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The Openlove101 Show

John & Jackie Melfi

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we"re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the

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06:24

Is It Safe for Single Women to Visit Swinger Clubs?

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/08/26

Is It Safe for Single Women to Visit Swinger Clubs? | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Curious about visiting a swinger club as a single woman—but feeling unsure? In this empowering video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com tackle the common fears and societal judgments that often hold women back from exploring their sexuality in safe, respectful environments like Colette Clubs. They break down myths, share real experiences, and explain why women are always in control at swinger clubs—no pressure, no

07:36

The Dance of Differences: Making Non-Monogamy Work...

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2025/08/19

Do Opposite Personalities Work in Non-Monogamy? | Open Love 101 Podcast Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the dynamics of opposite personalities in consensual non-monogamy and swinging relationships. In this candid discussion, the couple explores how their own introvert-extrovert dynamic plays out in their relationship and at their famous Colette Swingers Clubs. With over twenty years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, John and Jackie

06:45

Debunking Myths About the Swinger Lifestyle

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2025/08/12

Debunking Myths About the Swinger Lifestyle | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Is swinging just cheating in disguise? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com bust common myths about the swinging lifestyle—starting with one of the biggest misconceptions: that swinging equals infidelity. They explain how transparency, trust, and emotional connection are key parts of their relationship, and why swinging isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience. From soft swap dynamics to deeper compatibility, they

21:07

Beyond the Bedroom: Exploring the Non-Sexual Benefits...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/08/05

Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the often-overlooked non-sexual benefits of being in an open relationship. With over 20 years of combined experience and as owners of the Colette Swingers Clubs, the couple shares their personal insights on how consensual non-monogamy has transformed their relationship beyond the bedroom. In this eye-opening episode, discover how swinging and open relationships can lead to enhanced communication, deeper trust, stronger friendships, and greater

07:25

How the Swinger Lifestyle Transformed Our Relationship

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2025/07/29

How the Swinger Lifestyle Transformed Our Relationship | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 In this candid conversation, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com open up about how embracing the swinger lifestyle has reshaped their views on sex, love, and connection. Jackie shares her personal journey from monogamy to empowerment through sexual exploration, while John reflects on how swinging has brought more honesty, freedom, and trust into their relationship. Together, they explore how non-monogamy has

37:35

Beyond the Myth: Insider Perspectives on the Swinger...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/07/22

Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they welcome their marketing guru Courtney on camera for the first time to discuss common misconceptions about swingers clubs. With Courtney providing a monogamous perspective on the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable insights for both newcomers and those curious about what really happens at Colette Swingers Clubs. In this eye-opening conversation, they tackle everything from outfit anxiety to unexpected encounters, proving that reality is often far different

06:26

How We Talk to Our Kids About Open Relationships

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2025/07/15

How do you explain non-traditional relationships to your children? In this thoughtful video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com open up about parenting while living an open lifestyle. With eight kids between them, they share how they’ve approached honest, age-appropriate conversations about love, trust, and relationship diversity—without oversharing or crossing boundaries. They emphasize the importance of transparency, emotional intelligence, and modeling values like honesty and

25:21

This or That: Exploring Consensual Non-Monogamy

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2025/07/08

Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi in this fun and revealing episode where they play "This or That: Lifestyle Edition"! The couple behind colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning openlove101.com blog share their preferences on various aspects of open relationships and swinging. In this candid discussion, John and Jackie answer questions about full swap vs soft swap, playing together vs separately, and much more. With over 13 years of experience in consensual non-monogamy, they offer valuable

06:01

Swingers Lifestyle & New Way of Looking at Jealousy

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2025/07/01

Jealousy in Open Relationships: Fix It or Ignore It? | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 What do jealousy and a broken refrigerator have in common? In this thoughtful video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com use a clever analogy to explore how people handle jealousy—whether they choose to fix it, ignore it, or live with it. Through personal stories and practical insights, they explain why open communication is essential in relationships, especially in non-monogamous dynamics. Instead of avoiding

40:43

The Psychology of Open Relationships: Insights from a...

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2025/06/24

Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning blog openlove101.com, as they dive deep into relationship psychology with licensed professional counselor Dr. Alyssa Webb-McCune. This enlightening conversation explores various relationship models, from traditional monogamy to swinging and polyamory. Dr. Webb-McCune shares her expertise on building healthy relationships, navigating boundaries, and understanding the psychology behind different

06:32

What Is Compersion? Exploring Joy in Non-Monogamous...

