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Beyond Success

Are you a high achiever who"s worked hard, found success, but still feels like something"s missing? Do you wonder what the point of it all is, and long for deeper meaning or love in your life? Welcome to "Beyond Success," the podcast for high achievers seeking fulfillment, happiness, and true purpose. I"m David Tian, Ph.D., Leadership Coach, Certified IFS Therapy Practitioner (Level 3), and a former university professor. I"m also a proud father and husband. I bring two decades of experience,

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#26: The Hidden Reason You're Unfulfilled (Even If...

Beyond Success ·

2025/03/07

Successful high achievers think they can always rely on themselves more than on other people. This idea helped fuel their success. But it’s also why their success isn’t fulfilling, and why they feel on the verge of burnout. In fact, a deep-rooted drive to do everything yourself is a sign that something's off under the surface. Isolation isn’t a strength. It’s a slow acting poison that leads to burnout, frustration, and an early grave. And you know what? If you resonate with this, you’ve just

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23:50

#25: Why You're Not Happy & Fulfilled (Even Though...

Beyond Success ·

2025/02/28

If you’re a high achiever, you probably have a tendency to prioritize work above all else. Results are the most important thing to you. And all the other stuff—like deep relationships that offer true connection—are treated as “nice to haves.” But this is perhaps the biggest tragedy a high achiever could face. Because when something hits the fan one day (whether a gut-wrenching divorce, a paralyzing business problem, or even achieving a massive milestone), there’s nobody you care about whom you can

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28:55

Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong People (& How to...

Beyond Success ·

2025/02/21

Most people chalk up their attraction problems to external sources: Maybe they think they need better strategies and skills. Or they believe that dating apps are against them. Or maybe it’s just that they’re unlucky. Here’s the bad news: If you've been struggling with attraction, confidence, or relationships, the problem isn't some external force working against you. The real issue is the unconscious patterns, your “Relationship Blueprint,” controlling your life. Worst part? Since your mind creates

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30:43

The Dark Psychology Behind Attraction Strategies (and...

Beyond Success ·

2025/02/14

As a former player myself, I know first-hand how crushing the “Grandiosity-Shame Cycle” is. Almost all players fall into this psychological trap that only leads to rage, doubt, depression, and despair. But you know what? It’s not just players who are at risk of falling into this sabotaging cycle. Any one who builds his or her identity around external validation is at risk of falling into this deep emotional hole, where compulsive self-destruction and total emptiness become your new normal. To

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35:18

The Dating Lies You've Been Sold (And Why They're...

Beyond Success ·

2025/02/07

Men who have a desire to improve at dating often fall into the trap of tactics. And they fundamentally believe that their lack of success is not because of them, but because of the modern dating world. So they seek to “optimize” individual tactics involved in modern dating—fixing their profile on dating apps, becoming more successful in their career, hitting the gym and getting a six-pack—without ever confronting the real root cause of their dating failures: Themselves! Of course, this route is far

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28:38

The Missing Ingredient for Lasting Attraction:...

Beyond Success ·

2025/01/31

Does your relationship feel like it's dying a slow death? The passion is gone. The original spark has been extinguished. And resentment for your partner may even be surfacing. Here’s the truth: This is a “stress test” almost all relationships go through. But if you’re a people pleaser, then, well, this is usually where your relationship goes to die. Why? Because people pleasers see the signs of a relationship dying and unknowingly double down on the exact things that drove the relationship to the

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21:22

Master Inner Game: How to Become More Attractive on...

Beyond Success ·

2025/01/24

When you want to become more successful in business, relationships, or life, most people focus on tactics, strategies, and skills. But there’s a bigger obstacle to your success than your lack of tactics, strategies, and skills… In fact, without first addressing this obstacle, success will never come easy, no matter how hard you keep pushing. Why? Because the obstacle you have to overcome is yourself. And no amount of pushing, prodding, or plotting can help you outrun yourself. That’s the bad

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25:33

Is The "Upper Limit Problem" An Invisible Force...

Beyond Success ·

2025/01/17

Question: Have you ever reached a high point in life (a major win, a big breakthrough, or a massive milestone)... only to feel like the rug’s been pulled from underneath you? Well, I have good news and bad news: If you find yourself second guessing yourself, procrastinating, picking fights with loved ones, or just a sinking, uneasy feeling that shows up whenever an opportunity knocks on your door, you might be going through the “Upper Limit Problem.” The “Upper Limit Problem” happens when

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28:24

How To Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty

Beyond Success ·

2025/01/10

When your team, family, and friends rely on you for everything, and you don’t know how to say no, then you’re on a path of self-destruction. Why? Because an inability to set boundaries and assert yourself stems from toxic shame you picked up at some point in your life. If you don’t address this toxic shame, burn out, resentment, and self-loathing follow. That’s the bad news. The good news? While learning how to assert yourself might not be the easiest thing you do, it’s possible. And today’s

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24:16

The Gossip Trap: How It Silently Destroys Trust &...

