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The Kink Perspective

The Kink Perspective

The Kink Perspective looks at BDSM through psychology, not performance. It’s an honest examination of power, connection, and what really shapes relationships inside kink, without romanticizing dysfunction or avoiding hard truths. Hosted by Chris, trauma-specific consultant and psychotherapist with more than two decades of lifestyle experience. Donate Here Sponsorship inquiries: Thekinkperspective@gmail.com

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00:52:40

Season 2 Episode 57 - Special Episode on Findoms...

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2023/12/23

On this episode, I dive into the controversial realm of financial domination, examining consensual power dynamics, the rise of scams, and the perils of addiction within the Findom community. I discuss the intricate interplay of desires and potential harm in this unconventional world of those who may fall prey to deceptive practices, and have their addictive personalities exploited, and more. Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are

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00:26:07

Season 2 - It's a Wrap...

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2023/12/19

On this episode, I wrap up 2023. Go over the growth of the show thanks to the community, how much people have begun to listen, and what this has meant to me. Thank you for being on this journey with me. Have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, I will see you all in 2024! Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach

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00:22:30

Season 2 Episode 55 - BDSM and Limits of Self...

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2023/12/12

On this episode, I explore the intricate dynamics of limits of self and growth. The crucial role in fostering self-awareness and psychological resilience. I discuss the exploration of emotional well-being, and the collective human connections within the lifestyle itself. Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach

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01:34:30

Season 2 Episode 54 - Consent Framework Discussion...

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2023/12/09

On this episode, I sit down with my returning guess, Ms_Kitten_, for a discussion about Kink as a Self-Regulating Model. We look at a consent framework that she uses, which encompasses Autonomy, Capacity, Information, and Boundaries and Agreements. We find our passionate stride on part 1 of this discussion. Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in

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00:26:54

Season 2 Episode 53 - BDSM and Music...

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2023/12/05

On this episode, I discuss the influence of music on our lives, how it enhances the states of those who study or who are athletic and that cross over into the BDSM lifestyle scene. I posit that using music can have the ability to elevate our scenes and draw us in for a deeper connection, and more! Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general,

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00:36:40

Season 2 Episode 52 - BDSM and Attacks on Masculinity...

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2023/11/28

On this episode, I delve into the intricate dynamics of online platforms, exploring the consequences of unchecked criticism of men within the BDSM community. Navigating through the complexities of emasculation, I unravel the far-reaching impact on mental well-being and relationships, advocating for a more nuanced understanding of masculinity. Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the

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00:25:25

Season 2 Episode 51 - BDSM and Self-Esteem...

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2023/11/21

On this episode, I discuss self-esteem and the lifestyle. What it is, how it is connected to the lifestyle, how it affects what we do and the community itself. How we should embrace our insecurities and learn find ways to grow from them, and much more... Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my

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00:36:00

Season 2 Episode 50 - BDSM and Jealousy...

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2023/11/14

On this episode, we embark on a deep exploration of jealousy within alternative relationships. Delving into the complexities of the lifestyle community, we unravel the psychology of jealousy, its nuanced expressions, and effective communication strategies. Drawing insights from real-life scenarios and therapeutic experiences, as we begin to understand this "green monster." I discuss some coping strategies and more along the way... Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show

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01:07:45

Season 2 Episode 49 - Objectification discussion with...

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2023/11/09

On this episode, I sit down with my returning guest, brooke_ish, to discuss the fascinating subject of Objectification in the context of the lifestyle itself. The range and overlap of the areas that Objectification has ties to, the emotional bounds that it can create, and how it plays out in different scene dynamics. *There were a few technical difficulties, I do apologize for that.* Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are looking for a

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00:36:55

Season 2 Episode 48 - BDSM and Relationship Ethics...

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2023/11/07

On this episode, I delve into the fascinating realm of Relationship Ethics. Regardless of our lifestyle choices, whether it's the BDSM community or more conventional connections, the principles of consent, trust, and respect form the very foundation of our relationships. We explore these principles from a psychological perspective, unraveling the psychology of consent, clear communication, and trust, while emphasizing the significance of empathy and respect. If you like my show, please rate 5

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00:34:30

Season 2 Episode 47 - BDSM and Electrical Play...

