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We"re Dating the Same Guy

We"re Dating the Same Guy uncovers the dating patterns we all repeat—whether we realize it or not—and, more importantly, how to break them. From attachment styles and intimacy to feminine and masculine energy, red flags, self-sabotage, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself, we dive deep into what’s really driving your love life. With expert guests and real-life dating stories, these raw, eye-opening conversations will help you stop dating on autopilot. If we don’t change our patterns,

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00:34:42

EP 26: How to NOT Get Swept Away in the Movie...

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2025/10/07

It's so easy to get swept away in early dating when you're texting nonstop and spending all your free time together, slowly drifting from friends and hobbies . But what if dating could ADD to your life instead of becoming your whole life?Welcome to Season 2 of We're Dating the Same Guy!After a wild weekend in Vegas that felt like a movie scene, Madden shares how to not get lost in and swept away by your dating experiences: connecting to your purpose.After a trip to Vegas—accidentally

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00:51:50

EP 27: The Systems of Conscious Relationships:...

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2025/10/07

What if the key to lasting love isn't chemistry or compatibility—but conscious engineering?In this episode, Madden sits down with relationship coach Scott Wild, whose background as a software engineer gives him a radically different lens on relationships. Scott helps us understand how to build partnerships that don't just survive—they actually thrive through intentional design.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Introduction: Why this episode is for everyone—single or partnered02:15 - Meet Scott Wild:

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00:56:11

Season 1 FINALE: Dating Patterns vs Love - What The...

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2025/09/02

In the season 1 finale of We're Dating the Same Guy, host Madden sits down with fellow podcaster Alexis to break down the movie "The Materialist" and what it reveals about modern dating patterns, attachment styles, and the choice between financial security and emotional connection.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Season 1 reflection and podcast journey05:30 - The Materialist movie discussion begins12:45 - Dating vs Love - the fundamental difference18:20 - Attachment styles and modern

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00:54:35

EP 24: Finding God in Love: Transform Your...

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2025/08/26

Tired of feeling anxious and insecure in your relationships? In today's episode, relationship coach and spiritual guide Kevin Crenshaw reveals why your dating patterns might be rooted in a deeper spiritual search - and how cultivating a relationship with God can transform the way you love.Kevin shares his raw journey from being a chronic people pleaser whose first three relationships ended in betrayal, to finding spiritual security that completely shifted his approach to love. We explore how

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00:49:04

EP 23: From Avoidant to Secure: Decoding Men’s...

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2025/08/19

Are you tired of dating emotionally unavailable men? In this vulnerable conversation, sex and relationship therapist Joe Molinari breaks down why so many men struggle with emotional availability and what you can do about it.Joe shares his personal journey from emotional avoidance to vulnerability, explaining how childhood conditioning creates patterns that pull men away from connection. We explore attachment styles, the dangerous appeal of "twin flame" relationships, and practical steps

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00:52:31

EP 22: Dating Sober: How Alcohol-Free Dating Is...

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2025/08/12

Would you go on a first date without alcohol? 39% of singles now say yes—and it's changing everything about modern dating. In this raw conversation, Alex Zauner (founder of Lucille's alcohol-free experiences and 11 years sober) reveals why removing liquid courage creates deeper connections and better relationships.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Opening: The first date question that changes everything05:12 - Alex's story: From college binge drinking to 11 years sober12:45 - The breaking point:

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00:40:54

EP 21: From the Pods to Real Life: David from Love Is...

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2025/08/05

Dave from Love is Blind Minneapolis gets real about what happens when the cameras stop rolling. In this raw conversation, we dive into vulnerability in dating, trusting your intuition, and how reality TV changed his approach to relationships forever. If you've ever wondered what it's like to fall in love on national television and then learn even more about yourself in the process, this episode gives you a window into all of it.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Introduction: Reality TV obsession

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01:03:59

EP 20: Dating Psychology: How to Rewire Your Brain...

We"re Dating the Same Guy ·

2025/07/29

Ever wonder why you keep dating the same type of person? Brazilian brain health coach Fabiana breaks down the neuroscience behind dating patterns and reveals how your brain creates the relationship cycles you find yourself stuck in.EPISODE TIMELINE:3:18 - Meet Fabiana: From Ipanema Beach to brain coaching8:45 - Your brain on patterns: The survival machine explained15:20 - Breaking down the amygdala hijack in relationships22:10 - The cortisol-disease connection you need to know28:30 - Reframing

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00:45:43

EP 19: From the Guy Women Didn't Want to Date to...

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2025/07/22

What happens when a man realizes he's the guy women don't want to date and completely transforms himself? In this raw conversation, dating and embodiment coach Tyler shares his journey from being disconnected and sabotaging intimacy to helping high-value women date differently.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Introduction: When men realize they're the problem04:15 - Tyler's transformation story: From feminine to masculine energy09:30 - Macro vs micro perspective in dating14:20 - The three

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00:44:50

EP 18: Red Flag or Yellow Flag: Are You Mislabeling...

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2025/07/15

Are you calling everything a red flag in dating? Dating coach and therapist Michelle O'Connell joins host Madden to decode the difference between red flags, yellow flags, and green flags in modern dating. Learn why your nervous system might confuse healthy partners for boring ones, how past trauma affects your ability to recognize good partners, and the subtle patterns that show up months into dating - not on date three. This episode reveals why we're quick to label behaviors as red flags

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01:03:50

EP 17: Tantric Dating: How to Move from Performance...

