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The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt

The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you

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17:27

Beyond Counseling: Discovering the Triad of Connection

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2025/08/19

Episode #1020 If you’ve been grinding to fix your marriage, doing the therapy, the books, the talking but nothing’s changing… you’re not alone. In this episode, we unpack why traditional counseling often leaves men feeling stuck, and what actually creates real connection at home. Doug and Chris share a real story of a man who spent 20 years trying to fix his marriage the “right” way, only to find out he was missing a system built for men like him. We break down the Triad of Connection, a simple,

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27:47

Revisit: Softening A Strong Woman: Unlocking True...

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2025/08/16

Episode #1019 Ever feel like your wife has built a wall between you? Maybe she’s more critical, distant, or just not as open as she used to be. In this episode, we unpack why some women “harden” over time, what signs to look for before it gets that far, and most importantly how you can help shift the dynamic. We’ll break down the common mistakes men make (often without realizing it), how carrying the mental load impacts your relationship, and why simply suggesting solutions isn’t enough you need to

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27:41

Decoding Women's Desires: More Than Just Sex

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2025/08/14

Episode #1018 Most men think their wife isn’t interested in sex anymore. But what if that’s not actually true? In this episode, Doug sits down with his wife Erin for an honest conversation about what women really want in the bedroom and outside of it. Erin shares insights from her own coaching and real conversations with other wives, explaining why emotional safety, shared responsibility, and everyday connection are just as important as physical intimacy. They talk about the things most men miss

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19:16

From Struggle to Strength: Effective Personal...

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2025/08/12

Episode #1017 If you're ready to grow but not sure where to start, this episode will help you figure it out. Doug sits down with TPM advisor Christopher to break down the key things to look for when you're choosing a personal development program. Whether it's for your marriage, your business, or your own mindset, not all coaching is created equal and the wrong choice can set you back more than you think. Doug shares his checklist for spotting programs that actually deliver, including what questions

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20:03

Revisit: The Unhappy Entrepreneur: Breaking the...

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2025/08/09

Episode #1016 We’re bringing this conversation back because it still hits home for so many men. On the outside, Stu had everything. Successful business. Healthy kids. Good marriage. But behind closed doors, he was quietly falling apart. No one could tell, and he didn’t know why. He just wasn’t happy. In this episode, Stu sits down with Tim to revisit what life looked like before joining The Activation Method, the hidden cost of having it all, and the slow unraveling that almost broke everything. He

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16:09

Lead Yourself First: A Path to a Stronger Partnership

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2025/08/07

Episode #1015 A lot of guys feel stuck in their relationships but don’t know where to start. They wait, overthink, or say things like, “I need to check with my wife first.” Sound familiar? In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt sit down to talk about what really makes a man attractive to his partner and it's not about being perfect or waiting for permission. They get honest about what women actually want from their men, why leading yourself first is key, and how personal growth (done the right way) can

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38:57

Emotionally Penetrating: Redefining Connection with...

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2025/08/05

Episode #1014 In this episode, Doug sits down with Scott to unpack what it really means to emotionally connect with your partner. And no, it’s not about talking more or trying harder. It’s about presence, vulnerability, and learning how to show up fully as a man. They talk openly about midlife struggle, emotional safety in relationships, and how most guys are chasing sex when what they’re actually craving is connection. You’ll hear personal stories from Scott’s transformation, going from emotionally

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25:45

Revisit: Why Don't Women Apologize? Understanding the...

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2025/08/02

Episode #1013 Ever find yourself wondering why you're always the one apologizing in your relationship? You’re not alone. In this episode, Doug and Tim dig into a question that comes up all the time in coaching sessions: why is it so rare for women to apologize—and what does it really mean? They break down the emotional weight behind apologies, how gender differences shape communication, and why “I’m sorry” might not come as easily for your partner as it does for you. More importantly, they walk you

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40:06

Eating Your Own Cooking: The Journey to Self-Improvement

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2025/07/31

Episode #1012 In this episode, Doug and Coach Neil break down what it really means to “eat your own cooking”—doing the work you expect others to do. It’s not about having all the answers or reading the next book. It’s about actually getting in the arena and being willing to trip, fall, and course correct. If you’re tired of analyzing your life but still feeling stuck, this conversation is for you. Doug and Neil get honest about the fears that hold men back—especially husbands, fathers, and business

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34:56

Navigating Change: Lessons in Parenthood and...

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2025/07/29

Episode #1011 Doug and Coach Neil get into a real, grounded conversation about what it looks like to lead at home when things are shifting—whether it’s your kid pulling away for the first time or your marriage feeling a little off. They talk through the quiet stuff most men don’t say out loud: feeling alone, second-guessing yourself, and wondering if you're really showing up the way you want to. This isn’t about fixing your wife or your kid. It’s about you. Are you actually leading, or are you

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26:23

Revisit: Unmasking Authenticity: The Journey to Your...

