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The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast

Dom Sub Living | BDSM & Kink Relationships

Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle. Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey.Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra promotes sex education, healthy power

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16:59

What Most People Get Wrong About BDSM Negotiation

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2025/01/13

#066 Negotiation isn't just a skill, it's a gift you give your dynamic.🌟 Exclusive Offer: Are you ready to elevate your negotiation skills? Check out our All Access Pass now: https://domsubliving.com/allaccessIn this episode, we're exploring the must-know steps for negotiating your BDSM relationship. From prepping your thoughts to choosing the right time to talk, you'll get the lowdown on clear and honest communication. We're sharing personal stories, busting common myths, and explaining why

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16:47

Impact Play 101: 5 Beginner-Friendly Ideas to Try Now

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/12/09

#061 Curious about impact play but don’t know where to start? Or maybe you’re worried about doing it wrong? Don’t stress—you’re in the right place. In this episode, we'll guide you through 5 easy, beginner-friendly impact play ideas that are safe, fun, and perfect for building your skills. We’ll cover everything from hands-only techniques to using everyday tools like wooden spoons and paddles—all while prioritizing safety and connection. Ready to explore? Grab your favorite tool (or hands!) a...

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17:08

Exploring Your Kinky Identity: BDSM Roles Beyond Dom...

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/12/02

#060 What's your role in the world of BDSM? Let's dive in and find out! Join us as we break down the ins and outs of BDSM roles. From Dominants and submissives to fun niche roles like primal play and rope bondage, there's something for everyone. Hear personal stories, get tips on discovering your role, and learn how to make BDSM uniquely yours. Whether you're just starting out or looking to deepen your experience, this episode's got you covered. Don't miss out—tune in now and start your BDSM ...

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18:10

Service-Oriented BDSM: Elevate Your Dom/sub Dynamic

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/11/25

#059 How do small, intentional acts of service transform a relationship? Join us as we dive into balancing parenthood, health, and wellness, all while serving from a place of strength. We've got tips on setting up intimate scenes, starting small with acts of service, and creating meaningful rituals. From helping with morning routines to mindful tasks like making coffee, you'll see how intentional service can really deepen your bond. Want to try it out? Grab our free list of 20 service protoco...

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18:49

10 Dom/sub Ideas for Public Spaces – No One Will Notice!

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/11/18

#058 Worried about keeping your Dom/sub dynamic alive in public without drawing attention We've got you covered! Join us as we dive into 10 subtle and kinky ideas for maintaining your D/s connection in everyday settings. Learn creative tips from secret hand signals to special dress codes, ensuring your dynamic stays strong and thrilling, even at family gatherings! And stick around for our favorite sneaky trick at the end!– Free list of 20+ protocol ideas: https://domsubliving.com/protocols– S...

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16:37

Dom Drop 101: Support Strategies Every Sub Should Know

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/11/11

#057 Even Dominants need a break sometimes. In this eye-opening episode of the Dom Sub Living Podcast, we're breaking down the concept of "Dom drop" and its impact on the dynamic. Learn how to recognize the signs, offer tailored aftercare, and support your Dominant through emotional crashes. Discover tips to encourage rest, conduct meaningful check-ins, and rebuild your dynamic with small, achievable goals.Feeling connected? Share your experiences and support techniques, and don't forget to s...

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16:04

Punishment or Play? How to Know the Difference in BDSM

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/11/04

#056 How do you know if a spanking is all fun and games or a real punishment? Mixing them up can lead to confusion and hurt feelings, even if everything's consensual! In this episode, we're breaking down the key differences between punishments and funishments. We’re talking about setting clear intentions, avoiding mixed signals, and keeping your kinky dynamics fun and trust-filled. Get tips on how to identify and navigate emotional impacts in your scenes. Don't forget to grab our free list of...

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19:49

Frightening Fantasies: Exploring Darker Desires in BDSM

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/10/28

#055 Have you ever had a fantasy that scares you? Maybe it feels too intense, or you're worried it says something bad about you. Darker desires are more common than you think, and they can be safely explored with the right tools and communication. In this episode, we're diving into the psychology behind frightening fantasies like consensual non-consent, degradation play, and edge play. You’ll learn how to navigate these desires without guilt or judgment, set boundaries, and create trust throu...

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20:33

Why Kink and Politics Can’t Be Separated and What It...

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/10/21

#054: Is kink political? Tune in as we get real about the challenges facing the kink community today. From censorship on social media to how obscenity laws mess with our lives, we're covering it all. Learn about the fight for inclusive spaces, the valuable work of kink advocacy groups, and why your vote really matters. We also dive into the intersection of kink with issues like consent, power dynamics, and how politics shape our kink spaces - especially for marginalized folks. Get involved an...

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24:36

Submissive Training Secrets: Mastering Your Role in...

