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Around the Kinky Kampfire Podcast

Kinky, Queer, Non-monogamy, some geeky, and all things in-between. Working to make Kink and Non-Monogamy no longer a stigma. New episodes Thursdays!AroundtheKinkyKampfire@yahoo.comhttps://www.youtube.com/@aroundthekinkykampfireWe have merch now! - https://www.etsy.com/shop/SafeWordSociety

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31:34

We hit 100 episodes, and the biggest lesson is...

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2025/10/09

Send us a text We celebrate 100 episodes with gratitude, humor, and a clear message: just show up. From podcasting to conventions, improv, and ace-spectrum allyship, we share how tiny steps built a community around honest kink talk. • why the campfire theme holds space for taboo topics • what 100 episodes taught us about persistence and progress • how podcasting led to volunteering, teaching, and new friends • improv skills that improve consent, negotiation, and connection • ace-spectrum vie...

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31:24

“Are we really STILL saying ethical...

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2025/10/02

Send us a text We dig into how communication, boundaries, and honesty make non‑monogamy work, and why adding “ethical” to the label misses the point. Julius shares practical skills for active listening, handling jealousy, scheduling across partners, and repairing after mistakes. • reframing “ethical” non‑monogamy as skills and consent • core pillars of communication, boundaries, and truth • personal non‑negotiables and spoken expectations • context for hard talks and when to pause • active l...

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33:03

From Crown to Kilt: Adventures of a Volunteer...

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2025/09/25

Send us a text Julius shares his third year volunteering at Smut Lovers Convention 2025 while reflecting on the challenges and joys of being an introvert in social spaces. • Teaching an improv panel for writers to help them develop characters and scenes for their books • Supervising the convention registration area and demo dungeon while wearing a crown and kilt • Experiencing cognitive dissonance between personal presentation and upbringing • Observing the excitement of readers meetin...

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35:23

The Adult Child: When Growing Up Gets Stuck | S4 EP97

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2025/09/18

Send us a text We dive deep into the fascinating concept of Puer Aeternus or "eternal youth" – a psychological pattern where adults remain stuck in adolescent mindsets well into adulthood. This episode unpacks how this manifests in fear of commitment, inability to follow through on projects, and constant daydreaming about potential without taking action. • Puer Aeternus describes charming, creative people who struggle with adult responsibilities • Fear of making wrong choices leads to decisi...

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35:45

Anime, Kink, and Finding Your Community: My Weekend...

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2025/09/11

Send us a text Julius shares his experience performing and teaching at Ecchi Expo Orlando 2025, an adult anime convention combining anime fandom with alternative lifestyle education in a consent-focused environment. • Explaining what "ecchi" is – the middle ground between mainstream anime and explicit hentai content • Performing adult improv comedy on the main stage at the convention • Teaching panels on anime genres and relationship anarchy • Experiencing the unique blend of anime fandom an...

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37:15

Monogamy is a Social Construct, Not Our Biological...

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2025/08/28

Send us a text Evolutionary anthropologist Dr. Anna Machin delivers groundbreaking research revealing monogamy as a social construct rather than our biological destiny, with satisfaction levels being equal between monogamous and polyamorous relationships. • Monogamy developed as a social control mechanism when civilization became more complex • Approximately 50% of supposedly monogamous households experience infidelity • Very few species in nature are truly sexually monogamous, including hum...

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23:46

Primal Play isn't just what I do—it's who I am | S4 EP94

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2025/08/21

Send us a text Julius Marques dives into the wild world of Primal Play - the raw, instinctual expression of dominance and submission through animalistic behaviors. He shares his personal experiences and insights on this lesser-understood aspect of kink that revolves around instinct over structure. • Primal Play involves raw, instinctual expressions different from structured BDSM scenes • Distinguished from Pet Play - not focused on specific animals but on unleashing your inner beast • Typica...

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21:32

Relationship Anarchy: Breaking Free from Expectations...

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2025/08/14

Send us a text Relationship Anarchy is not just a buzzword but a lifestyle philosophy emphasizing intentional connections where each relationship exists independently, free from predetermined expectations or hierarchies. This episode explores why the relationship with yourself should be your primary focus and how Relationship Anarchy principles can benefit everyone, regardless of relationship structure. • Introduction to Relationship Anarchy as a serious topic with no fluff • The misconcepti...

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17:34

The Return (Again) of the Kinky Kampfire!! | Season 4...

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2025/08/07

Send us a text Julius Marques returns to the podcast after a hiatus, introducing his new vision as a "relationship spotter" rather than a coach or therapist. He shares his journey through imposter syndrome and his plans to teach relationship anarchy with unconventional techniques. • Taking time away from podcasting after questioning qualifications despite being invited as a guest on another show • Developing educational content on relationship anarchy for in-person workshops • Introducing th...

