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Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS

Betrayal Recovery Radio

Betrayal is traumatic, and those who have been betrayed by partners living secret lives of sexual addiction deserve to be empowered and supported with knowledge and resources to allow them to move from shock through grief and into growth. On Betrayal Recovery Radio, our host, Dr. Jake Porter, lays out important topics for both sex addicts and their betrayed partners through conversations leading to hope and healing. Betrayal Recovery Radio is the official podcast of The Association of Partners of

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00:42:41

Help. Her. Heal. with Carol "the Coach" Juergensen...

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2023/03/16

Carol the Coach returns to Betrayal Recovery Radio to share more about how to heal from betrayal. In this conversation with Dr. Jake, she focuses on the stages of healing from betrayal trauma and also goes deep into the topic of posttraumatic growth. Carol also gives a sneak peak into her upcoming keynote at the Restoring Hearts Conference. Links in this

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00:57:49

Connection: Brain-Based Healing, Empathy, and...

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2023/03/09

We are inherently social beings. Our brains are wired to connect, and when we feel disconnected, we struggle. If we feel isolated, our chances of having some type of psychiatric diagnosis increases. In the brain, the mirror neuron network helps us to understand subtleties in social, emotional and linguistic interchanges. The extended mirror neuron network helps us to interpret these subtleties. If our mirror neuron system is dysregulated, we struggle with being able to connect in an authentic and

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00:50:14

The Unexpected Gift of Betrayal: Friendship, with...

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2023/03/02

The aftermath of betrayal can put all of our relationships into question. Secrecy, confusion, fear of judgement, and shame can lead to the loss of long time relationships as a woman sorts through her pain and tries to make sense of her reality. Join us as we talk with Lyschel Burket, Lead Hope Caster for Hope Redefined and podcast co-host for Hope For Wives. She will talk about the unexpected gift that comes when we are able to find community that can walk in the mud with us in this particular

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00:44:19

Emotional Abuse and Sex Addiction Recovery, with...

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2023/02/23

In marriages and intimate relationships affected by sexual addiction, it is not uncommon for emotional abuse be present. Sometimes the abusive behaviors can increase with more intensity when the one struggling with the addiction becomes "sober" but is not fully committed to recovery. These behaviors are often maladaptive coping mechanisms fueled by shame and stemming from unhealed trauma. Many do not realize they are engaging in these unhealthy coping skills. Also, their intent is not to hurt, but

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00:57:17

"That's Gaslighting!" (Or Is It?) with Sarah Morales...

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2023/02/16

While GASLIGHTING is now a pop-culture buzz word, AND Merriam-Webster's word of the year, a lot of what is out there is either misinformation, or incomplete information. The result? A LOT of people are incorrectly slapping the label of gaslighting on to situations that are actually NOT a gaslighting experience. The overuse of the word has left most of us with MORE questions than answers. Let's take a few situations and look at whether or not gaslighting is occurring, and if not — why not! Dr. Jake

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00:57:11

How to Understand Your Partner's Sexual Fantasies -...

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2023/01/26

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains content that could be upsetting or painful to individuals at particular points in their journey to healing from trauma. Please honor your intuition about whether this is the right time for you to engage this episode. Discovering the specifics of your partner's sexual fantasies or behaviors can be devastating and disturbing. However, fantasies don't have to be scary. Sexual fantasies lose much of their power when you can understand the story behind them. We'll

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00:51:03

Unlocking Family of Origin Issues - Part 2, with Dr....

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/12/08

(Part 2 of 2) "Family of Origin" is the term used in counseling work to refer to the relational systems into which we were born and raised. Our families of origin leave lasting impacts on us all. They are the source of so many of our most basic ways of thinking, feeling, and behaving. A crucial step in healing for all people is to gain an awareness of our familiesof origin. This awarenesstakes us outside our biased perspective as participants and gives us the view of an outside, unbiased

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00:38:58

Unlocking Family of Origin Issues - Part 1, with Dr....

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/12/01

(Part 1 of 2) "Family of Origin" is the term used in counseling work to refer to the relational systems into which we were born and raised. Our families of origin leave lasting impacts on us all. They are the source of so many of our most basic ways of thinking, feeling, and behaving. A crucial step in healing for all people is to gain an awareness of our familiesof origin. This awarenesstakes us outside our biased perspective as participants and gives us the view of an outside, unbiased

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00:55:04

Sexual Intimacy in the Betrayal Healing Process, with...

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/11/10

Everything about your sexual health is impacted when you are betrayed by someone you love and trust. Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, an ASSECT Certified Sex Therapist, and an APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist. She helps betrayed partners move from unhealthy to healthy sexuality in the healing process after betrayal. Dr. Hollenbeck understands the traumatic impact on you as an individual and as a sexual partner and she offers hope for partners that getting to

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00:53:09

Being Sober Is Not Enough, with Dr. Jake Porter and...