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2025/06/17

Can you feel joy when your partner finds happiness with someone else? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive into the concept of compersion—the emotional opposite of jealousy—and how it can create deeper connection, trust, and personal growth in non-monogamous relationships. They share their own experiences, discuss challenges rooted in traditional relationship norms, and explain how compersion can reduce pressure, expand emotional freedom, and even strengthen primary

15:47

Can You Love More Than One Person?

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2025/06/10

How to Reconnect After a Lifestyle Misstep In this heartfelt episode, John and Jackie dive deep into the emotional side of open relationships—exploring the joys, challenges, and growth that come from forming emotional connections beyond a primary partner. They share how maintaining friendships, embracing vulnerability, and communicating openly can actually strengthen the bond between partners. Jackie discusses how love isn't finite, and John reflects on how emotional openness has enriched their

07:58

Honey, wanna go to a Swinger's Club?

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/06/03

Curious about exploring a swingers club but not sure how to bring it up with your partner? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share personal stories and thoughtful advice on approaching the lifestyle with someone who may feel hesitant. Filmed in New Orleans during Mardi Gras, they discuss common fears, misconceptions, and the importance of honest, pressure-free communication. Jackie opens up about her own early doubts—and how one visit changed her perspective. Whether you're just

47:21

Boundaries vs Rules: The Key to Open Relationship...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/05/27

Curious about the secrets behind open relationship success? Ever thought about how boundaries and rules can transform your love life? Let’s explore it together! In this exciting episode, we chat with lifestyle coach Diana Ryan about what it takes to build trust, intimacy, and open communication in a consensual non-monogamous relationship. Whether you're navigating swinging, threesomes, or exploring the open lifestyle for the first time, this conversation is packed with valuable insights! Tune in to

09:56

Jealousy in Relationships: How to Talk About It

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2025/05/20

Jealousy in Relationships: How to Talk About It | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Jealousy isn’t just one emotion—it’s a mix of fear, anger, and vulnerability. In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive into the emotional complexity of jealousy and how couples can navigate it with open, honest communication. They share personal stories and explore how different people process jealousy in unique ways. Discover how understanding your emotional triggers—and embracing the idea of compersion

07:03

How Single Men Can Succeed in Swingers Clubs

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2025/05/06

How Single Men Can Succeed in Swingers Clubs | Tips from John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Filmed during Mardi Gras in New Orleans, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive into what single men need to know before stepping into swingers clubs like Colette. From respectful etiquette to building genuine connections, they offer practical advice for creating positive experiences in the lifestyle. Learn why starting with friendly conversation—not propositions—is key, how to approach couples with kindness, and

35:29

Breaking Myths About Swinging: A Unicorn’s Perspective

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2025/04/29

Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Ever thought about what it’s like to embrace intimacy, trust, and communication in new ways? Let’s explore it together! 🌟 In this eye-opening conversation, John and Jackie from OpenLove101 chat with Black Coco, a proud unicorn in the swinging world, as she shares her incredible journey and breaks common myths about threesomes, swingers, and the open lifestyle. Discover the secrets of what it truly means to be a unicorn, how lifestyle clubs differ

08:31

Swingers Lifestyle: Working Past Uncomfortable Feelings

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2025/04/22

In this candid conversation, John and Jackie from Openlove101 dive into how relationship dynamics evolve over time—especially in open and non-traditional partnerships. They share real-life experiences of how initial excitement around adventurous intimacy (like inviting others into the bedroom) can shift into feelings of jealousy and insecurity as emotional bonds deepen. From skydiving metaphors to intimate storytelling, they explore how emotional responses change, how communication is the glue that

16:51

The Hidden Truth About Partner Jealousy I Finally...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/04/15

Discover the hidden truth about partner jealousy in open relationships! Ever struggled with feelings of control when your partner is with someone else? In this raw and honest video, I share my personal journey from experiencing intense anxiety to finding peace and excitement in open relationships. Want to know how I transformed those uncomfortable feelings of jealousy into genuine excitement for my partner's experiences? I break down the exact steps that helped me overcome my fears, including

08:37

Visiting Swingers Club as a Single Woman

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/04/08

In today's throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about visiting a swingers club as a single woman! They discuss expectations, ways to break the ice, and how to make the most of your experience inside of a lifestyle club! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

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