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The Niche Is You

Matthew Gottesman

Hi, I’m Matt Gottesman (@mattgottesman on Instagram) and this is my daily podcast where I offer practical thoughts and perspectives to un-complicate life, creativity and the pursuit of your highest self. Instead of choosing one niche for the podcast, I decided that the niche is you… a simple, straight forward show about the power of not boxing yourself into any one category, title or niche, but embracing all of your gifts, having a better relationship with yourself and trusting your path

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20:38

In Relationships Feeling Safe Is More Important Than...

The Niche Is You ·

2026/01/02

In this episode we’ll talk about:Why excitement is often mistaken for alignment or chemistryHow safety creates deeper connection and better decisionsThe nervous-system difference between excitement and stabilityWhy many people confuse intensity with meaningHow safety allows growth, creativity, and intimacy to lastLearning to trust calm without labeling it “boring”and more. CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→

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21:40

Consistency Is the Most Underrated Skill

The Niche Is You ·

2026/01/01

In this episode we’ll talk about:Why consistency matters more than confidence or clarityHow waiting for certainty slows creative momentumThe difference between disciplined practice and forced outputWhy showing up imperfectly builds more skill than waiting to feel readyHow consistency creates trust — with your work and with yourselfLetting direction reveal itself through repetitionand more. CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel —

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21:15

Stop Measuring Progress by Visibility

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/31

In this episode we’ll talk about:Why visibility has become the default metric for successThe difference between visible progress and real progressHow chasing attention can distort directionThe importance of quiet consistencyLearning to trust growth that isn’t immediately seenRecognizing wins that don’t come with applauseand more. CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→

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23:27

The Cost of Ignoring What Your Body Already Knows

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/30

In this episode we’ll talk about:What it means to listen to your body — beyond trends or jargonHow the body signals truth before the mind catches upThe cost of overriding physical and emotional cuesWhy rest is often information, not avoidanceHow intuition lives in sensation, not just thoughtSimple ways to rebuild trust with your bodyand more. CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK

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21:58

Listening Is a Form of Respect We Underrate

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/29

In this episode we’ll talk about:Why listening is one of the most overlooked forms of respectHow fixing often replaces understandingThe difference between hearing and being presentWhy people don’t want solutions — they want to feel metHow asking better questions deepens connectionWhat changes when you stop trying to manage conversationsand more. CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List —

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18:55

Why the Best Work Often Feels Obvious in Hindsight

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/26

In this episode we’ll talk about:Why meaningful work rarely feels dramatic while you’re doing itHow clarity often arrives after consistency, not beforeThe danger of dismissing ideas because they feel “too obvious”Why hindsight clarity doesn’t mean the process was easyLearning to trust what keeps returning quietlySeparating real progress from performative momentumand more. CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→

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21:24

Learning to Trust What Feels Obvious to You (Even...

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/25

In this episode we’ll talk about:Why what feels “obvious” to you often isn’t explainable to othersThe cost of over-explaining your instincts and decisionsHow quiet confidence develops over timeThe difference between clarity and consensusLearning to move without needing permission or applauseand more. CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS +

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24:05

If We’re Going to Love Each Other… Let’s Love the...

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/24

In this episode we’ll talk about:Why presenting ourselves as “perfect” creates distance, not connectionHow fear drives image-management in relationshipsWhy messiness is not a flaw, but a doorway to intimacyThe difference between loving someone and allowing them to be imperfectHow emotional safety creates deeper bondsWhy real love requires risk — and protection once it’s foundand more. CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel —

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19:14

I Want to See You Win… It’s Not About Me… It’s About...

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/23

In this episode we’ll talk about:What it really means to want someone else to winShifting from self-centered relationships to soul-centered onesHow support becomes a shared responsibility, not a performanceBeing part of someone’s journey without losing your ownWhy the right circles feel collaborative, not competitiveCreating relationships where growth is mutualand more. CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→

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20:56

The Creative Advantage of Being Hard to Categorize

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/22

In this episode we’ll talk about:Why society pushes people to simplify themselves too earlyHow being “hard to label” actually sharpens creativityThe difference between being scattered and being expansiveWhy range improves problem-solving and originalityLetting your interests inform your work instead of limiting itTrusting that clarity can emerge after explorationand more. CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→

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22:58

The New Measure of Progress Isn’t Promotion — It’s...