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/10/14

#053 What drives a submissive to grow and reach their fullest potential? It's all in the training. Join us in this episode as we break down how to create personalized training plans that fit your unique dynamic. We’ll talk about why protocols need purpose, how patience and consistency are your best friends, and the quirky yet helpful "car analogy" for ongoing improvement. Get real strategies to improve your emotional and mental connection. Grab your free "How to Be a Good Sub Cheat Sheet" and...

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18:46

How to Build BDSM Protocols to Deepen Your D/s...

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/10/07

#052 Can serving coffee really make your Dom/sub dynamic stronger? You bet it can! Join us as we break down the ins and outs of using protocols to add depth to your relationship. Find out how small steps like kneeling and wearing a day collar can make a big difference without becoming overwhelming. We also share practical tips like doing morning check-ins and nightly rituals to keep that connection strong. Plus, hear some fun, real-life stories about how these little routines can totally tran...

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11:30

How to Vet a Dominant: Key Questions and Red Flags to...

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/08/26

#046 Worried about finding a Dominant who really respects your boundaries? Let’s make sure you’re in good hands. In this episode, we're breaking down the essentials of vetting a Dom. We’re talking key questions to ask, red flags to watch out for, and practical safety hacks to keep you protected. Plus, we're sharing some real-life stories and even a cool quiz to help you spot those fake doms from a mile away. Check out the fun Fake Dom Quiz and step up your vetting game!– Take the Fake Dom Qui...

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13:53

Understanding Brats in BDSM: Embrace the Fun and...

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/08/19

#045 Brats are having a moment right now, but have you ever wondered why some people love bratting in BDSM while others find it frustrating? In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of brats in the kink lifestyle. Discover the playful psychology behind bratty behavior, key distinctions between playful and disrespectful bratting, and practical tips for both Doms and subs to enhance their dynamic. Learn how to set boundaries, incorporate fun and discipline, and turn bratting into a pos...

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21:10

Maintenance Spankings: 5 Things You Need to Know

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/08/12

#044 Ever wondered how to keep the spark alive in a Dom/Sub relationship and keep bratty behavior at bay? Let’s talk about maintenance spankings! In this episode, we're delving into the world of maintenance spankings. We discuss their purpose, benefits, and how they differ from punishment spankings. Learn why consistency and routine are crucial, and get tips on tracking your sessions. Tune in to find out how these prearranged, consensual acts can reinforce roles and sharpen focus, providing p...

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34:33

The BDSM Olympics: Top 10 Kinky Skills Revealed

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/08/05

#043 Ever wondered what it would be like to compete in a BDSM Olympics? Join us as we dive into the thrilling concept of a BDSM Olympics, exploring impact play, sensory deprivation, and the importance of safety and communication in Doom/sub dynamics. Learn about top kinky skills, like wax play, medical play, and electro play, and discover how to take your scenes to the next level. This episode covers it all with personal anecdotes, practical advice, and a unique take on the BDSM community. Tu...

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21:11

Perfectionism in BDSM as a Dom or Sub

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/07/08

#039: "Perfection is the enemy of progress in your BDSM journey." Join host, Alesandra, as she opens up about her personal struggle with perfectionism as a sub and its impact on her relationship. Discover how the pressure to be perfect can hold both Doms and subs back and learn practical tips to embrace imperfection, set realistic goals, and celebrate progress. We're also announcing our free 4-day boot camp, "Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey," complete with a private community forum, daily trainin...

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23:52

Navigating BDSM with a Disability: Empowering Your...

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/07/01

#038: Can someone with a disability still live the BDSM lifestyle to the full? In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of disability, chronic illness, and kink. With growing awareness around health issues, we're sharing personal stories, practical tips, and the importance of inclusivity. Discover how communication, consent, and specialized tools can empower Dominants and submissives with disabilities. Let’s break the stigma and celebrate all abilities in our Dom/sub community!– Acce...

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36:43

BDSM Q&A: Fresh Ideas, Avoiding Burnout, Navigating DMs

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/06/10

Ever wondered how to keep your kink life fresh and exciting? Let's uncover some secrets together! In this AMA episode, we're tackling your burning questions about scene improvement, avoiding burnout, and maintaining excitement in long-term BDSM relationships. Alesandra shares personal insights from her D/s partnership with Jay, tips on creating rituals, managing D/s dynamics while parenting, and strategies for integrating kink into everyday life. Exclusive tips include revamping your toy coll...

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30:55

Bisexual Submissive in a BDSM Dynamic: My Story

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/06/03

#034: How do you balance being bi and submissive? In this episode, we're getting real about the ups and downs of being a bisexual sub while having a Dominant, male partner. We're tackling labels, biphobia, and how the BDSM and LGBTQ+ communities intersect. Plus, find out how a bi sub navigates her non-binary attractions and battles stereotypes. Don't miss out on this important conversation!– Free 'How to Be a Good Sub' cheatsheet: https://domsubliving.com/sub– Show notes and more: https://dom...

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29:10

Connecting with the Kink Community

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast ·

2024/04/08

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