The Covert Narcissism Podcast

14:22

Covert Narcissists Seem So Genuine - Special...

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/04/14

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast Even people who are aware of narcissism and victims themselves can still end up in a relationship with a covert narcissist. They seem so real, genuine, open, and vulnerable. Why do they seem so genuine? A covert narcissist is more in love with the idea of being a compassionate person than actually being a compassionate person. They fool us because their desire to be that

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20:57

Silent Treatment and Covert Narcissism

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/04/09

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast What exactly is the silent treatment? For many of us, we experienced this in middle school. Our best friend gets mad at us and stops talking to us. It’s a temper tantrum because we hurt their feelings or didn’t do what they wanted. “I’ll show you. I won’t talk to you anymore.” It’s a form of teaching someone a lesson. You no longer deserve my time, attention, and communication

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22:11

Guest episode with High Conflict Divorce Coach,...

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/04/06

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast Divorcing a covert narcissist is an unpredictable and terrifying endeavor. It is often full of manipulation tactics, controlling actions, deceitful communication, and much more. The journey is exhausting, overwhelming, and isolating. But you are NOT alone, and you ARE stronger than you know. Going through this process more publicly now with lawyers, mediators, judges, and

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23:28

What DOES Healthy Look Like?

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/04/02

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast and receive your free copy of chapter one of my upcoming book, potentially titled: Grasping Covert Narcissism, Catching A Ghost, click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast Will I ever know it if I have a healthy relationship? I’m finally out of a toxic relationship, again, after a repeated cycle. I think my picker is broken. I’ll never date again. It isn’t worth the risk. Is there a difference between love bombing and the

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24:22

Words from My Son, Part Two

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/03/30

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast and receive your free copy of chapter one of my upcoming book, potentially titled: Grasping Covert Narcissism, Catching A Ghost, click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast I am absolutely privileged to have my oldest son join me one more time for a guest episode. In today's episode, we address two specific topics: Is there a right timing for divorce based on the ages of the kids? What did your mom do right and what did

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20:50

Hyper Vigilance - Your Mind in Over Drive

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/03/26

My mind has never worked so hard, ever in my entire life. I hit a level of mental overdrive that I did not know existed. Overthinking, over analyzing, over fixing, overcompensating, over monitoring. Over, and over, and over. This did not happen overnight. It wasn’t day one in the relationship. It was gradual. How did it happen? Early in my marriage, I told him he had toothpaste on his mouth. He blew up and it shocked me to my core. And it never got resolved. So, lesson learned. I’ll never say that

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13:13

Why Is It So Hard To Explain Covert Narcissistic...

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/03/23

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast and receive your free copy of chapter one of my upcoming book, potentially titled: Grasping Covert Narcissism, Catching A Ghost, click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast Why can't I explain it to my friends? Why don't they get it? Why does it all sound so petty and trivial? When I’m trying to explain it to someone, I even think I sound petty. But it’s not! There is nothing petty about the nightmare that you are living

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20:40

The Victim of Covert Narcissism and the Wizard of Oz,...

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/03/19

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast and receive your free copy of chapter one of my upcoming book, potentially titled: Grasping Covert Narcissism, Catching A Ghost, click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast Dorothy's journey on the yellow brick road is a journey of a lifetime with a covert narcissist. She firmly believes that this path is the right path to get her home, or back to herself once again. She is convinced that the Wizard of Oz is her

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28:19

Hearing Our Kids: Words From My Son

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/03/16

It is my great privilege to introduce to you my oldest son. After living this nightmare in our home for 18 years, he now shares his perspective for the very first time. Here he answers some questions that were put forth from my listeners: When did the light bulb go on for you that something wasn’t right here? Did you carry the weight of this situation? Did you blame yourself? In looking back, is there something you wish you had done or known differently or sooner, for your mental health? What

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23:03

Covert narcissism and the Wizard of Oz, Part 1

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/03/12

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast and receive your free copy of chapter one of my upcoming book, potentially titled: Grasping Covert Narcissism, Catching A Ghost, click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast To sign up for the our new Men's Group Session, click the link below. https://www.covertnarcissism.com/group-session We’re off to see the wizard, the wonderful wizard of Oz. Because, because, because, because….because of the wonderful things he

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23:23

Living Through COVID with a Covert Narcissist -...

