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We"re Dating the Same Guy

We"re Dating the Same Guy uncovers the dating patterns we all repeat—whether we realize it or not—and, more importantly, how to break them. From attachment styles and intimacy to feminine and masculine energy, red flags, self-sabotage, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself, we dive deep into what’s really driving your love life. With expert guests and real-life dating stories, these raw, eye-opening conversations will help you stop dating on autopilot. If we don’t change our patterns,

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00:40:54

EP 21: From the Pods to Real Life: David from Love Is...

We"re Dating the Same Guy ·

2025/08/05

Dave from Love is Blind Minneapolis gets real about what happens when the cameras stop rolling. In this raw conversation, we dive into vulnerability in dating, trusting your intuition, and how reality TV changed his approach to relationships forever. If you've ever wondered what it's like to fall in love on national television and then learn even more about yourself in the process, this episode gives you a window into all of it.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Introduction: Reality TV obsession

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01:03:59

EP 20: Dating Psychology: How to Rewire Your Brain...

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2025/07/29

Ever wonder why you keep dating the same type of person? Brazilian brain health coach Fabiana breaks down the neuroscience behind dating patterns and reveals how your brain creates the relationship cycles you find yourself stuck in.EPISODE TIMELINE:3:18 - Meet Fabiana: From Ipanema Beach to brain coaching8:45 - Your brain on patterns: The survival machine explained15:20 - Breaking down the amygdala hijack in relationships22:10 - The cortisol-disease connection you need to know28:30 - Reframing

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00:45:43

EP 19: From the Guy Women Didn't Want to Date to...

We"re Dating the Same Guy ·

2025/07/22

What happens when a man realizes he's the guy women don't want to date and completely transforms himself? In this raw conversation, dating and embodiment coach Tyler shares his journey from being disconnected and sabotaging intimacy to helping high-value women date differently.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Introduction: When men realize they're the problem04:15 - Tyler's transformation story: From feminine to masculine energy09:30 - Macro vs micro perspective in dating14:20 - The three

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00:44:50

EP 18: Red Flag or Yellow Flag: Are You Mislabeling...

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2025/07/15

Are you calling everything a red flag in dating? Dating coach and therapist Michelle O'Connell joins host Madden to decode the difference between red flags, yellow flags, and green flags in modern dating. Learn why your nervous system might confuse healthy partners for boring ones, how past trauma affects your ability to recognize good partners, and the subtle patterns that show up months into dating - not on date three. This episode reveals why we're quick to label behaviors as red flags

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EP 17: Tantric Dating: How to Move from Performance...

We"re Dating the Same Guy ·

2025/07/08

Transform your dating life through the ancient art of Tantra. In this episode, sex and relationship therapist Julie shares how tantric principles can help you break toxic dating patterns and create deeper, more authentic connections.EPISODE TIMELINE:04:22 - Welcome & Julie's Introduction07:34 - Julie's Unique Journey: From Yoga Pioneer to Sex Therapist13:07 - Working with Gopher Football & The Marsh Wellness Center16:52 - The Energy Healing School That Changed Everything19:42 - What

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00:46:09

EP 16: Choosing Love vs Falling in Love: Real...

We"re Dating the Same Guy ·

2025/07/01

In this raw and intimate conversation, real couple Allison and Anthony share their 7-year journey from a casual Tinder meetup in a Costco parking lot to building a conscious, choice-based relationship. They open up about the difference between falling in love and choosing love daily, how they've navigated living in 5 different states together, and what it really takes to grow individually while building a partnership rooted in friendship and mutual respect.This isn't your typical

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00:50:41

EP 15: Dating as a Meditation: Sacred Self-Discovery...

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2025/06/24

Have you ever considered that dating could be a form of meditation? In this transformative episode, KC Baker (founder of WomanSpeak and creator of Velvet Flow) shares her groundbreaking approach to conscious dating that will change how you truly think about relationships.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - 02:30 - Introduction & Episode Setup02:30 - 07:15 - Guest Introduction & Background07:15 - 12:45 - KC's Dating Pattern Story12:45 - 18:30 -Dating as Meditation Concept18:30 - 23:00 - Practical

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00:58:01

EP 14: Why Men Aren't Approaching You IRL: Truth...

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2025/06/17

Dating coach Joe Stroud pulls back the curtain on the male experience in modern dating. From why men seem emotionally checked out to the real dynamics shaping attraction, this conversation explores what happens when both men and women drop the performance and connect from truth. If you've ever wondered why dating feels so disconnected, this episode reveals the patterns keeping us all stuck.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00-05:00 - Introduction: Why This Episode Might Ruffle Feathers05:00-12:00 - Meet Joe

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00:48:28

EP 13: Men's Mental Health After Divorce: The Hidden...

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2025/06/10

Divorce is the second most painful life experience after losing a loved one - yet men's emotional journey through this grief is rarely discussed. In this raw, honest conversation, divorce coach Addison breaks down the silent struggle that men face after relationship loss and why traditional masculinity makes healing so much harder.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 Intro: Why everyone needs to hear this02:30 Meet Addison & his divorce story08:15 The patterns: grief, anger, shame15:20 Why men don't ask for

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00:23:44

EP 12: The Law of Attraction & Releasing Control: The...