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39:32

The Social Probation Period | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 42

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2025/04/17

Send us a text Julius explores how different communities operate similarly despite their diverse interests and activities. He dives into his experiences navigating kink, board games, non-monogamy, geek culture, and improv communities, highlighting the universal patterns that emerge in each social group. • All communities have an approximately 90-day "probationary period" before truly accepting new members • People need to see you consistently show up before they open their inner circle ...

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36:02

Put Down Your Phone and Wash Your Ass: Dating Advice...

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2025/04/10

Send us a text Julius explores the fundamental differences in how men and women communicate and the painful lack of education we receive about these differences before entering relationships. • Communication styles differ significantly between genders based on both biology and socialization • Men are typically raised to be solution-focused while women often communicate to process emotions • Active listening without trying to "fix" problems is a learned skill many men find physically uncomfor...

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37:41

Bite-Sized Wisdom for a Full-Sized Life: Advice for...

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2025/03/27

Send us a text We explore relationship anarchy's core principle that each relationship exists independently, challenging traditional hierarchies while emphasizing the importance of maintaining a healthy relationship with yourself first. • Relationship anarchy means treating each connection as independent from others, including your relationship with yourself • Growth happens through interaction with others, not in isolation – bringing trusted people into your process provides valuable perspe...

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39:33

You Can't Change Your Past, But Your Future Isn't...

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2025/03/20

Send us a text Starting life on the back foot doesn't mean you're destined to stay there. This raw, vulnerable episode challenges the notion that our beginnings dictate our endings, offering a candid look at overcoming disadvantage and finding forward momentum when everything seems stacked against you. We dive deep into what it means to grow up with fewer advantages – whether economically, socially, or in terms of family stability – and how these early circumstances shape our relationship wi...

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35:55

What Nobody Tells You About Dating When Sex Isn't...

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2025/03/13

Send us a text Navigating the dating world as someone on the asexual spectrum comes with unique challenges that many dating platforms simply weren't designed to address. Drawing from decades of personal experience across various dating platforms, I'm pulling back the curtain on what it really means to date when sexual attraction isn't your primary motivation. The digital dating landscape often feels like it was built exclusively for those seeking immediate physical connections. For demi-attr...

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EP 49 | Taboo talks with a new friend! | Melanie...

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2025/03/06

Send us a text Join us for a riveting conversation at the Kinky Kampfire as we explore the kaleidoscopic experiences of kink, alternative lifestyles, and the colorful journey of non-monogamy. In this episode, we chat with Melanie Carolyn, the dynamic host of Moms Unboxed podcast, whose personal insights into bisexuality, swinging, and group play spark genuine and thought-provoking dialogues. Melanie candidly shares her journey of self-discovery and the thrills of exploring desires, illuminati...

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31:22

Rejection: The Universal Struggle | Pillow Fort...

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2025/02/27

Send us a text Have you ever felt the sting of rejection? In this compelling episode of The Pillowfort Sessions, we dive into the complexities of rejection—the emotional turmoil it brings and why it affects us all. Our host shares relatable experiences and strategies for dealing with this very common, yet often painful, aspect of human interaction. Join us as we unravel physiological aspects behind why rejection hurts and explore its presence in various relationship forms. While most a...

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30:09

Navigating Tough Talks: Reimagining Communication,...

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2025/02/20

Send us a text Ever found yourself tongue-tied when it comes to navigating the trickiest conversations in your relationship? We're tackling those moments head-on, from chatting about money woes to discussing whether or not kids are part of your future. Even while battling a stubborn flu, I’m diving into the art of open dialogue with partners, helping you to foster healthier, more fulfilling connections. Together, we’ll explore why many relationships stumble over these communication hurdles an...

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35:24

Understanding Consent in Unique Community Gatherings...

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2025/02/06

Send us a text This episode delves into the complexities of navigating the kink community, sharing personal reflections and observations regarding social dynamics, consent, and self-awareness. With a humorous yet candid approach, we explore the intricacies of adult gatherings, the importance of partners and community, and the challenge of addressing predatory behaviors while fostering a safe atmosphere for all. • Sharing personal experiences and insights from various kink events • Disc...

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31:22

Introverted Networking and the Art of Self-Promotion:...

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2025/01/30

Send us a textIs your podcasting journey crossing into the realm of taboo topics, and where do we draw the line between fantasy and reality? Join me as I recount my experiences at PodFest 2025 in Central Florida, where the buzz of conversations was as vibrant as ever, even in the absence of a dedicated track for taboo discussions. Reflecting on these engaging interactions, I question the evolving landscape of taboo podcasting and its intersection with sex work. Could my own podcasting endeavo...

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An "Intro" to Julius: A Journey Through Non-Monogamy,...

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2025/01/23

Send us a textWhat if stepping out of your comfort zone could lead to a whole new world of self-discovery and personal growth? Join me, Julius, as we kick off the new year with "Around the Kinky Kampfire, the Pillow Fort Sessions," a podcast episode that promises to take you on a journey through the intriguing realms of BDSM, queer culture, non-monogamy, and geeky interests. In this episode, I share my personal mission to challenge assumptions in relationships and provide honest opinions, all...

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