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Beyond Success

Are you a high achiever who"s worked hard, found success, but still feels like something"s missing? Do you wonder what the point of it all is, and long for deeper meaning or love in your life? Welcome to "Beyond Success," the podcast for high achievers seeking fulfillment, happiness, and true purpose. I"m David Tian, Ph.D., Leadership Coach, Certified IFS Therapy Practitioner (Level 3), and a former university professor. I"m also a proud father and husband. I bring two decades of experience,

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37:12

The Truth About Dating Gurus

Beyond Success ·

2022/08/11

Most men who are unsatisfied with their dating lives turn to online dating gurus to fix them. But this is a fatal mistake. Why? Because the advice peddled by online dating gurus actually fill you with insecurities and anxiety. In other words, it makes you needier and less able to find true love. And you know what? The vast majority of online dating gurus don’t even have good relationships with the women in their lives (even if they’re married). In this episode, I’m exposing the truth about

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28:04

Beware of Most Dating Advice for Men

Beyond Success ·

2022/08/04

Most dating advice for men is not only incorrect, but it’s downright lethal to your happiness, fulfillment, and dating life. Why? Because other insecure men prey on your insecurities. And their “advice” actually makes you needier — which repulses women even further. Here’s the truth: You don’t need to be “masculine,” a pickup artist, or a social butterfly to attract a loving relationship. And you don’t even need a relationship in order to be happy. In this episode, you’ll discover the most

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33:48

7 Steps for Men to Overcome Neediness with Women

Beyond Success ·

2022/07/28

Since females were a young age, they’ve become masters at sniffing out neediness. Most men don’t discover this fact about life until they’ve sabotaged their dating life. But here’s the good news: There’s a proven system for overcoming your neediness. It won’t happen overnight, but it will free you from the sadistic grip neediness has over you. In this episode, you’ll discover the 7 steps to obliterate your neediness for good. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: How your fear about relationships

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36:19

The Psychology of Thor: Love And Thunder

Beyond Success ·

2022/07/21

Most guys don’t know what true love is. This warps their ideas about love and morphs them into a needy, unattractive version of themselves. That’s the bad news. The good news? Thor: Love and Thunder, despite its silliness, teaches you about true love — and helps you become the most attractive version of yourself. In this episode, you’ll discover 3 ways watching Thor: Love and Thunder will help you attract more women. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: Why labeling your enemies as “evil”

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35:35

Why Neediness Is Difficult To Overcome

Beyond Success ·

2022/07/14

Every guy knows that neediness is the #1 most unattractive quality to women. But why then are so many guys still needy? Well, it’s hard for men to detect their own neediness. Women have evolved to detect neediness. And they’re experts at detecting it from your body language, your text messages, and even the tone of your voice. In this episode, you’ll discover the “hidden” neediness tells you’re using without even realizing it. Listen now and obliterate your neediness for good! Show Highlights

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32:58

Why Women Are Not Attracted To Needy Men

Beyond Success ·

2022/07/07

Many men transform themselves to become more attractive to women: They excel in their careers, drive flashy cars, dress well, and get fit. Yet they stay lonely and only attract women for short-term flings or one-night stands. If you’re struggling to build successful, lasting relationships, you don’t need to upgrade your lifestyle, wardrobe, or career, though those can help. What you need the most is to become less needy. Once you stop being needy, 99% of your dating problems evaporate and pave the

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36:40

Why Achieving More Won’t Bring You More Love

Beyond Success ·

2022/06/30

Most men believe they’ll finally be worthy of love if they achieve more. It’s easy to believe you’ll find love once you get that promotion, once you drive that fancy car, or once you’re only wearing luxury brands. But if that were true, why are there so many rich, high-achieving people with failed relationships, while there are “normal” people with regular cars but happy, loving relationships? Here’s the truth: No amount of achievement “unlocks” self-worth and love. Those things only happen when

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41:23

This Dog Story Reveals The Hidden Dangers Of...

Beyond Success ·

2022/06/23

We treat our exiled parts of our psyche like an untrained puppy: When we’re young, we love them and play with them—until they pee on the couch, chew our mom’s shoes, or tear up the furniture. Then we shame, scold, and neglect them. But you can never be complete without accepting these exiled parts of yourself. Not to mention, accepting them unlocks more happiness, fulfillment, and love than anything else you could try. In this episode, you’ll discover how to know, understand, and heal parts of

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35:09

The Lies of Self-Help & The Anxieties of Insecurity

Beyond Success ·

2022/06/16

Most guys who want to find unconditional love fall into the trap of self-help: They think the only way they can earn unconditional love is by becoming the best version of themselves. But self-improvement is actually based on insecurities. And the longer a relationship based on insecurities continues, the more likely it'll implode. In this episode, you’ll discover why self-help is a big, fat lie that only leads to burnout. Not love. Listen now and I’ll reveal the true secret for unlocking

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47:23

Psychological Analysis of Top Gun 2: Masculinity,...