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2025/06/03

Tired of dating the same type of guys over and over? Your mindset might be the problem. In this episode, we dive deep into how the law of attraction shapes your dating life and explore the 4 toxic beliefs that keep you stuck in negative dating patterns.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Intro: Why We Keep Dating the Same Guy01:45 - The Law of Attraction SparkNotes: Like Attracts Like03:30 - The Infinity Loop: How to Manifest Without Obsessing06:00 - The Helicopter Parent Analogy: Why Control Kills

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00:48:59

EP 11: How Somatic Healing Can Help You Break...

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2025/05/27

Why do you keep attracting the same type of partner? Why do you get triggered by things that shouldn't logically bother you? Why can you understand your patterns cognitively but still repeat them?In this deeply transformative conversation, trauma-informed coach Jakob reveals why your body holds the answers that your mind can't access. This isn't just another therapy approach - it's a complete paradigm shift in how we heal relationship patterns.EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Why we repeat

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00:33:35

EP 10: Why Your Brain Keeps Choosing the Wrong...

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2025/05/20

This powerful episode with Dr. Linnea Swanson, MFT and brain spotting trainer, explores how trauma becomes encoded in our nervous system and unconsciously guides our relationship choices. Learn why that "spark" might actually be a warning sign, how generational trauma impacts dating patterns, and practical strategies to rewire your brain for healthier relationships. Essential listening for anyone wondering why they keep attracting the same type of partner despite wanting something

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00:49:39

EP 9: Reality TV to Real Love: Lessons & Healing...

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2025/05/13

Madden is joined by Kelly Chase who was on Season 1 of Love Is Blind. While her dating life played out in front of the world, what most people don’t realize is the massive transformation and evolution Kelly has gone through since the show aired.She’s built her own brand as a business and mindset coach, podcast host, and influencer— helping people find love, success, and money in a whole new way.In this conversation, Kelly gets real honest about her journey — from dating on reality TV to dealing with

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00:22:20

EP 8: Single, Not Lonely: Embracing the Power of...

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2025/05/06

In this powerful solo episode, host Madden Zappa explores the complex emotions of being single, particularly in the aftermath of a breakup. She shares her personal journey of loving solitude while simultaneously experiencing post-breakup loneliness, highlighting the sometimes contradictory nature of singlehood.Madden challenges society's view that singlehood is merely a waiting period or a problem to be solved, especially as we age. Instead, she reframes it as a purposeful opportunity to create

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00:29:53

EP 7: The Art of Receiving: Expanding Your Capacity...

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2025/04/29

This episode explores the powerful and often misunderstood art of receiving. Receiving isn't passive but an active, intentional energy that can transform not just your dating life but every area of your existence. EPISODE TIMELINE:00:00 - Introduction and welcome01:23 - Introducing Erin Nicole Porter and her expertise03:48 - Defining the concept of receiving and self-abandonment08:33 - How to start receiving from yourself11:15 - Continuing self-to-self receiving even in relationships12:05 - How

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01:03:53

EP 6: Exploring Non-Monogamy and Kink: Dating Beyond...

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2025/04/22

This episode is an invitation to think outside of normative relationships and even potentially lead you to question what we've been taught about love, commitment, connection, and relationshipsPolyamory and kink are often misunderstood or even stigmatized, but here’s the truth: the more we understand the spectrum of human desire, the more permission we give ourselves to date — and love — more authentically.EPISODE TIMELINE00:45 - Intro & expanding relationship perspectives03:30 - Eric's

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00:46:52

EP 5: Anxious vs. Grounded Masculine Energy: How to...

We"re Dating the Same Guy ·

2025/04/15

What truly is the difference between anxious masculine energy and grounded masculine energy? And how do they both appear in relationships while dating:Madden sits down with Jen Briggs to explore the crucial differences between anxious and grounded masculine energy in dating. One type feels magnetic, intense, and immediate, while the other feels steady, intentional, and secure. They discuss how to spot the difference between these energies, what your attraction to each reveals about your own

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00:35:24

EP 4: Dating While Successful: Why High-Achieving...

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2025/04/08

What happens when ambitious, driven, independent women meet modern dating culture?In this episode Madden sits down with Caprisha, a breakthrough advisor for purpose-driven women, to discuss the unique challenges high-achieving women face in dating and relationships. They explore what it really looks like to soften without shrinking, to receive without lowering your standards, and how powerful, independent women can rewrite the rules of love and partnership.EPISODE TIMELINE00:00 - Introduction and

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00:41:04

EP 3: Anxious, Avoidant, or Secure? How Attachment...

We"re Dating the Same Guy ·

2025/04/01

If you’re tired of dating on repeat and wondering why you keep attracting the same type of partners, this episode is for you! Attachment styles play a major role in how we show up in relationships—how we connect, how we handle conflict, and even why we push people away (or cling too tightly).Today, I’m joined by Tori McCabe, LMFT, a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in attachment and relational trauma. Together, we’re unpacking how your attachment style shapes your dating life and,

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00:21:05

EP 2: Gaining Closure and Clarity When None Is Given

We"re Dating the Same Guy ·

2025/04/01

Ever been ghosted? Left in the dark with no explanation? Waiting for answers that never come? You’re not alone. In this episode of We’re Dating the Same Guy, we’re diving deep into the painful reality of not getting closure—and how to move forward anyway.💔 Why we crave closure and whether it actually helps us heal💡 The hard truth: Why some people will NEVER give you the answers you want🛑 How waiting for closure keeps you stuck in the past✨ The mindset shifts that help you create your own closure

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