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2023/11/06

On this episode, I discuss electro-play in the context of BDSM. I discuss what it is, why we are attracted to it, safety, risks, definitions and the emotional and psychological issues that can arise. I also cover some studies that have been conducted on electrical injuries and long term effects and more... If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com I have a

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00:33:25

Season 2 Episode 46 - BDSM and Navigating Rebellion...

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2023/10/31

In this episode, I explore the psychological aspects of rebellion and rejection and their impact on personal relationships and the BDSM lifestyle. I discuss strategies for managing these complex emotions, emphasizing the importance of consent, trust, and boundaries and more... If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com I have a book out, Tangled Desires:

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00:33:55

Season 2 Episode 45 - BDSM and Toys vs the Mind...

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2023/10/24

In this episode, I discuss the captivating world of BDSM, exploring the dynamic interplay between erotic toys and the richness of our minds. I examine the delicate balance between the tangible tools and the boundless potential of the psyche in creating fulfilling experiences. Central to this discussion was the concept that the core of eroticism is deeply rooted in the mind and imagination, underscoring its pivotal role in the BDSM lifestyle. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable

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00:33:16

Season 2 Episode 44 - BDSM and Consent vs Boundaries...

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2023/10/17

On this episode, I delve into the intricate dynamics of consent and boundaries, foundational principles in both the lifestyle community and beyond. Through clear definitions and real-world scenarios, I highlight the crucial distinctions between consent as an agreement and boundaries as personal limits. I navigate the complexities of online communication, emphasizing the importance of understanding consent dynamics within digital spaces. Join me as we unravel misconceptions, explore nuances, and pave

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00:27:35

Season 2 Episode 43 - BDSM and Sexual Affinity vs...

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2023/10/10

On this episode, I discuss embracing our authentic sexuality and the damaging effects of reducing individuals to mere sexual worth. Understanding our desires and boundaries is crucial to mental well-being and self-acceptance. Delving into the psychological aspects, I highlight the detrimental impact of societal objectification on our mental health and relationships. The aim is to advocate for a society that values our complex identities beyond surface judgments. If you are looking for a therapist

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00:28:00

Season 2 Episode 42 - BDSM and Lingering Impact of...

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2023/10/03

On this episode, I delve into the enduring impact of words within relationships, unraveling their potency through poignant narratives. I stress the significance of responsible communication, particularly during emotionally charged moments. Through personal insights, I invite reflection on how our choice of words shapes the narrative of our relationships, and how hurtful words can crumble relationships. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a

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00:25:30

Season 2 Episode 41 - BDSM and Active Listening...

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2023/09/26

On this episode, I take us through the world of active listening—an art beyond hearing, diving into the heart of understanding and connection. Delving into the fundamental principles of active listening, I explore its transformative power in relationships, emphasizing its significance in both everyday interactions and within the nuanced dynamics of the BDSM community. Join me as I unravel the layers of active listening, recognizing its pivotal role in building trust, fostering empathy, and enriching

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00:26:15

Season 2 Episode 40 - BDSM and Eroticism versus Sex...

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2023/09/19

On this episode, I venture into the subtle art of desire, exploring the nuanced realms of eroticism, the raw beauty of sex, and their mixture into the world of BDSM. I discuss how eroticism transcends the physical, teasing the senses and kindling connections. The difference between the sexual and the erotic. And the effect of these two on the lifestyle itself. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach

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00:52:20

Season 2 Episode 39 - BDSM and STI's, Sexual Health,...

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2023/09/12

On this episode, I embarked on a profound exploration of sexual health, responsibility, and the complex dynamics within lifestyle communities. I dive into the critical role of disclosure in sexual encounters, emphasizing the ethical and emotional importance of transparent communication. I discuss the controversial world of bug-chasing, seeking to understand the motivations and psychology behind this practice while highlighting the substantial public health risks it poses. Finally, I examine how

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Season 2 Episode 38 - Emotional Dysregulation...

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2023/09/04

On this episode, clinical psychologist Elise Loprieno and I, dive into the intricate world of emotional dysregulation (ED) and its profound impact on relationships. We explore the definition and contributing factors of ED, emphasizing its challenging dynamics within relationships and the importance of empathy, communication, and setting boundaries. We also discuss how the integration of DBT and CBT therapies can offerdifferent solutions. Lastly, we explore how teaching CBT principles can enhance

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