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Magnum Lovecast

Dan Savage, America"s only advice columnist, answers your sex questions on the Internets. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, call 206-302-2064 or send us your recorded question: Q@Savage.Love

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All Episodes

53:12

Magnum Extra: Tim Miller

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/02/06

He's baaaack...Well, here we are. Trump is President again. The only way to get through this is to laugh a little. Dan brings on former foe Tim Miller, host of The Bulwark’s podcast and the author of the best-selling book "Why We Did It: A Travelogue from the Republican Road to Hell." They talk about what went wrong with the election, how much worse these next 4 years are going to be, and then pretty quickly dive into sex questions. Why is incest porn so hot right now? And when it comes to Tantric

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80:05

Magnum Lovecast 953

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/02/04

A straight man was accidentally paired with a trans man on a hookup app. When the trans man found out his match was a straight dude, he tapped out. But that got the caller thinking...should he hunt for pre-op trans men in the hopes of connecting with people still had their female parts? Any problems here? On the Micro and Magnum it's a sneak peek of this week's Sex & Politics with political analyst Tim Miller. He and Dan took a call from a straight man who has recently discovered the kind of

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82:06

Magnum Lovecast 952

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/01/28

A straight man worries that his one-on-one OnlyFans interactions are a form of infidelity. A divorced man is out dating and learning about tantra. A couple of women he's seen were both mothers, and although he found them attractive and his dick got hard, he couldn't come with either of them. They both blamed themselves for having changed postpartum bodies. Who is the culprit- the ladies or his dick? On the Magnum, Dan chats with cultural historian Kelly Coyne about off-kilter domestic

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84:26

Magnum Lovecast 951

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/01/21

A gay man is mourning the loss of his hair. He shaved it all off, but doesn't like the new look. Are there any other options? How can he learn to love the new bald version of himself? "Big poly mess in aisle 4!" She started seeing a married man who was new to poly. He has a kid, and mere months in, the caller formed a bond with the child. Then he went and fell in love with yet another woman. His wife is divorcing him, but the caller remains friendly with his wife. Can she continue to see the

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89:58

Magnum Lovecast 950

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/01/14

A very happy Feast of The Ass to you all!We asked you to send us your carols and boy, did you ever deliver. Hear a smattering of our picks, and we unearthed an olde choral piece that you and your family will surely treasure. A man has been dating a woman for two months. It's going well, but her body type is too thin to turn him on. He tries to feed her extra food, but should he flat out ask her to gain a little weight? On the Magnum, everyone is talking about Babygirl- the new erotic thriller

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83:43

Magnum Lovecast 949

Magnum Lovecast ·

2025/01/07

Everyone is feverishly preparing for The Feast of The Ass on January 14! Consequently, many of you have questions, such as "What is the proper Feast of the Ass greeting?" And "Shouldn't the official Feast of the Ass dessert be the Tunnel of Fudge?" As always, Dan has the answers. A woman's brother just got engaged...again. This is the third time, and he has been dating his current girlfriend for a scant 6 months. What's more, the fiancé has been pestering the caller to be best friends, texting her

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83:00

Magnum Lovecast 948

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/12/31

Here's a little friendship drama to start the New Year: A woman and her pal "Jill" are going on a skiing trip in Japan with a group of people. Two of the men approached Jill to tell her they each had crushes on the caller, and asked her to broker a connection. Jill wants nothing to do with this, and the caller is bewildered. Why is Jill so angry? And how should she proceed? A man has a 22 year-old nephew who he suspects is gay. The lad is immersed in conservative Christian culture, and if he is

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78:56

Magnum Lovecast 947

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/12/24

Dan Savage is bringing back a forgotten Catholic holiday. On January 14, let us all celebrate the Feast of the Ass. A woman's beloved twin sister isn't dating, isn't getting on the apps, isn't looking for a relationship. Should the caller keep trying to set her up with great guys from work? Or leave her be? A woman used to be a sex worker when she was younger. She has since built a new career, and loves her life. She got into BDSM, and when she told her new dom about her past, he lost his mind. He

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48:31

Magnum Extra: Phoebe Maltz Bovy

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/12/19

On this episode of Sex & Politics, Phoebe Maltz Bovy- a Canadian feminist writer, is on to talk about female heterosexuality and its attendant perils. They talk about the dreadful Gisele Pelicot case in France, and how it calls all male morality into question, why women can be attracted to testosterone-soaked dick-monsters, the rise in queer self-labeling, and a ton more.

