what do you do now? Watch this video so that you know what to do when the time comes (because it will).

12:49

Swinger Lifestyle Secrets: How to Maximize Your Hotel...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/11/21

#99 In this episode John and Jackie explore the exciting world of hotel takeovers within the swinger lifestyle. They discuss the preparation, expectations, and experiences that come with attending these unique events. From themed parties to meeting new people, they share their insights to ensure listeners make the most of their hotel takeover experiences.

07:25

Emotional Attachments

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/11/14

#98 Is it true that men don't get emotionally attached after sex? Which means they're better at open relationships than women? Interesting questions/claims posed by one of our Podcast listeners that we will be discussing!

20:14

Navigating Boundaries & Threesomes in Open Relationships

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/11/07

#97 In todays episode John and Jackie discuss the complexities of navigating boundaries in open relationships,particularly when it comes to overnight stays with other partners. They share their personal experiences and offer valuable insights into building trust, open communication, and respecting individual comfort levels within the swinging lifestyle.

11:34

Excitement and Anxiety of Being in Open Relationships

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/10/31

The lifestyle can be quite the rollercoaster ride. One day on your elated on cloud nine and really excited about getting into the lifestyle. The next day you have anxiety about whether this was the right/proper thing to do. (I'm sure my religious upbringing had something to do with it.) So how do I explore my sexuality now? Today we talk about this topic and what to do.

11:07

WATCH THIS before you start an open relationship...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/10/17

#95 Today we answer a doozy of a question in our video. It's a great question actually that we've certainly gone through and you may too. Here's the situation: My wife and I have been married for some time and we recently opened our relationship. I was the one who brought her into this and of course I'm the one who is overcome with jealousy. And it's not the sex part. Seeing her physically with another man doesn't bother me. It's the emotional part that bothers me. I find myself overcome with

20:43

Misconceptions About Consensual Non-Monogamous...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/10/10

#94 In this episode, John and Jackie address common misconceptions about consensually non-monogamous relationships. They explore the misunderstanding that such relationships are solely about sex, debunking this notion and emphasizing that they encompass much more than physical intimacy. John and Jackie also discuss the stereotype that people in the lifestyle have exceptionally high sex drives.

08:57

We own 4 swingers lifestyle clubs.. Here is what to...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/09/19

#93 Question from a viewer for today: We're thinking about going to a lifestyle club. What am I going to expect? My nervousness and fear is that people are going to push me to do things we're not ready yet.

20:48

Threesomes: Everything You Need To Know!

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/09/12

#92 In this episode, John and Jackie dive into the exciting world of threesomes, offering guidance on how to introduce the idea to your partner and ensure that everyone has an amazing experience. They share their own experiences and offer insights on building trust, communication, and making the transition from fantasy to reality.

12:12

How to talk about playing at swinger clubs & parties

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/09/05

#91 So you've proudly mustered up the courage to go to a club or party for the first, started a conversation with a random stranger/couple, and you and your partner are interested in playing. Now what? We've had a couple of guest speakers at our webinars talk about this subject and now it's our turn! :)

21:08

15 Secret Signs You Are a Swinger

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/08/29

90 The pineapple is a commonly recognized symbolism for swingers, but are there more "signs" out there we're not aware of? What about garden gnomes or flamingos? Red ball caps or loofahs? We share our insight on which signs are legitimate, and which signs may just be misconceptions. You won't want to miss today's episode!

11:22

Swingers Lifestyle & Different Levels of Experience

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/08/22

#89 How do you best navigate your relationship if one partner has more experience than the other? How do you go about in your relationship if your partner is on a (much) different experience level as you? To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit httyp://www.openlove101.com

11:38

Open Relationship Communication: Dos and Dont's

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/08/14

#88 Have you ever started a conversation about your relationship in a civil and cordial manner... And then things quickly took a turn for the worst and escalated to the point of anger and maybe bad words? Well, you're not alone because we've had those types of "conversations" before. So how do you navigate through that? Let's discuss!

08:42

Diversity of labels in open lifestyle

The Openlove101 Show ·

2023/08/06

#87 - At our colette lifestyle clubs, we're starting to see more and more people with diverse desires (and hence labels) in their open relationship. Many years ago, it was just the term "swinger" and that encompassed practically all of us. However, these days it's a whole lot different with many new terms as this beautiful relationship model is continuously evolving. So which "label" are you? To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

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