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PODCAST

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction

Sam Tielemans, LMFT

Break free from pornography and rebuild the trust in your relationship. Hosted by licensed marriage therapist Sam Tielemans, Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction is your go-to podcast for overcoming porn addiction, restoring emotional and sexual intimacy, and healing after betrayal trauma in your marriage. Each episode offers practical tools, relationship advice, and real stories of men and couples navigating the path of porn recovery and restoring your marriage. Whether you’re just starting

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30:03

The Key Components to Her Healing From Betrayal...

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/07/23

The road to overcome porn addiction and rebuilding your marriage can feel long and painful. The sting of betrayal and the web of the addiction can cause people to lose hope and sight of a better future. I’m joined in this episode by TC Jolley, who is a strong woman who healed from betrayal trauma as a result of her husband’s addiction. Their marriage is strong and connected, and they are individually in a solid place, and she shares some of the key factors that allowed her to thrive and heal

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29:18

My Intentions Are Good But My Follow Through Sucks

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/07/16

When people want to make changes in their lives, create new habits, routines or put systems in place, but it can be hard to be consistent! In this episode I share some strategies that can help you to be successful as you create habits and get them to stick, without needing willpower or superhuman discipline. For therapy with Sam: Send an email here to get more information – sam@healingcouples.org Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners? Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org

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28:20

If Her Wall Stays Up Despite His Best Efforts

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/07/08

When a woman experiences betrayal in a relationship due to porn addiction, it’s normal for her wall to go up to protect herself. Without there being safety or security in the relationship, she protects herself from continued hurt and being impacted by the addiction and dishonesty. Sometimes women aren’t quite sure how to let the wall down and what indicators she should look for, and despite his best efforts, it feels like the relationship hits a plateau and doesn’t know what to do. In this episode,

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31:47

How to Resolve Her Fears That Prevent Affection and Sex

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/07/01

So often a woman feels reluctance to be affectionate or have sex after there’s been betrayal due to pornography addiction or infidelity. She protects herself from getting hurt even more, so her guard is up. In order to help her work through her fears, men first need to understand what they are and then know how to help support her so she can start to feel safe enough to open back up. Discover the conversations you can have together that will help you come together and know how to reintegrate

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30:32

A Powerful Tool to Process Through Addiction or...

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/06/24

Triggers can hit us seemingly from out of nowhere, but using this tool can help you to identify and process through them successfully. Whether it has to do with a pornography addiction trigger, trauma trigger, or anything else that creates stress, overwhelm or anger. For therapy with Sam: Send an email here to get more information – sam@healingcouples.org Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners? Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top

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23:34

How to Talk About Sexual or Addiction Triggers...

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/06/10

Oftentimes, a big part of the check-in conversation revolves around whether he was triggered to watch porn or not.. The problem is that if he was triggered that day, her hearing about it can cause a negative reaction and feel like it undermines the progress that he/they are making. But transparency is important and opening up when he is struggling is necessary, so in this episode I share with you exactly how to talk about triggers in a way that helps her to feel safe and build trust, instead of

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22:34

A Highly-Effective Way to Get Through Overwhelming...

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/06/03

Healing from porn addiction and betrayal trauma can have overwhelming moments that can feel dark and lonely. But there is hope if you have one particular resource or tool to help you through those moments. In this episode I share with you the #1 tool to navigate moments that knock you down, so you can find the strength and hope to collect yourself and keep moving forward. For therapy with Sam: Send an email here to get more information – sam@healingcouples.org Want access to a free course I created

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22:24

His Sex Drive: When It‘s Healthy vs Addiction Driven

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/05/27

How do you know if his desire for sex is rooted in pornography addiction or if it’s coming from a healthy place? Knowing this makes all the difference when it comes to reintegrating sex back into the relationship when the time is right. In this episode I share with you the #1 distinguishing factor and how you can use this tool to continue to make progress in overcoming the addiction or building the relationship. For therapy with Sam: Send an email here to get more information –

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30:31

Is Minimal Effort Being Put In or Are Expectations...

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/05/20

Sometimes couples reach a stalemate when she thinks he's not doing enough to work on his pornography addiction and if he feels like no matter what he does it'll never be enough. There are a few different reasons why we see things like this, and in this episode I'll share with you what each person can do about it to keep making progress without these discussions resulting in a fight. For therapy with Sam: Send an email here to get more information – sam@healingcouples.org Want access to a free

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22:48

What to Do When Lying Erodes A Relationship: Tools...

