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Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships

Wendy Conquest, Dan Drake, Jeanne Vattuone, and Tim Stein invite guests to join an ongoing conversation about sex, addiction, and relationships. Wendy, Dan, Jeanne, and Tim are experts in the fields of sex addiction, betrayal trauma, and trauma resolution.

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05:37

Is This You? How to Recognize Signs of a Toxic...

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/10/10

Ever wondered if you're in a toxic relationship? In this video, Janie breaks down the key signs to look for—like obsessive behavior, emotional roller coasters, and the painful cycle of trying to leave but being pulled back. She also touches on the common misconception of narcissism and how it impacts relationships. If you've ever felt trapped in unhealthy relationship patterns, this video is for you. Stay tuned for our full episode with Dr. Janie Lacy.

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05:23

From Trauma to Healing: Dr.Janie Lacy's Journey into...

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/10/08

Dr. Janie Lacy shares how her career in counseling began, sparked by a pivotal experience with a young client who survived sexual assault. This led her to explore trauma, love addiction, and eventually join the CSAT community. Subscribe for more insightful conversations and empowering stories! Stay tuned for our full episode with Dr. Janie Lacy.

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33:45

Sex Addiction Therapists Get Real

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/09/27

In this episode, they provide insight into how we balance empathy, accountability, and challenge while working with addicts. We explore the complexities of detecting deception, handling relapses, and creating safe spaces for clients to share their struggles. This candid conversation offers a deep dive into the nuances of therapy for sex addiction and the transformative power of recovery.

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05:42

Why We Love Working with Sex Addicts?

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/09/25

Working with sex addicts can be deeply challenging but also incredibly rewarding. In this discussion, we share our experiences and perspectives on why we are passionate about this specialty. The work isn't just about addressing sexual dysfunction or relational issues; it's about guiding people through their journey of healing, transformation, and self-restoration. We talk about the privilege of being trusted to help clients navigate their shame, trauma, and pain, and how we help them turn these dark

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05:18

Quick Conversations: Balancing Empathy and...

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/09/23

The discussion also touches on balancing empathy with accountability. While it's important to avoid shaming the client, it's equally essential not to minimize their relapse. The approach includes both encouragement and challenge, analyzing what happened and identifying steps to prevent future relapses. The goal is to help clients harness feelings of regret as motivation for change, without letting them fall into a deep shame spiral. This balanced approach seems to foster more open communication

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23:09

Mailbag: Relapse and Recovery With Sex Addiction

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/09/20

Today’s mailbag episode tackles a complex question from a listener about relapse and recovery. The question revolves around the pain of discovering a partner’s hidden sex addiction and the struggle with the concept that relapse is part of recovery. We explore whether relapse is acceptable or justifiable, discuss the impact on partners, and delve into the accountability of sex addicts. We address the idea that while relapse can occur, it’s not an excuse for continued harmful behavior. Our discussion

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05:10

Would the treatment for sex addiction differ if most...

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/09/18

Would the treatment for sex addiction differ if most addicts were women instead of men?Clinically, the model remains the same for both genders, holding all addicts to the same standards of recovery. However, societal perceptions often differ, giving different leniencies to men and women. While the treatment approach focuses on ""progress, not perfection"" for everyone, societal and partner reactions to addiction and relapse can vary based on gender dynamics. Stay tuned for our future video!

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04:50

Is Relapse an Excuse? The Hard Truth About Addiction,...

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/09/16

In our latest discussion, we explore the complex issue of addiction, relapse, and recovery, particularly in the context of sex addiction. The central question is whether it is ""okay"" for a sex addict to cause harm to their partner and family, with the justification that ""relapse is part of recovery."" While relapse may occur for some addicts, it is not ""okay"" or an excuse for harmful behavior. There is a distinction between sobriety and recovery; sobriety is the starting point, and recovery

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25:16

Technology's Influence on Relationships

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/09/13

Join us for an insightful discussion on the double-edged sword of technology in today's world, featuring Tim Stein, Jeannie Vittoni, Dan Drake, and Wendy Conquest. In this episode, we dive into how technology shapes our lives and relationships, the impact it has on our brain chemistry and development, and the challenges we face in staying truly connected. Drawing insights from an interview with Dr. Pat Carnes, we explore topics like screen time, social isolation, and the addictive nature of our