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/19

In this episode we’ll talk about:Why external advancement no longer guarantees inner fulfillmentHow coherence replaces promotion as a meaningful measure of progressThe cost of living fragmented across identity, work, faith, and valuesWhy peace, clarity, and integrity signal real growthHow God forms coherence before expanding influenceLearning to build a life that actually fits who you’re becomingand more. CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com →

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20:08

Capacity Is Built in the Middle of the Blessing — Not...

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/18

In this episode we’ll talk about:Why blessings often arrive before we “feel ready”How God uses responsibility, not rehearsal, to strengthen usWhy growth inside the blessing looks different from preparation before itThe emotional and spiritual stretch that comes with answered prayersLearning to sustain what you once only hoped forWhy capacity is formed through practice, not projectionsand more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com→ Apparel —

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25:14

The Cost of Overthinking a Life That Wants to Be Lived

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/17

In this episode we’ll talk about:Why the mind tries to think its way into safetyHow over-processing keeps you from experiencing what you’re praying forThe emotional and spiritual cost of living in your headWhy embodiment moves you further than mental preparationHow presence deepens intuition and spiritual discernmentLetting life teach you instead of trying to predict itWhy God works through movement, not ruminationThe nervous-system component: how overthinking becomes a coping mechanismand

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23:50

Why Peace Is a Better Guide Than Certainty

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/16

In this episode we’ll talk about:Peace as a spiritual compassWhy clarity often arrives after obedienceHow urgency exposes fear, not directionWhat divine steadiness feels likeLearning to choose inner calm over external certaintyHow to detect when something is “off” vs. when it is simply unfamiliarThe emotional difference between alignment and reassuranceWhy God speaks most clearly through what regulates your spiritand more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack —

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22:30

Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path... It’s Taking the...

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/15

In this episode we’ll talk about:Why faith is active, not passiveHow clarity follows obedience, not the other way aroundWhy waiting to ‘feel ready’ often delays growth” — readiness is built through movement, not before it”Why forcing outcomes breaks alignmentHow God guides through nudges, not full explanationsWhat "the next honest step" actually looks like in real lifeHow to move with sincerity instead of strategyTrusting God with what you can’t see while stewarding what you canThe spiritual

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23:23

Slow Is Not a Speed… It’s Precision

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/12

In this episode we’ll talk about:Why rushing scatters your purpose, while precision strengthens itThe difference between pace and pressure — and how to stop forcing your lifeHow purposeful slowness deepens clarity, creativity, and spiritual alignmentWhy being everywhere dilutes your calling — and being exact amplifies itHow God meets you when you stop moving out of fear and start moving with intentionWhat happens when you trade urgency for accuracy in relationships, work, and personal growthand

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22:22

There’s a Difference Between Being Pushed By Fear &...

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/11

In this episode we’ll talk about:The energetic difference between fear-pressure and God-guidanceWhy your spirit often knows before your mind catches upHow recurring thoughts are invitations, not coincidencesWhy peace — not urgency — is the real sign of alignmentHow God prepares capacity long before revealing the assignmentThe internal “nudges” that signal you’re being shapedHow formation feels slow but is deeply intentionalWhy waiting seasons are not punishment, but preparationWhat happens when you

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21:49

Your Nervous System Is Your Leadership System

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/10

In this episode we break down the connection between inner stability, spiritual strength, and the way you actually build your life.We’ll talk about:Why your nervous system is the foundation of every decision you makeHow dysregulation creates misalignment, urgency, and self-sabotageHow clarity emerges naturally when your system is calmWhy spiritual leadership requires emotional groundingThe connection between regulation and confident decision-makingWhy peace—not pressure—creates momentumHow to build

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22:34

Share the Rough Drafts… They Carry Our Deepest Truth

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/09

In this episode we explore why the “rough drafts” of your life — the unpolished moments, the imperfect beginnings, the early attempts at becoming — are often the most honest and essential parts of the journey.We’ll talk about:why waiting to feel “ready” keeps you stuckwhy God doesn’t ask for perfection, but willingnesswhy the early versions of anything carry the deepest truthhow sharing your becoming builds courage and claritywhy hiding the rough drafts blocks transformationhow showing up

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24:03

We Don’t Need to Fix… We Need to Love

The Niche Is You ·

2025/12/08

In this episode, I talk about…The difference between supporting someone and trying to save themHow to offer presence without absorbing responsibilityWhy real love requires patience, emotional steadiness, and self-regulationHow God guides us through invitation, not pressureWhat happens when you stop managing people’s growth and start trusting their processHow to create emotional safety instead of urgencyWhy fixer energy accidentally creates distance (even with good intentions)How to shift from

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