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/10/20

Sex addiction is often an intimacy disorder. For many, its roots take hold during the early stages of childhood development when we should be given the instruction and nurturing needed to emotionally bond with others. When this does not happen, we struggle to feel love, or for that matter, feel any emotions. We are emotionally undeveloped. This leaves us lacking the skills and resources needed to emotionally connect on a deeper level. So even if one becomes sexually-sober, if one does not learn to

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00:30:44

Is Betrayal Trauma Real? Part 2 - with Dr. Jake Porter

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/10/06

Betrayal Trauma is a reality. It’s not weakness of character, lack of forgiveness, or a sign of resentment. The discovery of secret betrayal has a literal, physical affect on the brain and its ability to process and act upon the data we take in as we move through life. In this episode, you’ll hear the second half of Dr. Jake Porter’s keynote presentation on Betrayal Trauma at the XPOSED conference from earlier this year in Portland, Oregon. In it, he discusses what Betrayal Trauma is, how it affects

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00:26:07

Is Betrayal Trauma Real? Part 1 - with Dr. Jake Porter

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/09/29

Betrayal Trauma is a reality. It’s not weakness of character, lack of forgiveness, or a sign of resentment. The discovery of secret betrayal has a literal, physical affect on the brain and its ability to process and act upon the data we take in as we move through life. In this episode, you’ll hear the first half of Dr. Jake Porter’s keynote presentation on Betrayal Trauma at the XPOSED conference from earlier this year in Portland, Oregon. In it, he discusses what Betrayal Trauma is, how it affects

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00:55:49

When Addicts Don't Want the Help They Need, with...

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/09/08

Betrayed partners are usually so traumatized by the discovery of their partners' addiction or betrayal that they are trying to just put together the reality of what life is and has truly been. The first phase of healing from betrayal trauma is safety and stabilization. One of the first things that needs to happen is to find out what the betrayed partner needs to feel safe, and that usually means involving the betrayer. But what happens if the ones who did the betraying discard their partners' safety

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00:40:32

Divorce Prevention 101, with Kim Hansen Petroni, CPC...

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/09/01

Divorce might seem like the obvious answer when betrayal occurs, but there are ways to save a marriage or relationship if the betrayer and partner are willing to step into healing. In this conversation between Dr. Jake and APSATS Certified Partner Coach Kim Hansen Petroni, they discuss the topic of divorce after the betrayal from several angles. Links from the show: http://apsats.org http://drjakeporter.com http://go.boundariessummit.com http://www.coachinghope4u.com

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00:49:21

What About the Kids? Disclosing Sex Addiction to...

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/08/25

One of the trickiest scenarios recovering addicts and betrayed partners must navigate involves disclosure to children. How much do you tell? When do you share? Who should do it? While there's no one-size-fits-all approach to answer these questions, some principles are generally helpful to those who are facing this reality. In this episode, APSATS-trained Carley Pool, LPC Associate discusses these matters with Dr. Jake. Links from

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00:49:42

Core Values for Couples (Part 2), with Dr. Jake Porter

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/08/18

(This is the second part of a two-part series on core values. If you've not yet heard part one, go listen to that first!) Everyone has values. Some people choose their values on purpose. Others fall into valuing things that lead them away from the life they want most. Core values act as guides, pointing us in the direction of our dreams, hope, and expectations. This is true for individuals, but it can be true for couples, as well. Discover the power of shared values in relationships through this

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00:43:58

Core Values for Couples, Part One, with Dr. Jake Porter

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/08/11

Everyone has values. Some people choose their values on purpose. Others fall into valuing things that lead them away from the life they want most. Core values act as guides, pointing us in the direction of our dreams, hope, and expectations. This is true for individuals, but it can be true for couples, as well. Discover the power of shared values in relationships through this episode with Dr. Jake Porter! http://apsats.org http://drjakeporter.com

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00:46:02

Empathy Heals Relationships

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/08/04

In this conversation on the needs of couples after the discovery of sexual addiction, Dr. Jake is joined by Carol the Coach discuss her ERCEM model, the Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model. Jake and Carol talk about the three phases of healing for betrayal trauma, and how the betraying partner can help to heal the relationship, despite being the cause of pain. They discuss what true empathy is, and how it can transform the dynamic of the relationship and open the way to true

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00:41:30

Adding Attunement to Empathy, with Julie St.Onge, CPC

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/07/21

In Julie's interview, she will discuss why attunement is important, how it can be developed, the three C's of Non-Verbal Communication: context, cluster, congruency. Albert Mehrabian's 55%, 38%, 7% Rule states that only 7% of what we communicate is with words, and yet we focus so many tools on this aspect. The rest of what we say is through signals, micro-expressions, facial reflexes, breathing patterns, and noises. Developing attunement to your partner's distress signals prior to the need for tools

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00:50:21

Surviving Sexual Betrayal, with Dr. Barbara Steffens...

Betrayal Recovery Radio: The Official Podcast of APSATS ·

2022/07/07

Betrayal can be devastating to your partner and your relationship, but many couples still love one another and are committed to mending their relationships. In order to do this, it is important for the unfaithful party to understand the traumatic nature of betrayal, and understand how to respond sensitively to their partner's pain. It is also critical they adopt a stance of honesty, transparency and commitment in their relationships. This often includes participating in a facilitated disclosure and

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