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It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+ Relationships

Lindsay Goodman

It"s Not All Rainbows is a podcast hosted by Lindsay Goodman, a trauma recovery coach & survivor of narcissistic abuse in a queer relationship. Many licensed professionals have called narcissistic abuse "the most severe form of domestic violence" and yet, most survivors of this insidious abuse suffer behind closed doors. Most people, including mental health practitioners and first responders do not understand what this type of abuse can look like and how it can affect survivors. INAR will

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00:18:04

Am I A Fool for Not Knowing it was Abuse Sooner?

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/11/22

Many people tell me they feel like a fool for not recognizing the abuse sooner. In this episode, I talk about why it doesn't make sense for us to feel that way! Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:16:20

Traumaversaries!

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2023/11/15

In this episode I talk about what it can be like as trauma anniversaries roll around. How does it feel? How does it effect our bodies? How to get through those times? Website: Thelindsaygoodman.con 1:1 coaching/group coaching Calendly.com/Thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:21:54

They’re ALREADY Dating Someone Else! Noooooo!

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/11/08

Did you "go crazy" when your ABUSER moved on their next victim? Let's talk about why that might be and what to do about it!Website: thelindsaygoodman.com1:1 coaching/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:20:09

Why Should I Stay Single After Abuse?

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/11/01

In this episode I talk about several reasons why it's so important to not rush into another relationship, especially after abuse (I KNOW you don't want to hear this but it's important)! Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:20:40

PET THAT DOG! Pets in Abusive Relationships

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/10/25

In this episode, I talk about two reasons why I DON'T pet the dog in my viral birthday video (here: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8rqpPKS/). Pets are used as pawns in relationship and here I dive into what that can look like for a victim. Website: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman 1:1 coaching/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:30:07

TWO YEARS NO CONTACT Q&A

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/10/18

In this episode, I answer your questions about going and staying no contact. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching/group coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:19:39

Do You Mistake the Push-Pull for Love?

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/10/11

In this episode I talk about how so many of us confuse the push-pull abuse dynamic with love and why it is NOT love. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:16:16

Triangulation

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/10/04

In this episode I tell a story of a specific experience with triangulation on the day my abuser and I "broke up." I'll talk about what triangulation can look like and why coercive controllers use this tactic. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:18:39

Abusive People Will Come Between You and Your Kids

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2023/09/27

In this episode I talk about how an abusive person may try to sever the connection between you and your kids and I give several examples of what that can look like. I'll also dive into why they do this insidious abuse tactic. website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: thelindsaygoodman.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:16:11

Things Have Gotten Better! Should I Stay?

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/09/20

In this episode I talk about when your abuser seems to be getting better. Are they actually changing? Is the relationship still viable? Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:20:31

Retraining Your Brain After Abuse

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2023/09/13

In this episode, I talk about ways we can retrain our brains after abuse and how the brain works when it comes to changing the messages we've been given! Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman lindsaygoodmancoaching on Tiktok and Instagram --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:22:14

Recovering From Child Abuse (by Proxy)

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2023/09/07

In this episode, I talk about the experience of healing from having your child used as a pawn to abuse you/having your child abused by proxy and the struggles that come with it. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:18:04

Mysterious Physical Issues?

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/08/30

In this episode I talk about mysterious (or not so mysterious) health issues that can come with experiencing intimate partner violence (or abuse from a parent, etc). Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:12:09

They're Suddenly Being SO Nice!

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/08/23

In this episode I talk about what it really means when your abuser suddenly starts offering to be helpful. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:24:33

Dating Green/Red Flags (with Kids)

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2023/08/09

In this episode I go over some of the green and red flags to look for when dating when children are involved (but honestly this can apply without children too). Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:17:05

Covert Abuse in a Viral Video

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/08/09

In this episode I talk about my birthday blueberry video which went viral on Tiktok and Instagram (56m+ views) in 2022. WHY was it so viral? WHY is it so important to talk about covert abuse? Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:16:20

Is it Bad That I'm Grieving my Abuser?

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2023/08/02

In this episode I talk about grief. Often we feel (or society makes us feel) like we shouldn't be grieving for someone who has harmed us so terribly. Let's talk about it!Website: thelindsaygoodman.com1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:23:36

Abuse in LGBTQ+ Relationships

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/07/26

In this week's episode I talk about a not often talked about subject: the nitty gritty of what abuse can look like in an LGBTQ+ relationship. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1;1 coaching: Calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:16:15

Help! I Want to go No Contact but I Don't Want to...

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2023/07/19

In this episode I talk about the survivor tendency to be hesitant to go no contact with our abuser. I'll talk you through some of the considerations and hopefully help get you off the fence and on the road to recovery. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:16:57

Do We HAVE to Forgive Them to Heal?

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/07/12

In this episode I talk about the idea that we have to forgive our abuser in order to heal. Is it required? is there something else that can help instead? Website: thelindsaygoodman.comIG & TT: lindsaygoodmancoaching1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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