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Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.

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9. Dating Apps, Meeting IRL, and Seeking Compatibility

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2021/12/02

This week, we cover all the basics of dating and finding kinky people to play with. First, Lina covers the FAQs of dating app profiles – what to do if you’re looking for your ideal Dom(me), how to signal to people that you’re kinky without screaming “I’M A SUB” (but also totally cool to do this too), and how to connect from there. Next, Lina offers tools and criteria to navigate how to safely transition from apps to IRL to explore your kinks. And finally, Lina serves up some radical advice while

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8. Survivors, Loneliness, and a Cucking Treat

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2021/11/18

CW for the Episode: Assault–please skip to 16:14 to go straight to question 2. Lina starts this week’s episode by talking about how trauma informs Kink and BDSM, and the healing aspect that can come along with it. But big spoiler alert, there is no magical cure for trauma. And that’s okay! In fact, your trauma doesn’t need to even be involved with your Kinkiness at all if you so choose. Next up, Lina covers what loneliness can look like in BDSM and the self-shaming tendencies we have towards

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7. CNC, Empowered Collaring, and Protocol For Open...

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2021/11/04

CW for the Episode: CNC–please skip to 13:50 to go straight to question 2. This week, Lina breaks down Consensual Non-Consent – what it is, where the fantasy comes from, and how to safely proceed in play while still feeling seen and taken care of. Her secret?Starting slow. Lina then pivots to BDSM collaring, how it has changed over time, what it means now, and what it signifies to you and your dynamic. Over at Ask a Sub HQ, we personally love collars so strap in for your options and permission to do

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29:43

6. Opening Up, People Pleasing and Kink Shame

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2021/10/21

This week on the table of sub wisdom is something a lot of subs historically have a past with – people pleasing. There is no magic solution, but Lina does her best to unpack it like the classic algebra problems that we definitely don’t miss from highschool (but can we all agree that sexy problem-solving would have made the class a whole lot more fun?) Like what if “X” was monogamy and “Y” was kink–how do we get to “Z”?? And how about if “X” is people pleasing, and “Z” is being a Good sub, what is

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26:56

5. Social Stigmas, Sub Drop, and D/s with Roommates

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2021/10/07

This week, Lina takes on Society at Large! Hear her thoughts on how to navigate the social stigma around BDSM culture – especially turning those “oh, that’s not normal” comments into something more expansive and inclusive. Lina then digs into those shamey sub drop feels that society and culture have reinforced in our spongy brains and how to retrain your thoughts and be gentle with yourself in those moments. She’s also serving up a hot take on countering toxic positivity, especially in the

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4. Sub Frenzy, Safe Words, And The Myth Of The Top...

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2021/09/23

This week, Lina goes straight into what it feels like to find a new Dom(me)–what it means to navigate the feels of frenzy and swooning, and is it possible to balance leaning in and not overextending yourself? (Spoiler alert: it is!) She also covers the basics of subspace, the power and security of Safe Words, what nonverbal Safe Words can look like in practice, and why the word “No” is so intense and scary sometimes. And finally, Lina yells from the top of the BDSM mountain that there is

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3. Fake Doms, Real Doms, And How Can Submission Be...

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2021/09/09

On this week’s episode, Lina tackles the foundational questions of who are Dom(me)s? What do they get out of D/s, and how does trauma play into everything? What about Fake Doms? What are they and how does one *not* be a Fake Dom–especially on dating apps? And finally, Lina addresses the age old question: can you be a feminist *and* a submissive? 💖 Let us be the part of society that tells you your kinks are okay, your wants are valid and they can be so, so much fun! Have a question about BDSM,

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2. Aftercare, Mindful Bratting, & The Vanilla Misery...

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2021/08/26

In today’s episode Lina goes in deep on what aftercare is and how to incorporate it with all kinds of people and all kinds of sex. She also covers some ways to build and structure a dynamic from scratch – in particular punishment, funishment, and the glory of being a Brat. Finally, Lina discusses the spectrum between vanilla and kink relationships and how to adapt and grow within those rainbow shades of intimacy 💖 Let's be the part of society that tells you your kinks are okay, your wants are

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1. My Submission Journey, Orgasm Control, And Advice...

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2021/08/11

Ready to demystify kink and head out into the world? In this episode, Lina talks about her own history with submission and how she decided 24/7 lifestyle D/s was for her. What do you do if you know you're kinky but not sure what comes next? What about that important thing called aftercare? Lina goes over the basics, the nuances of orgasm control, and also how to enter the dating world as a third looking for respectful, fulfilling and fun play. 💖 Let us be the part of society that tells you your

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