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05:12

Quick Conversations: Are we happier with cell phones

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/09/11

Did you know that 39% of Americans report feeling lonely or lacking significant relationships? In today's episode, we explore the growing sense of isolation and disconnection many of us feel in our technology-driven world. From walking our dogs while glued to our phones to missing out on real-life interactions, we're slowly burying ourselves in our devices. We discuss an alarming trend: the inverse relationship between a country's wealth (GDP) and its happiness levels. Stay tuned for our future

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05:12

Quick Conversations: Don't Touch My Phone

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/09/09

Have you ever thought about how often you reach for your phone daily? In this episode, we dive into our growing attachment to technology—phones, computers, and beyond. Stay tuned for our future episode.

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31:14

Healing From Sexual Betrayal with Dr. Barbara...

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/08/09

Today, we are thrilled to host Barbara Steffens, a trailblazer in betrayal trauma research. Barbara shares her groundbreaking PhD study, which revealed that nearly 70% of betrayed partners met the criteria for PTSD. Discover how her work has reshaped the understanding of betrayal trauma and the treatment of affected partners. Don't miss this insightful discussion with a true pioneer in the field.

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05:07

Quick Conversations: How Is Trauma Recognized In...

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/08/06

In this video, we explore the early days of recognizing trauma in betrayed partners, particularly focusing on the impact of infidelity. Dr. Barbara Steffens shares her journey, highlighting the anxiety and determination she felt while presenting their groundbreaking work around 2006-2008. Stay tuned for our upcoming full-length video soon.

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02:12

Quick Conversations: What Happens To Partners Who...

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/08/04

In our latest episode, we speak on the groundbreaking PhD study that explores whether partners who were betrayed experienced trauma and to what degree. With a background in trauma and crisis intervention, we discuss with Dr. Barbara Steffens, PhD, BCC, CCPS, CPC, a researcher set out to understand this dynamic beyond the traditional labels of co-addiction and codependency. Stay tuned for our full episode.

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47:29

Conversations: Betrayal Violence with Hope Raye

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/06/24

Welcome to Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships with Dan Drake and guests Wendy Conquest, Jeannie Vittone, and Tim Stein. Today, they delve into the challenging topic of betrayal violence with therapist and magazine creator Hope Ray. Hope introduces the concept, defining betrayal violence as a complex dynamic involving secrecy, repeated fidelity violations, and abusive behavior.

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05:42

Quick Conversations: Men Support Groups

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/06/21

In this insightful conversation, Hope Ray discusses her work with men in a support group called Getting Dire Straight, where they delve into sensitive topics like male entitlement and misogyny.

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05:11

Quick Conversations: What are the dynamics of...

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/06/17

In this episode, we speak with special guest Hope Ray on the dynamics of power and control in relationships affected by addiction and betrayal. We discuss how withholding essential information creates a power imbalance and restricts a partner's agency, ultimately leading to exploitation and harm. The conversation emphasizes the importance of transparency and informed consent in rebuilding trust and fostering healthy relationships post-recovery.

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42:22

Conversations: Dating After A Break Up

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/06/14

In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, we discuss the topic of dating for partners after a relationship ends. We explore the challenges faced by partners when relationships don't work out, emphasizing the lack of conversation and support for those navigating life after a breakup or divorce.

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04:51

Quick Conversations: Why Is It Important To Have A...

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/06/10

In this discussion, we delve into offering guidance for betrayed partners re-entering the dating scene post-recovery. We emphasize the importance of building a supportive social network before diving into dating. Self-exploration and identity formation are key steps to feeling confident and secure before seeking new relationships. Instead of viewing trust and safety as binary, we encourage seeing them as degrees, allowing for gradual progress.

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05:31

Quick Conversations: Betrayed Partners & Dating Scene...

Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships ·

2024/06/07

In this discussion, we explore the challenges of readiness and intimacy for betrayed partners entering the dating scene post-recovery. We challenge the cultural pressure to rush into sexual encounters and advocate for a more deliberate approach to building emotional connections. By reframing the question to focus on compatibility and emotional safety, we highlight the importance of self-awareness and setting boundaries.

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