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/05/13

Whenever there is a struggle with porn addiction, there's often dishonesty. And that is one of the most damaging elements to a marriage, but if you are going to eliminate it completely, you must understand the reason why it's continuing to happen. Lying is a symptom of something deeper, and once you discover it and get the tools to resolve it, the dishonesty goes away. In this episode I share with you some tools for both him and her in order to remove any blocks that make being honest difficult. For

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29:23

The 5 Pillars to Overcome Pornography Addiction: How...

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/05/06

The road to healing can feel completely overwhelming, so I wanted to break down the process to overcome pornography addiction into just 5 steps. If you focus on these core components, then you'll achieve lasting freedom from porn addiction, and your relationship can heal and flourish. For therapy from Sam, send an email here for more information: sam@healingcouples.org Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners? Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn

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18:56

How to Have the Type of Conversation That Builds...

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/04/23

Most people want to feel connected to their partner after porn addiction, but the mechanics of how to do that can be tricky.. In this episode, I share with you what it actually looks like to build connection, safety and trust, and I'll share how to work through any difficulties that come up along the way. Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners? Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma,

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28:59

Even The Worst Kind of Emotional Pain Can Be Resolved...

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/04/16

Sometimes we go through some very difficult and painful experiences.. And that pain can seem to follow us around and get triggered unexpectedly when we are reminded of the past. The same is true for experiences that are continuing to happen - they can hurt and cause us a lot of pain. With this strategy that I'm sharing in this episode, you'll discover how to tap into a very commonly-missed tool to fully heal from the pain and move forward feeling completely different, no matter how overwhelming the

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17:25

The Simple Approach to Heal From Pornography...

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/04/09

So often people feel burned out on the path of trying to overcome pornography addiction and restoring the marriage... The reason why they continue to struggle is that they don't have a clear road map and aren't sure what specifically to be focusing on, or they struggle because they are trying and changes aren't visible. In this episode, I share with you a simple approach you can instantly implement that can remove the "work" so that the process is as smooth as can be. Want access to a free course I

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30:20

How a Man Can Deeply Love His Wife, Yet Struggle With...

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/03/31

So many people have a hard time wrapping understanding how he can say he loves her, yet still struggle with a porn addiction. The wife often feels like if he really did love her then he wouldn't be looking at images of others... But the reality is that there is a way for him to love her and still struggle, and in this episode I share exactly how it's possible, and understanding it can actually open the door to him finding permanent freedom from the pornography addiction once and for all. Want

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20:07

There‘s a MUCH Better Option Than Divorce

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/03/25

So many couples feel like they come to a fork in the road once a husband's porn addiction comes out – divorce and end the pain or stay together and be miserable... There is a third option though and so many couples take it and find that their relationship completely changes. So whether you're at the breaking point, or if you're feeling stagnant and not sure what the next step is, I'll share an additional option for you because the more choices we have, the more empowered we are. Want access to a

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27:36

A Powerful Tool to Completely Eliminate Depression or...

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/03/19

Depression and anxiety can suck the joy out of life and relationships... but what if there was a long-term fix without needing medication? In this episode I talk about the actually causes of depression (not a chemical imbalance) and I share a powerful tool that can help you or your spouse eliminate it from their lives for good. Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners? Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from

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21:41

How to Cure Defensiveness in Your Marriage

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/03/12

Defensiveness can be frustrating when you're trying to resolve a challenge in the marriage. The key is to understand exactly why the defensiveness is happening in the first place (and it's not because that person doesn't care..). I share what's at the core of defensiveness and a powerful strategy to break through it so you can communicate effectively. Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners? Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top

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30:03

How to Shortcut 4+ Years Off Your Healing Journey

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/03/07

Therapist in the traditional recovery space will tell you that it takes 3-5 years to heal from a pornography addiction.. And it can take at least as long (maybe longer) for marriages to heal. I’m on a mission to let people know that there is a more effective way to overcome porn addiction and restore your marriage that doesn’t require nearly as much time. And in this episode I share one of the most powerful pieces to the puzzle that those traditional experts completely miss than can save you

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37:47

Sex: Processing Triggers, Rejection, Creating Safety...

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction ·

2021/02/25

Sexual intimacy is one of the most damaged aspects of a marriage after there's been betrayal from porn addiction. Yet most couples, don't know how to restore intimacy in a healthy way, navigate the triggers, rejection, and increase trust and desire. Listen in on an actual coaching session where I help a couple process through triggers and rejection to ultimately feel closer than they ever have together in this area. Take the tools you hear me share with them and apply them to your own situation to

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