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The Kink Perspective

The Kink Perspective

The Kink Perspective looks at BDSM through psychology, not performance. It’s an honest examination of power, connection, and what really shapes relationships inside kink, without romanticizing dysfunction or avoiding hard truths. Hosted by Chris, trauma-specific consultant and psychotherapist with more than two decades of lifestyle experience. Donate Here Sponsorship inquiries: Thekinkperspective@gmail.com

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00:28:56

Season 2 Episode 37 - BDSM and Sensation Seeking and...

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2023/08/30

On this episode, I discuss the intriguing world of sensation-seeking personalities in BDSM. Delving into the psyche of thrill-seekers, I explore their unique desires, the psychological intricacies of risk and responsibility, and the profound emotional aftermath they navigate. I look at and try to unravel the complex interplay between erotic desire, discovery and dismissal of emotional after effects as lines become blurred between fantasy and reality for these types. If you are looking for a

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00:26:50

Season 2 Episode 36 - BDSM and Risk and Emotional...

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2023/08/29

On this episode, I discuss and explore the intriguing concept of emotional bleed. Delving into the realms of desire, risk, and intimacy, we unravel the intricate interplay between human psychology and sexual experiences. Understanding how we navigate the emotional aftermath of BDSM scenes and emphasize the pivotal role of communication and consent in ensuring safe and gratifying encounters, while mitigating our emotional health... If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the

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00:40:22

Season 2 Episode 35 - BDSM and Incels, Cultural...

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2023/08/22

On this episode, I discuss the evolving meaning of "incel" and its tendency to perpetuate harmful stereotypes when applied broadly, especially within the BDSM community. I discuss the overuse of "cultural appropriation" and the rich tapestry of shared cultural practices. Lastly, I emphasize the dangers of misinformation and labeling, underscoring the need for informed, nuanced discussions to address complex issues without resorting to hasty judgments, especially within the

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00:44:25

Season 2 Episode 34 - BDSM and a Burial Scene...

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2023/08/15

First, I want to issue a pause for those that may have issues with claustrophobia or any other emotionally constrained issues that may be touched based upon in this episode. On this episode, I take you through the journey of a more extreme part of our lifestyle, a burial scene. I discuss how two people wanted to explore a riskier style of play, how it began, the work that went into it, the culmination and so much more. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle,

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01:19:59

Season 2 Episode 33 - Rope Discussion Part 2 with...

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2023/08/08

On this episode, I sit down with BoundAshLeigh, and continue the conversation from the other side of rope. From a bottom's perspective. We discuss her journey into the rope world, emotions, her marriage and journey, and her passion for her rope future and more... If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring

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01:06:00

Season 2 Episode 32 - Rope Discussion Part 1 with...

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2023/08/07

On this episode, I sit down with SemenawaPrincess, and start the conversation from the other side of rope. From a bottom's perspective. We discuss her journey, emotions and relationships through her journey of rope and more... If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and

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00:26:20

Season 2 Episode 31 - BDSM and Nostalgic...

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2023/08/01

On this episode, I discuss the intriguing influence of nostalgia in BDSM relationships. I unravel the resonant memories of past BDSM partners and how they continue to shape our feelings towards our current dynamics. Exploring the valuable insights gained from previous experiences, we uncover how these lessons contribute to our present BDSM identities. Furthermore, I delve into the concept of "positive schemas" and how embracing nostalgic memories can enhance our connections with current

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01:02:45

Season 2 Episode 30 - Rope Bondage Discussion with Mr...

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2023/07/25

On this episode, I sit down with Sadist and Rigger, Mr TinkerTrain. We discuss some history of rope bondage, dispel some myths, some of the psychological aspects of rope. Our conversation opens the door to the world of rope bondage and gives a bit more insight not just of his pleasure of rope, but some of the psychological components of it as well... If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my

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00:22:25

Season 2 Episode 29 - BDSM and Humiliation Play...

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2023/07/18

On this episode, I dive into the psychological dynamics of humiliation play. I talk about navigating this intense fetish with a focus on consent, boundaries, and emotional well-being. How this can impact us emotionally, and not just the s-type, but the D-types as well and more... If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com I have a book out, Tangled Desires:

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00:22:15

Season 2 Episode 28 - BDSM and Letting go...

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2023/07/11

On this episode, I discuss the emotionally charged topic of cord cutting and letting go of an ex. I discuss the importance of understanding cord cutting, the unique challenges faced in BDSM relationships, the process of healing and growth, and the tools and strategies available for letting go and more... If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com I have a

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00:30:30

Season 2 Episode 27 - BDSM and Bulls...

