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The Generous Husband

Paul H. Byerly

Rants on being a better husband

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Appreciating the Unseen: Rekindling Gratitude

The Generous Husband ·

2025/01/20

When did you last thank your wife for doing something that’s “her job”? It’s easy to stop being aware of things she does if she does them well. Out of sight, out of mind, as they say. Take a moment to think about the things she does so reliably you’ve stopped thinking about them. Then […] The post Appreciating the Unseen: Rekindling Gratitude first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Christian Sex Coaching: Finding Help for Sexual Problems

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2025/01/18

A few days ago, I suggested you get help for your marriage if you need it. Today, I want to give you the same advice for your sex life. When we were newly married, Lori and I could have used some help in this area. But we couldn’t find anyone with a Christian world view […]The post Christian Sex Coaching: Finding Help for Sexual Problems first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Seeking Help for Your Marriage: Early Intervention...

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2025/01/16

I want to encourage you to get help for your marriage if you need it. And sooner is better than later! Most couples who seek help from counsellors, therapists, or coaches wait far too long. When getting help is seen as a last ditch, desperate measure, the problems pile up and dealing with them becomes […]The post Seeking Help for Your Marriage: Early Intervention Matters first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Different Sexual Realities: Understanding Her Side

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2025/01/11

Yesterday I told the women on The XY Code that if women understood what sex means to their husband, and how not having it often enough effects him, she would say no far less often. I said if she was not up to full sex, she would be quick to offer something else, and would […]The post Different Sexual Realities: Understanding Her Side first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Nurturing Your Marriage: The Power of Attention &...

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2025/01/07

When I sit back and watch people, what I see is a lot of folks dying for attention and respect. And I see some doing crazy things to get those things. If you have kids, you’ve seen them do this since before they could talk. Adults are a bit more subtle, but if you look […]The post Nurturing Your Marriage: The Power of Attention & Respect first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Adapting Our Ministry to Changing Times: What’s Next?

The Generous Husband ·

2025/01/06

So we finished the year at just under 80% of our fund-raising goal. For the same amount we have set the last three years What does this mean? Based on the comments we got with some donations, what we’re saying is still relevant and helpful. The issue is blogging is an ancient platform with a […] The post Adapting Our Ministry to Changing Times: What’s Next? first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Honouring Your Wife by Letting Go of Sexual Preferences

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2025/01/04

Yesterday on The XY Code, I suggested the ladies pick one sex thing they don’t like and tell their husband they won’t be doing that thing in 2025 Such a post should be not necessary, but I know it is. And that means I also need to address the other side of this with you […] The post Honouring Your Wife by Letting Go of Sexual Preferences first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Transform Your Marriage in 2025

The Generous Husband ·

2024/12/31

Would you like a better marriage in 2025? If you keep doing what you’ve been doing, you can expect more of the same. While there is no guarantee doing things differently will make your marriage better, not doing things differently guarantees it won’t get better. You can greatly improve the odds of things getting better […]The post Transform Your Marriage in 2025 first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Healing Your Marriage: Resolving Conflicts Before the...

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2024/12/30

Before you ring out the old year and ring in the new year, is there any offence from 2024 you need to deal with? This is true across the board, but my focus is on your marriage. I’m not talking about who’s at fault here, because really that’s not the issue. Romans 12:18 tells us: […] The post Healing Your Marriage: Resolving Conflicts Before the New Year first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Silent Crisis: Busyness is Creating Sexless Marriages

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2024/12/28

I’ve been aware of a growing trend of sexless marriages in Asian countries for several decades. In the early nineties, a Japanese psychiatrist introduced the term “sexless couple”. He defined that as a couple with no circumstances preventing sex who go without sex by mutual agreement. Today, it’s estimated 45% of Japanese couples are sexless. […] The post Silent Crisis: Busyness is Creating Sexless Marriages first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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FF: Strengthening Your Marriage: Year-End Review &...

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2024/12/27

Christmas has passed, so we will now be swamped with “Year in Review” stories. Why don’t you do a year in review with your wife? Take some time to discuss both the good and the bad of 2024. Discuss how you can repeat the good, and avoid repeating the bad. If there is bad you […] The post FF: Strengthening Your Marriage: Year-End Review & Vision for 2025 first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Preparing for Life’s Storms: Marriage Emergency...

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2024/12/26

Last Tuesday, we lost power just after 8 PM. We got power back 33 hours later. We live up a mountain, and there are a lot of trees near the power wires, so storms and wet snow can be a problem. There are only a few dozen homes here, so we’re a low priority. It’s […]The post Preparing for Life’s Storms: Marriage Emergency Readiness first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Last-Minute Christmas Love: Serving Your Wife

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2024/12/23

Okay, guys, Christmas is less than 48 hours away. So here’s my husband game plan: Be insanely helpful Be wildly compassionate and full of grace. Rub her shoulders, get her drinks, and pamper her in any way you can. Don’t expect, ask for, or hint about sex. If she offers, accept and tell her how […]The post Last-Minute Christmas Love: Serving Your Wife first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Understanding the Difference Between Arousal and Lust

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2024/12/21

I want to talk about arousal vs lust. They’re not the same thing, and only one is sinful. Let’s say you’re walking along a forest path. You round a corner, and see a coral snake on the path. A part of your brain that does not reason causes a release of adrenaline, readying you to […] The post Understanding the Difference Between Arousal and Lust first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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The Art of Thoughtful Gifting: Creative Gift Coupons

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2024/12/18

The best gifts are things that can’t be delivered in a nicely wrapped box. This is where gift certificates come in. That link goes to certificates over on the TMB site that you can personalise and print. If you know she would like more date nights, give her coupons for that. Specify you need a […]The post The Art of Thoughtful Gifting: Creative Gift Coupons first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Unsung Heroes In Action

The Generous Husband ·

2024/12/17

I talk a lot about serving others. Today I want to share about some folks who are doing that in very real, practical ways. The names have been changed. Mary, an elderly woman, can no longer drive. For several years, Joe has picked her up at her home, driven her to church, and helped her […]The post Unsung Heroes In Action first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Navigating The Fallout from Premarital Sex

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2024/12/16

Last Friday, I talked to the ladies about sexual bait and switch from before the wedding to after. The classic is the woman who gives blowjobs before marriage, but not after. My suggestion was women do this because sex has become the price of admission for follow-up dates and getting married. The post generated some […] The post Navigating The Fallout from Premarital Sex first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Reasonable or Not? Context Matters.

The Generous Husband ·

2024/12/12

I’d like to introduce you to the concept of situationally reasonable. Imagine you and your wife are lost in the wilderness, and dangerously hungry. In that situation, it’s reasonable to give her grubs to eat. The same offer in the backyard at home is not reasonable. Understanding the situation is an important part of knowing […]The post Reasonable or Not? Context Matters. first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Marriage as Ministry: Your Relationship as a Witness

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2024/12/10

I have a friend who was born in the US after his Christian parents fled a Muslim country. Yesterday at church, he thanked me for the work I do with marriages. He told me that a happy Christian couple is a strong witness to Muslims. While the effect would not be as great for other […]The post Marriage as Ministry: Your Relationship as a Witness first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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Avoid Presumption: Respecting Her Time and Goodwill

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2024/12/09

Do you presume on your wife during the holiday season? You presume she will get gifts for the kids? You presume she will wrap gifts you buy? How often do you presume on her time? What about presuming on her good will? Make a point of asking if she can do what you want her […] The post Avoid Presumption: Respecting Her Time and Goodwill first appeared on The Generous Husband.

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