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Magnum Lovecast

Dan Savage, America"s only advice columnist, answers your sex questions on the Internets. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, call 206-302-2064 or send us your recorded question: Q@Savage.Love

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81:53

Magnum Lovecast 970

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/06/03

A married woman in a poly relationship is planning to visit a boyfriend who lives in a different city for a month. But since they made these plans, she started seeing yet another man. Should she tell the guy she plans to visit about the new guy? Should she do it before the trip so he can pull the rip cord if he needs to? Can you peg your dom? She is a switch, so she knows both sides of the dom/sub dynamic. Her dom wants her to peg him, but she worries she'll slip into dom mode. Dan coaches her on

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78:56

Magnum Lovecast 969

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/05/27

A man in Nashville keeps having great dates, but then they reject him afterwards. Is it because he's a liberal Jew?A woman is in a new, fun, casual relationship, just like she wanted. But he will be moving away in a few months, so there's a clear end date. How can they enjoy themselves knowing the end is nigh? On the Magnum, put on your pink glasses...it's Randy Rainbow! Rainbow's political, musical theater-based parodies are what the world needs now, more than ever. He and Dan talk about his

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58:53

Magnum Extra: Blue City Blues

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/05/22

On this episode of Sex & Politics, Dan gets to nerd out on urbanism, his (un)happy place. David Hyde and Sandeep Kaushik are the co-hosts of Blue City Blues, a podcast about what's working - and what's not - with the politics, governance and culture of the urban archipelago that defines blue America. They talk about how blue states are hemorrhaging population from people who can't afford to live in cities, and how mayors aren't doing enough to fix the problems of homelessness, crime and

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84:27

Magnum Lovecast 968

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/05/20

A man in a queer group chat saw that folks were talking about going to a bathhouse in their city for the first time. The caller explained what goes on there, how consent can be slushy, and trans men might not feel welcome. This shut down the conversation. Was he wrong to tell it like it is?A divorced woman with a 4 year old daughter is friendly with her ex-husband but not close. Her daughter is asking why mommy and daddy are not married and don't live together. She's never explained divorce to her

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80:23

Magnum Lovecast 967

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/05/13

A man briefly dated a guy who only bottoms, and collects a variety of giant dildos. The caller worries that his natural size would never satisfy a man like this, and wonders if this is just the standard psychology of power bottoms. A straight woman tends to be attracted to gay and bisexual men, though she's never dated one. She would be interested in dating a bi man, but she requires monogamy, and worries that precious few bi men would be able to commit to her. Is it reasonable to ask a bi man to

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83:56

Magnum Lovecast 966

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/05/06

Oh boy! A threesome might be brewing! A woman just connected with a hot guy through an app. He has another woman he sees, and the three of them plan to get together. But the caller is convinced that the other two are way more attractive than she is, and she worries she'll feel insecure and inadequate. How can she get over this stinkin' thinkin'?A woman has been in a casual friends-with-benefits relationship. The sex is fantastic. But then he started showing up less and less, and she discovered

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58:41

Savage Love LIVE: Pope Picks, Chronic Pain & Erotic...

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/05/02

Magnum Savage Love LIVE APRIL 30, 2025 Dan broadcasts from a “very purple” secret conclave and casts his vote for Timothée Chalamet as Pope, before diving into real talk with Magnum subs. This month, Dan helps a caller navigating sex and body image after chronic illness, offers advice for managing migraine-induced orgasm pain, and shares a powerful perspective on jealousy in poly relationships. Plus: a new Pride merch preview ("Fuck This Shit 2025"), how to break into the fisting scene, and why

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81:44

Magnum Lovecast 965

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/04/29

Ooh la la! A young Canadian woman has been living in a European city, making friends and... having group sex. She doesn't speak their language- her friends are usually accommodating and speak English around her. But sometimes when the gang is banging, they revert to their native tongue and she feels left out. Should she let it slide, or let her lovers know she needs dirty talk translation? A woman with high libido has always been monogamous...until now. She reconnected with an old friend who

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83:57

Magnum Lovecast 964

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/04/22

My what a busy friend! While a woman and her boyfriend were going through a painful, temporary separation, she confided in and was consoled by a male, bi friend of hers. He helped her through the difficult time. But he was also propositioning her ex-boyfriend at the same, damn time! Now that she is back together with her boyfriend, can she trust this friend again? A woman gives a compelling defense of faking orgasms. Will Dan Savage accept it? On the Magnum, Dan welcomes back the thoroughly

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65:00

Magnum Extra: Poly Power!

