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The Kink Perspective

The Kink Perspective

The Kink Perspective looks at BDSM through psychology, not performance. It’s an honest examination of power, connection, and what really shapes relationships inside kink, without romanticizing dysfunction or avoiding hard truths. Hosted by Chris C, trauma-focused psychotherapist with more than two decades of lifestyle experience. Donate Here Direct link for donation: https://donate.stripe.com/aEU4hz39QaFG3Mk9AG

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00:43:50

Season 4 Episode 16 - BDSM and Alcohol and Substance...

The Kink Perspective ·

2025/04/29

On today’s show, I discuss the growing trend of drinking and substance use at dungeons and BDSM events. As different lifestyles like polyamory and swinging increasingly overlap with kink spaces, the standards around consent, autonomy, and responsibility are starting to shift, and not in ways that protect the community. I break down why sobriety matters in play spaces, the risks that come with impaired consent, and how easily lines can blur when alcohol enters environments built on trust. This is not

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00:25:31

Season 4 Episode 15 - BDSM and Personal Power and...

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2025/04/22

Sovereignty On today’s episode, I discuss personal power and sovereignty, not as abstract ideas but as lived experiences that shape how we navigate identity, roles, and relationships. I explore the difference between positional power and personal power, how trauma impacts our ability to trust ourselves, and what it means to reclaim our sense of self in the context of kink dynamics and beyond. Whether you’re Dominant, submissive, Switch, or something else entirely, this conversation is about learning

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Season 4 Episode 14 - BDSM and Trauma vs. Desire...

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2025/04/15

Does trauma cause BDSM desires? Is kink just a reenactment of old wounds? Or can it be something more, a form of healing, reclamation, or simply joy? I break down the difference between influence and origin, explore what it means when kink feels familiar, and offer a path forward grounded in choice, consent, and self-understanding. This is not about shame. It’s about clarity. Whether you're a survivor, a practitioner, or simply curious, this episode invites you to explore where your desires come

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00:33:34

Season 4 Episode 13 - BDSM and the Sex Offender...

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2025/04/08

On this episode, I discuss a topic that continues to challenge kink communities everywhere: should individuals on the Sex Offender Registry be allowed into public events or dungeons? I explore the emotional and psychological impact these decisions have, not just on survivors but on entire communities. From leadership accountability to the erosion of trust, I take a hard look at what happens when safety, consent, and transparency are sidelined. This isn’t about personal attacks. It’s about the

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00:30:40

Season 4 Episode 12 - BDSM and Coercion, Boundaries...

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2025/04/01

On this episode, I discuss coercion, boundaries, and consent, not as buzzwords, but as lived realities inside power exchange relationships. We break down what these terms actually mean, how they get confused or manipulated in kink spaces, and why that confusion causes real harm.I speak to the ways coercion can be disguised as Dominance or devotion, how internalized guilt keeps people silent, and why accountability is not a threat to the lifestyle. It is essential to it.This episode is a call back to

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00:23:15

Season 4 Episode 11 - BDSM and People Pleasing...

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2025/03/25

On this episode, I discuss people-pleasing behavior and how it shows up in the lifestyle. I break down what it really is, where it comes from, and why it’s often mistaken for consent. I talk about the difference between saying yes from a place of choice versus saying yes out of fear, and why that difference matters so much in kink. If you’ve ever found yourself agreeing to something just to keep the peace or avoid conflict, this one’s for you.Continue the discussion on Fetlife:

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00:37:25

Season 4 Episode 10 - BDSM and Military Mindset in...

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2025/03/18

On today's show, I discuss how military personnel and veterans navigate power exchange in BDSM. The structure, discipline, and leadership developed in service shape both Dominance and submission, influencing how they engage in D/s relationships. Some embrace the authority and control of a Dominant role, while others find submission as a way to release responsibility in a structured and intentional way. I explore how military training aligns with high-protocol dynamics, the challenges of

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00:41:02

Season 4 - Episode 9 - BDSM and Loneliness vs....

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2025/03/11

On today’s show, I discuss the difference between loneliness and solitude, and why understanding both is essential for personal growth and deeper connections. I dive into how loneliness can show up even in the kink and BDSM community, and how it affects our relationships with ourselves and others. I also explore how embracing solitude can be a powerful tool for reflection, healing, and understanding our desires and boundaries. It’s a conversation about how these feelings shape our lives and how we

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00:21:55

Season 4 Episode 8 - BDSM and the Validation Trap in...

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2025/03/03

On today’s episode, I discuss the fine line between validation and dependence in D/s relationships. While praise and approval are natural parts of power exchange, they shouldn’t become the foundation of self-worth. When one partner relies too much on the other for validation, it can create emotional instability and strain the dynamic. I explore how this happens, the impact on both submissives and Dominants, and what each can do to foster a healthier, more secure connection.Continue the discussion on

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01:53:30

Season 4 Episode 7 - My discussion with JohnBaku...