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81:35

Magnum Lovecast 946

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/12/17

A gay man was dating a closeted cop for 4 years. Then he found out that the cop WASN'T closeted, and WASN'T single (he has a live-in boyfriend,) but IS a big fat liar. Now the caller wants closure. A straight man just got dumped by his girlfriend after 1 1/2 years. His crime? He followed some thirst trap accounts on Instagram. She felt "betrayed and repulsed." Now sad and bewildered, he'll get a rousing pep talk from Dan Savage. On the Magnum, a poly woman has been told by her girlfriend that she

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85:44

Magnum Lovecast 945

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/12/10

A trans guy just can't break into gay male spaces. He feels ridiculed and rejected, and ends up sitting in a corner alone while the sweaty dance party goes on around him. He used to be confident before his transition. How can he get a little of that male swagger and bed a hot twink? A female used to date "bad boys"- the kind of guy who turned her on sexually but made terrible partners. Now she's with a sweet man who treats her well, but the heat isn't there. Can she train him to turn her on?Can she

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78:21

Magnum Lovecast 944

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/12/03

"That's so gay!" So said a 10 year-old boy and got himself punished by the teacher who overheard him. The boy's father is calling for advice on how to explain why saying "That's so gay" as a pejorative is hurtful. A man with a big ole wiener sees his long distance girlfriend once per month. When they see each other they go at it, with a frequency and intensity that will make many of you blush. The problem? It's causing her a lot of pain. Is there a way to make love, not lacerations? Speaking of

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82:18

Magnum Lovecast 943

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/11/26

A straight man confesses to lurking on Discord and masturbating to the pretty female voices he hears there. Nobody knows he is doing this (except all of us now.) Must he stop? With a new hostile regime about to take power, it's more important than ever for queer and trans folks to get their papers in order. Our very favorite lawyer, Diana Adams from the Chosen Family Law Center, is on to talk about these issues, and to advise a married gay couple on how to find a surrogate mother in unconventional

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60:14

Magnum Extra: Peter Rothpletz

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/11/21

It's seems everyone is having their post-election, post-mortem. Here's ours. Dan brings on New Republic writer Peter Rothpletz (a.k.a. Peter Twinklage on social media,) to talk about men, and the manly way to bring them back into the fold- by being total dicks. Will this strategy bear out? We don't know, but it sounds kind of fun? They talk about the parallels to the heartbreak of George W. Bush's reelection, why the Rs want to "own the libs" so passionately, and how it's time for the Democrats to

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77:10

Magnum Lovecast 942

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/11/19

We open with a somewhat disturbing call from a woman whose white boyfriend visits "wack shacks" when he travels. He hires Asian sex workers to submit to race play and degradation. She approves of him indulging his various kinks outside of their relationship, but this? It's the classic conundrum: the caller has a big wiener and his boyfriend has a small one. A dildo is not quite a penis. What can they do? Our guest is the fiery, foul-mouthed, anti-cheating avenger Tracy Schorn a.k.a Chump Lady. The

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81:28

Magnum Lovecast 941

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/11/12

First off, we hear from a neglected third in a poorly executed threeway hook-up. He failed to advocate for himself, and the other two guys weren't asking if he was ok, sitting on the couch, looking at his phone. How could this have gone better? And how can he get over the waves of insecurity he feels when he connects with these same guys again? Dan chats with a trans guy (and new father) who feels dissatisfied with the vanilla sex he and his husband are having. Our guest this week is the soothing,

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82:04

Magnum Lovecast 940

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/11/05

We're giving you a break from whatever stressful stuff is going on this week to bring you some of the more...interesting calls we've collected. A man's girlfriend wants to try saline injections on her breasts for a "24 hour boob job." The question is, can he safely do the injecting? A woman's cat is grieving the loss of her longtime companion, a small dog. Now the kinky feline is demanding unspeakable rough treatment and her "owner" is neither G, G, nor G and does NOT consent. Happy Soft Cock

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48:56

Magnum Extra: Tim Keck

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/10/31

For this very special episode of Sex & Politics, Dan brings on one of his oldest pals, Tim Keck, to hold him gently during this stressful election season. Keck started The Onion in Madison, Wisconsin in 1988, then moved to Seattle to start The Stranger, where Dan got his start with Savage Love. Now, Keck is the host of Mush Love, a show focussed on all kinds of mushrooms and the people who become obsessed with them. Dan and Tim talk about it all: politics, The Onion, Terrance McKenna, tripping in

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82:42

Magnum Lovecast 939

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/10/29

A poly guy lives in a rural area with his fiancé. He is building his own house, and hires laborers to come live with him while they build. One of the laborers started hooking up with the caller’s girlfriend without consulting the caller or gaining his consent. Now what? This guy is living in his own damn house, having sex with his own damn lady??? True or False: Gay men who were bullied as kids often hook up with their former bullies. On the Magnum, the worlds collide when Dan Savage, notorious sex

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81:53

Magnum Lovecast 938

Magnum Lovecast ·

2024/10/22

A woman has been dating a man from Ghana for 4 months. She just learned that he has a wife and kid back home, that he married out of familial/cultural obligation. Should the caller hold out to see if he chooses her over his overseas family? A married woman has a one year-old kid. She and her husband are monogamous, but she's getting into performing burlesque at local bars and it's making her want to try...other things. How far will she go? How much will her husband allow? Our guest is Irish

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