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2023/07/04

On this episode, I explore the emotional effects on Bulls within the cuckold lifestyle. Drawing insights from an email received, and many thereafter, I discuss the definition of Bulls, their role in the dynamics of cuckold relationships, the emotional experiences they may face, and the moral considerations surrounding their involvement, and more. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my

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00:24:15

Season 2 Episode 26 - BDSM and Hyper-Masculinity...

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2023/06/27

On this episode, I dive deep into the subject of hyper-masculinity within the BDSM community. I explore the defining traits of hyper-masculinity and its impact on power dynamics, all while emphasizing the fundamental principles of consent, communication, and respect. I also shed light on the potential benefits of embracing hyper-masculinity, cautiously examining its ability to intensify power exchange dynamics and foster personal growth and empowerment. If you are looking for a therapist that is

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00:29:05

Season 2 Episode 25 - BDSM and Punishments...

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2023/06/20

On this episode, I dive into the world of punishments in the BDSM lifestyle. I discuss and explore the purpose and use of punishments in a correct sense, discussing their role in discipline, behavior modification, emotional release, power dynamics, and erotic stimulation. Discover the importance of establishing a solid foundation, the various types of punishments, and the significance of consent and communication in fostering a healthy and fulfilling BDSM dynamic. If you are looking for a therapist

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00:37:55

Season 2 Episode 24 - BDSM and Fear of Being Alone...

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2023/06/13

On this episode, I explore the deep-rooted fear of being alone and its impact on our relationships. Delving into the psychological factors that drive us into unhealthy partnerships, I discuss the influences of societal expectations, past traumas, low self-esteem, and attachment styles. Through self-reflection, embracing solitude, and seeking support, I encourage you to break free from the fear of being alone, cultivate self-growth, and nurture healthy connections based on mutual respect and genuine

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00:24:13

Season 2 Episode 23 - BDSM and Silence and Projection...

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2023/06/06

On this episode, I discuss the dynamics of silence, projection, and emotional manipulation in relationships, uncovering their motivations and impact. By using silence and projection, manipulators assert control and distort reality. Breaking free requires understanding these tactics, establishing boundaries for healthier relationships and retaining one's value. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach

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01:20:15

Season 2 Episode 22 - Brooke_ish and TPE

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2023/05/30

On this episode, I sit down again with the wonderfully intelligent and beautiful soul, Brooke_ish. Spurred by a question on her social media page about the motivators for Dominants and Total Power Exchange (TPE). This led to bigger questions around what TPE means and its evolution. How desire, sexuality, effort, love, spirituality all contribute and on what levels, and more on this episode... If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in

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00:28:15

Season 2 Episode 21 - BDSM and Embracing the Unknown...

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2023/05/23

On this episode, I talk about what it feels like for new people entering the lifestyle. Breaking away from societal norms can feel daunting and scary, holding us back from embracing our true desires and identities. By challenging societal constructs, embracing self-acceptance, and finding strength in a supportive community, we can overcome these barriers, empowering ourselves to step into the unknown and embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery. If you are looking for a therapist that

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00:24:15

Season 2 Episode 20 - BDSM and Fantasy vs. Reality...

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2023/05/16

On this episode, I debunk common misconceptions surrounding the BDSM lifestyle. I explore the contrast between fantasy and reality, shedding light on the personal journey individuals undertake to become part of the community and embrace their roles. Join me for a thought-provoking discussion that challenges stereotypes and offers a deeper understanding of the consensual and empowering nature of BDSM. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist

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00:19:50

Season 2 Episode 19 - BDSM and Men's Mental Health...

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2023/05/09

On today's show, I discuss the importance of men's mental health and the need to redefine positive traits of masculinity. I discuss the stigma surrounding men's mental health and the pressure to conform to traditional notions of masculinity, which can prevent men from seeking help. By promoting emotional intelligence and vulnerability, and by creating safe spaces for men to talk about their feelings and experiences, we can help improve men's mental health and more... If you are

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00:31:20

Season 2 Episode 18 - BDSM and Using Psychology to...

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2023/05/02

On this episode, I discuss the topic of dark psychology and its exploitative use for manipulation within relationships. Examples of gaslighting, love bombing, and emotional blackmail were delved into, and the negative impact they can have on a partner's emotional and psychological well-being was discussed. The use of these tactics by governments and corporations, and the potential harm they can cause to society as a whole. Why it is crucial, in my belief, to not use these tactics in dynamics and

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