We all, as human beings with complex emotions, have a basic need to feel validated. But what about when your teenager comes to you with an attitude or idea that you don't agree with? We know we as parents probably shouldn't say yes and jump right in every time. When we immediately jump into the conversation with things like accusation, annoyance, giving our own opinion immediately, etc. we are probably going to feel like the enemy. But when we lead with love and validate our kids' feelings, it helps
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