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/03/09

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast and receive your free copy of chapter one of my upcoming book, potentially titled: Grasping Covert Narcissism, Catching A Ghost, click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast COVID had an enormous impact on marriages. Trapping everyone in their homes and taking away other social avenues not only brought out more abuse, but also caused many victims to start identifying abusive behavior that was already happening. Things

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25:04

The Narcissistic Collapse

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/03/05

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast and receive your free copy of chapter one of my upcoming book, potentially titled: Grasping Covert Narcissism, Catching A Ghost, click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast I came home one night to a completely dark house to find my 37 year old husband sitting in a dark room crying, I thought, Oh my gosh, did someone die? What has happened? Clearly something was wrong. As I talked with him, I learned that he was sitting

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24:15

Guys Living with a Covert Narcissistic Wife

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/03/02

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast and receive your free copy of chapter one of my upcoming book, potentially titled: Grasping Covert Narcissism, Catching A Ghost, click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast Covert narcissism is not a gender issue. This is absolutely affecting both men and women. I talk from my perspective because that is what I lived, but I know there are many men out there who are living this nightmare with a covert narcissistic

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23:43

The Stages of Grief as they Relate to Covert Narcissism

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/02/26

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast and receive your free copy of chapter one of my upcoming book, potentially titled: Grasping Covert Narcissism, Catching A Ghost, click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast When you are coming to grips with the thought that you are in a long-term marriage with a covert narcissist, you will go through the stages of grief. In fact, just living with a covert narcissist, already has you in these stages, and you don’t even

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13:35

A Thousand Bee Stings - Special Throwback Episode

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/02/23

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast and receive your free copy of chapter one of my upcoming book, potentially titled: Grasping Covert Narcissism, Catching A Ghost, click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast A relationship with a covert narcissist is like getting a thousand bee stings. Any individual event can seem so small and insignificant, like a single bee sting. No big deal, right? WRONG!! Because it isn't just one bee sting, it is a thousand! One

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22:13

Their Anger Has NOTHING To Do With YOU

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/02/19

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast and receive your free copy of chapter one of my upcoming book, potentially titled: Grasping Covert Narcissism, Catching A Ghost, click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast Covert narcissists go 0-100 over things that just simply do not justify all the anger. Whether the anger shows aggressively or passively, it is still there. Whether it is yelling and cursing, or huffing and coldly staring, that anger is felt by you, the

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26:16

Living with Years of Nitpicking - Special Guest Episode

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/02/16

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast and receive your free copy of Chapter 1 of my upcoming book potentially titled: Grasping Covert Narcissism, Catching a Ghost, click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast The extreme passive aggressiveness of their constant nitpicking is debilitating. You can’t ever be right, about anything. They constantly correct you. You say that your dog is 3 years old, and they correct you saying that he is 3 and a half years old. You say

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19:21

The EXPERT on EVERYTHING

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/02/12

To donate to the Covert Narcissism Podcast and receive your free copy of chapter one of my upcoming book, potentially titled: Grasping Covert Narcissism, Catching A Ghost, click the link below. https://patron.podbean.com/covertnarcissismpodcast If you have ever lived with a covert narcissist, you know that they are the expert on everything. In their own eyes. They know everything. They say everything exactly right. They do everything exactly right. Everything they do is intentional, justified,

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20:57

Long-Term Marriage With a Covert Narcissist

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/02/05

On today’s show, I have a guest who has been in a long-term marriage with a covert narcissistic husband, over three decades long. She joined CNG group coaching to try to find some answers. As she listened to the stories of the other group members, she found herself thinking that the people she met there deserved better. "That person deserves better than that," while listening to one story. "Oh, this one deserves better too," upon hearing another story. But then her eyes opened, “Oh! Wait a minute! I

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23:06

Marriage Counseling with a Covert Narcissist

The Covert Narcissism Podcast ·

2023/01/29

Life with a covert narcissist - those words really hold so much meaning in them, anyone who has lived this knows what I am saying with those simple words. As I have explained many times in these episodes, is not the normal path of give and take, mutual reconciliation, mutual respect and courtesy. It is a very one-sided relationship. One with you doing all the work, doing the work for two individuals, carrying all the weight of the relationship. All the while being blamed for anything and everything

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