Beyond Success ·

2025/01/03

Most people never stop to question today’s topic. But it silently poisons relationships, teams, and even your own peace of mind. Worst part? It masquerades as an innocent and harmless way to blow off steam. But it actually erodes trust, creates drama, and keeps pressing problems unresolved. Of course, we’re talking about gossip today. Not only is it harmful to anyone you gossip to and about, but it’s insidious to you too. In today’s show, you’ll discover the real cost of gossip, the truth behind

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28:58

Time Does Not Heal Emotional Wounds: Do This Instead

Beyond Success ·

2024/12/27

A messy breakup or divorce can cause devastating trickle down consequences when you don’t learn how to rebuild your trust. But many people wrongly believe that time can heal all wounds. But this passive approach leads you down a road of fear, resentment, and isolation. Why? The truth is that time does not heal emotional wounds. And expecting it to will only trick you into repeating the same patterns that resulted in a messy breakup in the first place. While this process won’t be easy, it’s

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23:10

Why Smart, Successful People Struggle to Make Life's...

Beyond Success ·

2024/12/20

Do you struggle making tough decisions because indecision is easier? While this is something everyone confronts at one point or another, it comes with a steep cost: While indecision might feel like it provides relief in the short term, it eventually erodes your confidence, your relationships, and your ability to lead. It also creates a ripple effect that extends to every other aspect of your life. Worst part? Indecision is a slow poison and you might not realize the sabotaging effects it has

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39:34

How to Recover from a Break Up or Divorce

Beyond Success ·

2024/12/13

Going through a breakup or recovering from a divorce is one of the most emotionally complex experiences you'll ever face. It’s always messy and layered. And if you don’t approach it with the right mindset, you’ll fall back into the old patterns and habits that destroyed your previous relationships. That’s the bad news. The good news? Not only are emotions temporary and fleeting, including the entire grieving process, but it’s possible to rebuild your life and relationships in a way that ensures

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28:23

Dating After Divorce or a Break Up: 3 Steps to...

Beyond Success ·

2024/12/06

There is nothing more gut-wrenching than a divorce or the end of a long-term relationship. It makes you question everything. And nobody gives you a manual for how to rebuild your personal life after a messy breakup. The modern dating landscape makes this even more difficult. Dating apps can feel like a second job that doesn’t pay or even lead to dates. And the professional skills you’ve developed to become a high achiever don’t work for building relationships. And if you clicked on the title of

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28:41

Break Free from Burnout: Mastering Self-Awareness,...

Beyond Success ·

2024/11/29

Does success feel hollow? Or worse, like a weight around your neck? This is a common feeling for high achievers who were led to believe that success brings fulfillment. When you realize this isn’t true, burnout, a lack of connection, and deep sense of dissatisfaction can rear their ugly heads. But what if you could transform your life from the inside out? That’s exactly what I show you how to do in today’s show. I share tools and insights that will not only help you break free from burnout and

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28:32

The Hidden Trap of Success and How to Escape It

Beyond Success ·

2024/11/22

Do you find yourself in a never-ending chase for the next achievement, the next form of external validation? Well, despite how rampant this chase runs through high achievers, it leads you down a road that only ends in exhaustion, disappointment, and even depression. Worst part? No matter how much “success” you accumulate, it will never provide the deep sense of fulfillment your soul is yearning for. That’s the bad news. The good news? While redefining success is one of the most difficult things

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30:24

Why High Achievers Feel Unfulfilled (Even When...

Beyond Success ·

2024/11/15

We’re taught from a young age that success is the best path to a fulfilling and satisfying life. So achievers dedicate themselves to achieving, thinking it will bring success. The problem is, success is not the same thing as fulfillment. And often, the more successful you become, the emptier you feel inside. As your relationships crumble, your self-doubt, loneliness, and existential fear consume you. Worst part? Success only further magnifies these feelings. You could have all the material

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38:09

The 2,000-Year-Old Guide to Winning at Life Without...

Beyond Success ·

2024/11/08

Most achievers who want more from life—whether in their relationships, career, or fulfillment—turn to best-selling self-help books. But most of the “wisdom” in these bestsellers doesn’t stand the test of time—at least not when compared to ancient texts that have helped people for thousands of years. One such ancient book that offers a treasure trove of wisdom is called the Zhuangzi, an early Daoist text. And while it’s more than 2,000 years old… the wisdom contained inside this text is timeless. In

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38:10

How to Grow from Anxious or Avoidant to Secure...

Beyond Success ·

2024/11/01

Your earliest relationships when you were a child can significantly impact your relationships as an adult. How? Well, when you’re young, you develop one of four attachment styles that can make or break your relationships today. The problem is, only one of these attachment styles set you up for a long, thriving relationship. While the other three are the culprits behind why you’ve sabotaged past relationships. That’s the bad news. The good news? It’s possible to break free from a self-destructive

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24:31

The Brutal Truth about Why You’re Always In Toxic...

Beyond Success ·

2024/10/25

Do you find yourself hopping from one toxic relationship to the next? If so, here’s a tough pill to swallow: You’re the common denominator—especially if you think you’ve just gotten unlucky in relationships. But here’s the truth… Until you take full responsibility for your own actions and behaviors, no matter how big or small, you’ll keep repeating the same toxic patterns. But there is a solution (as long as you’re willing to get uncomfortable and take responsibility for the role you’ve played in

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