Beyond Success ·

2022/06/09

Men these days think masculinity means one-upmanship and being the “alpha” of the group. Or worse - they think masculinity is inherently toxic. Both these views are flawed and lead to crippled self-worth. If you want to become a self-fulfilled man, it helps to reflect and observe others. Surprisingly, observing Top Gun teaches you valuable lessons on masculinity - if you view it through an educated lens. In this episode, you’ll discover how watching Top Gun lets you accept yourself and reach your

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51:52

The One And Only Thing That Unlocks Love, Attraction,...

Beyond Success ·

2022/06/02

Why do “bad boys” take home hot girls every night while good guys sleep alone? Bad boys are nothing special in the looks department, they won't take care of her, and they’re hardly charming. They get girls because they don’t give a damn. In this episode, you’ll discover why non-neediness is the secret to attracting the woman of your dreams. Instead of obsessing over “alpha”, you’ll actually become one. Listen now! Show Highlights Include: Why asking about your attractiveness turns you into

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45:05

The Uncensored Truth About Alpha Males

Beyond Success ·

2022/05/26

Guys who struggle with women often fall into the seductive (and lethal) “Alpha Myth” trap. They believe the only solution to their dating problems is becoming more of an alpha. But this isn’t true. It either leads you down a path of toxic self-improvement or hating your reflection in every mirror you see. And the worst part? While becoming more alpha might work for short-term flings, it sabotages your long-term relationships, happiness, and mental health. What guys should focus on instead—which

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43:18

Psychology of Dr. Strange 2: Scarlet Witch, White...

Beyond Success ·

2022/05/19

Dr. Strange 2 is deeper than an action-packed superhero movie. In fact, the main theme in the movie deals with grief. And there are several psychological lessons embedded in the movie which will help you attract and keep love. In this episode, you’ll discover the 3 most important ways watching Dr. Strange 2 will improve your love life, confidence, and self-esteem. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: Why doing the exact opposite if Dr. Strange will magically reduce your anxiety with women

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38:59

Why Ultra Successful People Are Often So Bad At...

Beyond Success ·

2022/05/12

Most ultra successful people suck at relationships. Look no further than Will Smith or Johnny Depp. Despite their riches, their relationships are in shambles. Why? Because of a trap many achievers fall into. Achievers dedicate decades of their lives sacrificing their weekends, relationships, and happiness for success. And you know what? Once they achieve massive success, they realize that’s not what their soul was searching for. In this episode, you’ll discover how to have success without

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36:10

On the Origins of Dr. Strange: Narcissism,...

Beyond Success ·

2022/05/05

Dr. Strange gives you a masterclass in human psychology. Stephen Strange was the classic narcissist who tied his entire identity to his career. So when he lost his surgical hands, he was ready to give up on life. But instead of sulking, he redeemed his narcissistic characteristics by becoming selfless. In this episode, we’ll dissect Stephen Strange from the first Dr. Strange movie, so you don’t make the same mistakes he did. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: Why basing your self-worth on

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20:41

How to Master Your Inner Critic Through Radical...

Beyond Success ·

2022/04/28

Everyone has an inner critic who beats up on your mental health. And the worse your trauma is, the harsher your critic becomes. But everyone approaches this problem backwards: They think criticizing their inner critic will scare it away. But this only makes your inner critic double down and create more agony for you. In this episode, you’ll discover why accepting your inner critic will actually lift its control over your mental health. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: Why celebrating your

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31:40

Why Radical Self-Acceptance Is Necessary For Growth

Beyond Success ·

2022/04/21

There are two paths to transformation: The Fixing Method and The Acceptance Method. The former is what you’ll get from any self-help book or life coaching. And while it might work for a short burst of time, it creates even more mental chaos down the road. The latter is the approach IFS therapy uses. And it creates lasting change through radical self-acceptance (even aspects of your personality that humiliate you). In this episode, you’ll discover how radical self-acceptance leads to more success

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54:00

How Self-Help Sabotages Your Happiness

Beyond Success ·

2022/04/14

The self-help industry is a multi-billion dollar industry which feeds off your insecurities like a poisonous leech. And while they promise to boost your confidence, attractiveness, and happiness, it actually does the exact opposite. Especially over the long term. The self-help industry lures you into a trap which leads to burnout, misery, and even self-contempt. In this episode, you’ll discover why self-help is toxic and how to improve your life without relying on shady self-help tactics. Listen now

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41:47

Does Emotional Vulnerability Make You Less Attractive...

Beyond Success ·

2022/04/07

Many guys ask me if it’s possible to be vulnerable and sexually attractive women. And while this answer may shock you: Yes you can. In fact, you can become more attractive by becoming vulnerable. But here’s the problem: Most guys confuse vulnerability with the notorious “Attraction Killer.” This “Attraction Killer” poisons every single attractive quality you have and makes love impossible as long as it haunts you. In this episode, you’ll discover what this “Attraction Killer” is and how to

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46:30

Psychological Analysis of Batman: Shadow, False Self,...

Beyond Success ·

2022/03/31

Matt Reeves’s new movie, The Batman, is a case study in psychology. Both Batman and Riddler have deep psychological trauma. They both handle it in immature ways. And it reminds me of almost all guys who are trying to do better with women. Batman, Riddler, and many single guys who can’t get women create a false self, disown their shadow parts, and exile their inner child out of fear. But they don’t realize this cripples the healing process. In this episode, you’ll discover what Batman and Riddler

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