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2025/07/08

Transform your dating life through the ancient art of Tantra. In this episode, sex and relationship therapist Julie shares how tantric principles can help you break toxic dating patterns and create deeper, more authentic connections.EPISODE TIMELINE:04:22 - Welcome & Julie's Introduction07:34 - Julie's Unique Journey: From Yoga Pioneer to Sex Therapist13:07 - Working with Gopher Football & The Marsh Wellness Center16:52 - The Energy Healing School That Changed Everything19:42 - What

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00:46:09

EP 16: Choosing Love vs Falling in Love: Real...

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2025/07/01

In this raw and intimate conversation, real couple Allison and Anthony share their 7-year journey from a casual Tinder meetup in a Costco parking lot to building a conscious, choice-based relationship. They open up about the difference between falling in love and choosing love daily, how they've navigated living in 5 different states together, and what it really takes to grow individually while building a partnership rooted in friendship and mutual respect.This isn't your typical

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00:50:41

EP 15: Dating as a Meditation: Sacred Self-Discovery...

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2025/06/24

Have you ever considered that dating could be a form of meditation? In this transformative episode, KC Baker (founder of WomanSpeak and creator of Velvet Flow) shares her groundbreaking approach to conscious dating that will change how you truly think about relationships.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - 02:30 - Introduction & Episode Setup02:30 - 07:15 - Guest Introduction & Background07:15 - 12:45 - KC's Dating Pattern Story12:45 - 18:30 -Dating as Meditation Concept18:30 - 23:00 - Practical

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00:58:01

EP 14: Why Men Aren't Approaching You IRL: Truth...

We"re Dating the Same Guy ·

2025/06/17

Dating coach Joe Stroud pulls back the curtain on the male experience in modern dating. From why men seem emotionally checked out to the real dynamics shaping attraction, this conversation explores what happens when both men and women drop the performance and connect from truth. If you've ever wondered why dating feels so disconnected, this episode reveals the patterns keeping us all stuck.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00-05:00 - Introduction: Why This Episode Might Ruffle Feathers05:00-12:00 - Meet Joe

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00:48:28

EP 13: Men's Mental Health After Divorce: The Hidden...

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2025/06/10

Divorce is the second most painful life experience after losing a loved one - yet men's emotional journey through this grief is rarely discussed. In this raw, honest conversation, divorce coach Addison breaks down the silent struggle that men face after relationship loss and why traditional masculinity makes healing so much harder.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 Intro: Why everyone needs to hear this02:30 Meet Addison & his divorce story08:15 The patterns: grief, anger, shame15:20 Why men don't ask for

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00:23:44

EP 12: The Law of Attraction & Releasing Control: The...

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2025/06/03

Tired of dating the same type of guys over and over? Your mindset might be the problem. In this episode, we dive deep into how the law of attraction shapes your dating life and explore the 4 toxic beliefs that keep you stuck in negative dating patterns.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Intro: Why We Keep Dating the Same Guy01:45 - The Law of Attraction SparkNotes: Like Attracts Like03:30 - The Infinity Loop: How to Manifest Without Obsessing06:00 - The Helicopter Parent Analogy: Why Control Kills

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00:48:59

EP 11: How Somatic Healing Can Help You Break...

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2025/05/27

Why do you keep attracting the same type of partner? Why do you get triggered by things that shouldn't logically bother you? Why can you understand your patterns cognitively but still repeat them?In this deeply transformative conversation, trauma-informed coach Jakob reveals why your body holds the answers that your mind can't access. This isn't just another therapy approach - it's a complete paradigm shift in how we heal relationship patterns.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Why we repeat

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00:33:35

EP 10: Why Your Brain Keeps Choosing the Wrong...

We"re Dating the Same Guy ·

2025/05/20

This powerful episode with Dr. Linnea Swanson, MFT and brain spotting trainer, explores how trauma becomes encoded in our nervous system and unconsciously guides our relationship choices. Learn why that "spark" might actually be a warning sign, how generational trauma impacts dating patterns, and practical strategies to rewire your brain for healthier relationships. Essential listening for anyone wondering why they keep attracting the same type of partner despite wanting something

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00:49:39

EP 9: Reality TV to Real Love: Lessons & Healing...

We"re Dating the Same Guy ·

2025/05/13

Madden is joined by Kelly Chase who was on Season 1 of Love Is Blind. While her dating life played out in front of the world, what most people don’t realize is the massive transformation and evolution Kelly has gone through since the show aired.She’s built her own brand as a business and mindset coach, podcast host, and influencer— helping people find love, success, and money in a whole new way.In this conversation, Kelly gets real honest about her journey — from dating on reality TV to dealing with

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00:22:20

EP 8: Single, Not Lonely: Embracing the Power of...

We"re Dating the Same Guy ·

2025/05/06

In this powerful solo episode, host Madden Zappa explores the complex emotions of being single, particularly in the aftermath of a breakup. She shares her personal journey of loving solitude while simultaneously experiencing post-breakup loneliness, highlighting the sometimes contradictory nature of singlehood.Madden challenges society's view that singlehood is merely a waiting period or a problem to be solved, especially as we age. Instead, she reframes it as a purposeful opportunity to create

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