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/04/17

For the triumphant return of Sex & Politics, (after taking some very deep breaths and more than a few edibles,) we are delighted to welcome two important thought leaders in the realm of non-monogamy. Dedeker Winston is the co-host of the Multiamory Podcast, a research-based relationship advice show that centers non-traditional relationships. Brett Chamberlin is the Founder & Executive Director of OPEN, a grassroots advocacy nonprofit working to advance legal rights and cultural acceptance for

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82:33

Magnum Lovecast 963

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/04/15

A chill married lesbian is a little annoyed to hear that her consistently straight friend, engaged to a man, has announced that she is pan. She is pan, but she plans to remain monogamous with her husband. What's more, she is throwing herself a coming-out-as-pan party. When the caller came out as lesbian, she got kicked out of the house. Is she an asshole to feel less than exhilarated by her friend's new sexual identity? Yikes! Hear the unpleasant tale of the woman who shut her boyfriend's son's

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78:00

Magnum Lovecast 962

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/04/08

A gay man and his boyfriend are in an open relationship. His boyfriend forbids the caller from messing around with anyone in their friend group. But this friend group is super-kinky and super-horny, regularly propositioning the caller for naughty fun. It's getting hard to say no...A trans guy still has "female" on his birth certificate. He wonders if it's too dangerous to try to get it changed at this perilous moment, and also if he should be stockpiling testosterone. Dan brings on Diana Adams-

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77:53

Magnum Lovecast 961

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/04/01

A woman has made a new exciting friend! But this friend ditches her other friends and treats them as disposable. Is the caller next? Here's the kind of pragmatic question and answer you've come to expect from the Savage Lovecast: Is it safe to douche with non-potable water? On the Magnum, folks have been asking for a menopause expert for a while now, and we've got her. Dr. Stacy De-Lin has been a proud member of the Planned Parenthood team since 2013. She gives us the basics on peri-menopause,

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82:06

Magnum Lovecast 960

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/03/25

A man chanced upon his wife's journals when he was cleaning the closets. He simply couldn't help himself. He read some of them, and learned about her erotic desires in a way he hadn't known before. It made him fall in love with her all over again. But now what? Should he tell her what he did? Blindfold magic! A woman had a transcendent experience when her boyfriend blindfolded her and then...removed the blindfold. There he was! And he was suddenly more beautiful than ever. On the Magnum, Dan

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76:59

Magnum Lovecast 959

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/03/18

A woman is dating a new guy, and it's going really well. The catch? He looks just like the old guy, and she's worried her friends will judge her for it. In our first After-Action Report, a woman relays her tale of first-time submission. It sounds like it won't be the last time... On the Magnum, meet the most suspicious man in the world. It's Javier Leiva, host of the true crime podcasts "Pretend," "Criminal Conduct" and "The Ponzi Playbook." His shows dive into the psyches of the grifters that want

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78:08

Magnum Lovecast 958

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/03/11

A woman is seeing a guy who only grudgingly goes down south. Sex for them always begins with her giving him a BJ, but because they have a Dom/sub dynamic, he feels he doesn't owe her anything. Here's a fun word scramble game that astute Savage Lovecast listeners can play! Unscramble these letters to form the acronym that will give the caller clear direction on what to do: TMAFD A man is curious, confused, and bewildered about what lesbians mean when they say they have sex. On the Magnum, Dan's been

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84:29

Magnum Lovecast 957

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/03/04

Age gap relationships! Sometimes they are a-ok. Sometimes they are not. A woman is having an argument with her boyfriend about whether his previous relationship was dicey because of the 9-year age difference. She dated a younger person too, but the circumstances were different. Dan Savage (who knows from age gap relationships) weighs in.A man in a throuple with two ladies can't sleep because their bed gets too toasty at night. Somebody call 911! On the Magnum, we welcome back sex & culture writer

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79:40

Magnum Lovecast 956

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/02/25

A woman's 74 year-old father has started dating a 19 year-old woman, and no one in her family besides her is batting an eye. She is horrified and refuses to meet the lass or speak to her father until the relationship ends. Is she being too harsh? A British poly man has an American girlfriend who comes to visit now and again. She asked him to take her to a sex party, but there's a hitch. She screams to kingdom come during sex. The caller is worried that his more reserved British sex party

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80:23

Magnum Lovecast 955

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/02/18

Pages and pages of escort ads. That's what she found on her boyfriend's phone when she was looking for concert tickets. He insisted he wasn't actually contacting anybody, but was using them for his spank bank. Should she believe him? Is this a problem? A man recently come out as bi, and has a boyfriend in an open relationship. He sees all the gay orgies that are available to him, but wants to get in on some straight sex party action. Where can he find them? How do they work? Hello? On the

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82:42

Magnum Lovecast 954

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/02/11

A married gay man is newly poly with his husband and boyfriend. Simple question: Who should he celebrate Valentine's Day with? A non-binary AFAB person frequents a sex club where women pay much less than men or couples. And there's a dress code...men must be naked, and women must wear lingerie. The caller wears the damn lingerie to snag the discount and to get access to men. But they don't want to be addressed as female in dirty talk or recognized as female in any way. Discuss. On the Magnum, Dan

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