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2025/07/26

Episode #1010 Most guys don’t realize they’re wearing a mask. Maybe it’s the “successful one,” the “nice guy,” or the “always-in-control” version of you. These masks usually start out as protection—but eventually, they just make life heavier, less real, and more exhausting. In this episode, Tim, Grant, Arthur, and Jared get honest about the masks they've worn, how those masks formed, and what it takes to actually let go of them. If you've ever caught yourself saying “Why did I just react like that?”

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30:00

Healing from Betrayal: Rebuilding Trust and Setting...

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2025/07/24

Episode #1009 What do you do when trust has been broken in your relationship—especially if you were the one who caused the pain? In this episode, Doug and Chris have a raw, no-fluff conversation about what it really takes to heal after betrayal. They unpack how long is “long enough” to sit in guilt, when it’s time to start setting boundaries, and why beating yourself up won’t rebuild connection. This isn’t about quick fixes or fake apologies—it’s about doing the real work: owning your part, creating

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35:05

The Journey to Authentic Manhood: Challenges and...

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2025/07/22

Episode #1008 Ever find yourself resisting the very tools you know will help you? In this episode, Doug Holt sits down with fellow TPM coach Christopher Hansen to answer a powerful question from the community: “What part of the program do you struggle to live out in real life?” The conversation is refreshingly honest. They talk about slipping on routines like the Alpha Rise & Shine, avoiding conflict cleanup, and the very human reasons why even experienced coaches still fall short sometimes. It's

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21:50

Revisit: Nothing Changes If Nothing Changes: How TPM...

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2025/07/19

Episode #1007 In this raw and honest conversation, Tim sits down with Justin McAuliffe—TPM brother, coach, and long-time volunteer at the Alpha Reset—to talk about what real change actually takes. Justin opens up about the traps so many men fall into: chasing external validation, hiding behind success, or numbing out just to get through the day. He shares how the TPM process helped him stop pretending, start feeling, and finally come home to himself—not by fixing everything overnight, but by taking

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25:27

The Art of Engaged Indifference: Strengthening...

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2025/07/17

Episode #1006 Ever get hit with a comment like “you never help around the house” and instantly go on the defensive? Yeah—most men have. In this episode, Doug sits down with TPM advisor and Alpha Reset grad Chris Hanson to break down a powerful concept: engaged indifference. It’s not about shutting down or checking out. It’s about staying connected while keeping your cool—especially when your partner is testing the waters. Doug shares real-life examples, coaching insights, and a few tricks to help

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55:09

Redefining Wellness: A Conversation on Body, Mind,...

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2025/07/15

Episode #1005 Most guys think getting healthy means grinding harder at the gym or forcing themselves into a strict diet. But in this conversation, we go deeper. Doug sits down with Kate Abate—performance coach, former pro bodybuilder, and gerontologist—for a raw, eye-opening look at what real wellness actually looks like for men today. Kate works closely with men in The Powerful Man movement, and she’s seen firsthand how physical transformation is just the tip of the iceberg. From emotional eating

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39:23

Navigating Relationship Crossroads: Should I Stay or...

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2025/07/10

Episode #1003 Feel stuck in your relationship and not sure whether to work on it or walk away? In this episode, Doug Holt and Coach Mark Smith break down the tough questions men face when their marriage or partnership feels off. No fluff—just real talk about what it means to lead in your relationship, how to stop avoiding the hard conversations, and a simple framework to help you decide if it’s time to recommit or move on. If you've been feeling disconnected, unheard, or unsure whether there's still

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42:48

Breaking the Cycle of Hopium: Taking Action in Life...

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2025/07/08

Episode #1002 If you've been telling yourself “now’s not the right time,” it might be time to take a closer look at what that’s really costing you. In this episode, Doug Holt and Coach Mark Smith dive into the common trap a lot of men fall into—waiting, hoping, and putting off action in their relationships, health, and personal growth. This isn’t about hype or motivation. It’s about being honest with yourself, owning where you’re at, and recognizing that hope alone doesn’t create change—leadership

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14:18

Revisit: The Hidden Harm of Invalidation: Building a...

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2025/07/05

Episode #1001 Most guys have good intentions. You want to be supportive. You want to lift her up. But what if the way you respond is actually doing the opposite of what you think? In this episode, Doug sits down with Brad Holt to talk about something subtle but powerful: invalidation. It’s one of the biggest blind spots men have in relationships—especially when it comes to trying to help, fix, or reassure. From phrases like “You look great” to trying to talk her out of what she’s feeling, you might

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01:16:20

1000 Episodes Later: Top Relationship Questions Answered

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2025/07/03

Episode #1000 After 1,000 episodes, we’re still getting the same core questions from men: “Why won’t my wife forgive me?”, “Why doesn’t she feel safe?”, and “Why is nothing I do ever enough?” In this episode, we’re cutting the fluff and giving you direct, honest answers. Doug and Tim reflect on what’s really going on in your relationship—and how to start fixing it without trying harder or doing more of the wrong things. Whether your marriage feels stuck, your wife feels distant, or you're just tired

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