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2025/02/24

For over a decade, John Baku’s name has been tied to a community that never sleeps. But what does that do to a person? In this conversation, it’s not about the platform, it’s about him. The weight, the expectations, the moments no one sees. No scripted answers, no filters, just an honest look at the man behind it all. This is John Baku, like you’ve never heard him before.His profile on Fetlife: @JohnBakuSpecial appearance by @R4monContinue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to

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00:42:26

Season 4 Episode 6 - BDSM and "Emotional Vampires..."

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2025/02/18

On today’s episode, I discuss emotional vampires, those people who drain your energy, manipulate situations, and thrive on drama. In the BDSM lifestyle, where trust and deep connections matter, they can be especially damaging. We’ll break down how they operate, the tactics they use, and most importantly, how to protect yourself. And stick around until the end, I’ll be revealing my special, upcoming guest interview that you won’t want to miss.Continue the discussion on Fetlife:

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00:43:55

Season 4 Episode 5 - BDSM and the Business of...

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2025/02/11

On this episode, I discuss the growing trend of BDSM education becoming a business first and a learning tool second. With more self-proclaimed educators, coaches, and researchers flooding the space, it’s becoming harder to separate real knowledge from clever marketing.I break down the red flags to watch for, titles that sound official but lack regulation, coaching that blurs the line with therapy, and courses designed to keep people paying rather than truly learning. When education stops empowering

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00:26:50

Season 4 Episode 4 - BDSM and Shame and Guilt...

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2025/02/03

On this episode, I discuss the weight of shame and guilt surrounding kinks and fetishes—where these feelings come from, how they impact us, and why they don’t belong to us in the first place. I break down the difference between shame and guilt, explore how they affect self-perception and relationships, and, most importantly, share practical steps to let go of them.Desire isn’t a choice—it’s a discovery. And it’s time to stop apologizing for what turns us on. Continue the discussion on Fetlife:

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00:33:44

Season 4 Episode 3 - BDSM and Sexual Satisfaction vs....

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2025/01/28

On today's show, I discuss the distinction between sexual satisfaction and sexual fulfillment within the BDSM lifestyle. While physical release can be satisfying in the moment, true fulfillment often comes from emotional connection, trust, and vulnerability. I explore how mindfulness, intentional play, and addressing feelings like guilt or shame can help deepen intimacy and create richer, more meaningful experiences.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-Mind Don't forget to hit

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01:32:37

Season 4 Episode 2 - My interview with -JUPIT3R- and...

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2025/01/21

On this episode, I sat down with -Jupit3r- and Cheetahme for a fun and insightful conversation about their 24/7 dynamic. We laughed along the way as we explored how they navigate their relationship in the scene, approach each other, and balance their personal lives with community engagement. They share the joys, challenges, and surprises that come with a 24/7 dynamic, offering some great laughs and thoughtful moments, and so much more...Find their profiles on Fetlife: @-Jupit3r- and

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Season 4 Episode 1 - My take on the incidents at the...

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2025/01/14

Content Warning: This episode discusses consent violations, abuse, and systemic failures in the BDSM community. Listener discretion is advised.On this episode, I discuss the recent events surrounding the issues of theWoodShed in Florida, examining allegations of consent violations, leadership failures, and systemic harm within the community. I highlight survivor stories, analyze the misuse of power dynamics in kink spaces, and unpack the psychological toll these events have had on individuals and

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00:24:40

Season 3 - It's a Wrap!

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2024/12/17

In this special Year-End Wrap-Up episode, I’m taking a moment to reflect on the incredible journey we've had in 2024. From reaching listeners in 105 countries to breaking into the top 10% of global podcasts, it's been a year of growth and meaningful connection. I’m so grateful for the community we’ve built together. Your support and engagement have made all the difference. We’ve explored intimate topics like BDSM and mindfulness, celebrated powerful conversations about kink and activism, and dug

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00:32:35

Season 3 Episode 50 - BDSM and Eroticism...

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2024/12/10

On today’s show, I discuss the importance of eroticism in self-care and connection. I explore how embracing our erotic selves can deepen our relationships, enhance intimacy, and promote psychological healing. From understanding the power of touch to addressing barriers like body shame and trauma, I dive into how erotic energy can be a tool for self-discovery and growth. Whether you're new to the BDSM lifestyle or a seasoned practitioner, today’s episode offers insights into how we can cultivate

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Season 3 Episode 49 - BDSM and Role Reversal...

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2024/12/03

On today's show, I discuss role reversal in BDSM—why someone who’s in control all day might crave letting go during a scene, or why a naturally nurturing person might enjoy stepping into a Dominant role. We dive into how role reversal can be a powerful way to explore different sides of ourselves, find balance, and deepen our connections with partners. I’ll share some of the psychological benefits, bust a few myths, and talk about how to incorporate role reversal into your play safely and

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01:02:15

Season 3 Episode 48 - My discussion with...

The Kink Perspective ·

2024/11/26

In this episode, I sit down with DrSpankologist, a passionate member of the Spanko community, to explore the emotional, psychological, and relational aspects of spanking. We dive into how spanking influences emotional well-being, the role of trust and vulnerability, and the unique connection it creates between partners. DrSpankologist shares personal stories, insights on common misconceptions, and advice for those curious about exploring this kink.You can find his profile on Fetlife

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