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The Openlove101 Show

John & Jackie Melfi

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we"re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the

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All Episodes

17:41

5 Brutal Myths About Open Relationships DEBUNKED 🔍

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/04/01

Debunking 5 brutal myths about open relationships! 🔍 Curious about the lifestyle? Let's explore together! Ever thought STDs were inevitable? Or that open relationships always fail? Think again! We're busting common misconceptions and revealing the truth about swinging, intimacy, and trust in non-monogamous partnerships. Discover the secrets of successful open relationships and how they can actually strengthen your bond! Tune in to learn why cheating isn't part of the equation and how religious

09:10

Dealing With Fear And Jealousy In Open Relationships

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/03/25

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about dealing with fear and jealousy in an Open Relationship. Do you throw in the towel and call it quits? Or figure out a game plan on what you can do in the future if it happens again and how to move forward from here. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

23:36

The Truth About Non-Monogamy: My 40-Year Journey

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/03/18

Curious about non-monogamy? Join us for a fascinating journey through 40 years of open relationships! Ever wondered how someone's upbringing shapes their view on sex and love? John shares his eye-opening experiences from Catholic school rebel to swinger club owner. You'll be surprised by his candid stories of threesomes, roller rink hookups, and personal growth! Want to explore open relationships with your partner? This video is packed with insights on honesty, boundaries, and self-discovery. Learn

11:23

Swinger Relationships and Coming Out To Your Kids

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/03/11

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about "Coming Out" to your kids. They discuss the intense feelings, navigating having an intimate conversation with you children, and knowing when it is the right time to tell them. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

22:24

Our First Lifestyle Experience: Raw and Unfiltered 🔥

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/03/04

Our First Lifestyle Experience: Raw and Unfiltered 🔥 Ever wondered what it's like to dive into the open lifestyle? Join us for some juicy stories! Curious about threesomes, swinging, or open relationships? We're spilling all the details! From our very first encounters to cringe-worthy moments, we're holding nothing back. You'll hear about unexpected house calls, DVP adventures, and how we navigate separate play dates. Want to know why lifestyle experiences can actually improve your relationship

07:46

Overcoming Fear in Open Relationships A Different POV

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/02/25

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about Overcoming Fear in Open Relationships (A Different POV)! They discuss the early stages of the relationship, how you are taught to feel, when to go ahead, and when to pump the breaks! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

13:17

The TRUTH About Swingers Clubs Most People Don't Know

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/02/18

The TRUTH about swingers clubs? It's not what you think! Ever wondered what really goes on behind those doors? Surprise - it's not just for swingers! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Let's explore it together :) Discover how these clubs offer a safe, respectful space for everyone - even if you're not looking to swap! Tune in to learn why couples love the sexy atmosphere, open conversations, and judgment-free zone. Did you know many go just for the vibe? It's true! Want to spice

10:09

Swingers Lifestyle - Self Empathy and Giving Yourself...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/02/11

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about the self care through self empathy and giving yourself a break. They discuss the intense feelings, both positive and negative, that come with being in the lifestyle and how to manage both sides of the coin! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

19:18

The Ugly Truth About Open Relationships: Not Cheating

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/02/04

The ugly truth about open relationships? It's NOT cheating! Join John and Jackie as they tackle the biggest misconception about ethical non-monogamy head-on. Ever wonder why people automatically assume open relationships are about cheating? We're breaking down the real difference between consensual non-monogamy and infidelity. Discover how trust, honest communication, and mutual respect are actually the foundation of successful open relationships. Ready to challenge your assumptions about love and

08:25

Swinging Relationship Issues Defusing Arguments

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/01/28

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss how to defuse arguments within the lifestyle. They discuss how most arguments are rooted in fear of the unknown and how to find a way to work through that fear in order to communicate with your partner. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

19:54

Celebrating 10 Years of OpenLove101: Reflections,...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/01/21

John and Jackie commemorate a decade of OpenLove101, reflecting on their journey in the world of consensual non-monogamy advocacy. They share memorable moments, challenges, and triumphs while emphasizing the growth of their community and its impact on relationships worldwide. From their early days blogging to becoming prominent voices in their field, this episode celebrates their passion for education, connection, and empowerment.

07:05

Swinging Lifestyle Highs and Lows

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/01/14

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about the Swinging Lifestyle Highs and Lows! They discuss the intense feelings, both positive and negative, that come with being in the lifestyle and how to manage both sides of the coin! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

22:20

Hotel Takeover Tips: Everything You Need to Know

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/01/07

In this episode, John and Jackie dive deep into the fascinating world of hotel takeovers and conventions in the lifestyle community. They share essential tips for preparation, settingboundaries, meeting new people, and maximizing your experience at these unique events. Whether you're a seasoned attendee or considering your first event, this episode is packed with insights to make your next hotel takeover unforgettable!

07:20

Visiting Swinger Clubs and Dealing With Peer Pressure

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/12/31

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss dealing with the pressure of visiting a Swingers Club. They most common answer for why people do not go to a swingers club is because they feel an overwhelming pressure to either find a play partner or fit in with the crowd. Today, John and Jackie discuss these fears and more! Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

09:43

Visiting Swingers Club and Embracing Your Bi-Sexuality

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/12/17

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss feel confident in embracing your bi-sexuality while attending a swingers club! They discuss the change over time with people embracing their sexuality at swinger clubs. Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

10:00

This is Why Non Monogamous Relationships Fails

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/12/10

In this episode, we tackle a difficult but important topic: "What happens when couples in the swinger lifestyle go through a breakup or divorce?" We dive into the unique challenges faced by those who continue to attend the same parties, events, and clubs after their relationship ends. We also discuss the double standards people face in open relationships compared to monogamous ones and how to navigate friendships and shared spaces post-breakup. Tune into learn how to handle these situations with

09:33

What is Swinging? The Definition Of Swinging

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/12/03

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss the definition of Swinging and what is really means! Is Swinging what mainstream media paints it to be or is there something more to it? Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

23:14

What Is Your Relationship Model: 14 Different...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/11/26

Join John and Jackie in this engaging episode as they dive into the diverse world of open relationships. Today they're exploring 14 different varieties of open and swinger relationships. They discuss the nuances and dynamics of each relationship model, shedding light on terms like ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and kitchen table polyamory. Whether you're curious about these concepts or looking to understand how different relationship structures work, this episode is packed with information that

09:41

Swinging Lifestyle: Fear of Being Honest

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/11/19

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss the most common fear they hear from other's in the lifestyle. The Fear of Being Honest Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

07:32

Building Up to the Moment: Navigating Playtime with Ease

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/11/12

In today’s episode, we're diving into a question from one of our Openlove101+ members: "How do you smoothly transition to playtime with another couple at a club?" This is a scenario many couples face, and we’re here to offer some practical advice and share our personal experiences. Whether it's your first time or you're a seasoned pro, we’ll discuss the nuances of creating organic opportunities for connection, managing expectations, and ensuring clear communication with your partner. Tune in

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