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Why She Stayed

A podcast where we dive deep into what really goes on inside of domestic violence relationships that makes it so hard to simply "just leave". Through stories of survivors, and practical conversations with guests, I am going to put the microscope back on what the abuser is doing that causes us to become so trapped in the first place, and how each survivor was eventually freed. We will discuss what abusive relationships look like, sound like, and feel like for the purpose of educating and relating to

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1:08:51

Ep 38: Can Coercive Control be Accidental? Do I Owe...

Why She Stayed ·

2025/01/07

During this episode, I will be answering your most commonly asked questions about abuse and healing. We discuss questions such as:Can abuse be unintentional? Do I owe my abuser one last conversation?Best way to deal with the silent treatmentHow to stop comparing yourself to the next person they are withAnd more. See more Q&As covered through my Instagram: @gracestuart26 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:02:24

Ep. 37: When He's on a Pedestal & Puts You in...

Why She Stayed ·

2024/12/24

On this episode, Megan shares her abuse story of how isolation & accusations were slowly introduced, how abusers will put you in lose-lose situations, how it feels like we always need more "proof" to leave them, and how she eventually left for good.Next episode will air on Tuesday, January 7th. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:09:38

Ep. 36: Non-Fatal Strangulation: How it's Introduced...

Why She Stayed ·

2024/12/17

On this episode I am joined by forensic psychologist Dr. Dana Anderson where we discuss the dangers of non-fatal strangulation, what it is, what "counts", why it matters, and answering your most commonly asked questions. Dr. Anderson's website and social links: Instagram: dr.dana_andersonTiktok: @killerpsychologistWebsite: https://psychologydr.com/doctor-of-clinical-forensic-psychology/Further resources and videos:

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1:12:43

Ep. 35: Will Trying to be Perfect Make Them Change?

Why She Stayed ·

2024/12/10

On this episode I am joined by my guest Amanda where we discuss topics of emotional abuse, coercive control, sexual coercion and more. We also discuss how abusers use things like withdrawing or demanding intimacy as a way to control you and how porn use and spiritual manipulation can play a role in the cycle of abuse. See my Instagram @gracestuart26 for more on guest information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:15:39

Ep. 34: Cognitive Dissonance, Euphoric Recall, and...

Why She Stayed ·

2024/12/03

On today's episode, Cindy and I discuss the progression of abuse in her past relationship/ marriage and how strong cognitive dissonance can be when you are dealing with "two versions" of your partner. We also talk about their claims of change, and how intense euphoric recalls can be when you are trying walk away and what helped Cindy to overcome that.Cindy's Instagram: @cin.d.bin Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:08:05

Ep. 33: DV Survivor & Mass Shooting Survivor- Elle...

Why She Stayed ·

2024/11/26

On this episode, I am joined by Elle Gargano speaking about enduring a 9 year abusive relationship and all of the aspects that kept her feeling stuck including surviving a mass shooting during the time when she was still with her abuser. We speak heavily about emotional and mental abuse and how the confusion kept her feeling uncertain of her experience for many years.Elle's Socials and Website: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ellegargano/TikTok: @ellegarganoWebsite: https://www.ellegargano.com/

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1:16:00

Ep. 32: Coercion, Reactive Abuse, and what if it's me...

Why She Stayed ·

2024/11/19

Morgan shares her story of escaping a relationship that included extreme phases of "love" and devaluing. We discuss topics of coercion, reactive abuse, lying to escape his accusations, the addictiveness of the cycle, and overcoming self-blame.See my Instagram @gracestuart26 for more episode clips and episode information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:00:48

Ep. 31: Am I "Supposed" to Stay in an Abusive...

Why She Stayed ·

2024/11/12

On this episode I'm joined by Karen DeArmond Gardner where we talk about covert, emotional, mental, and spiritual abuse. She gives new perspectives on how to handle the intrusive thoughts and lies that tell us "but am I supposed to stay?"All Links for Karen's Socials and Website:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karendearmondgardner?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==Book: https://www.amazon.com/Hope-Healing-Domestic-Abuse-Reaching/dp/0825446945Website:

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1:16:04

Ep. 30: "No one will ever believe you because you...

Why She Stayed ·

2024/11/05

On this episode, Savannah shares her story about mental, verbal, and physical abuse and why it felt so hard to leave. We talk about how "smaller" physical trespasses escalate over time and how the perpetrator may pretend they are not even happening. This is an episode for anyone who is in a cycle of "good and bad" who is looking to gain new perspective. Savannah's Socials:Tiktok: @therealmessmomIG: @therealmessmom Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Ep. 29: How to Help Someone Who's in an Abusive...

Why She Stayed ·

2024/10/29

On this solo episode, I give all of my best tips for bridging the gap with a loved one who may be stuck in an abusive relationship. I give advice on what could be most helpful VS. harmful and how to stay hopeful in the midst of it all.Remember to always contact law enforcement in the case of an emergency, or call a DV hotline yourself for specific advice. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:16:30

How Abusers Weaponize Mental Health and Triangulation

Why She Stayed ·

2024/10/22

On this episode, Jess shares her story about how abusers can weaponize mental health claims as an excuse to accuse you and gain control in very covert ways. We also discuss how perpetrators who are very charismatic triangulate people around them to feed into the manipulation and lies. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:11:41

How to Look Through the Lens of the Cycle of Abuse-...

Why She Stayed ·

2024/10/15

On this episode I'm joined by my guest Quinn Padilla where we talk about how to gain clarity by focusing on what the *cycle* of abuse really looks like and new perspectives to help you identify patterns and stay strong. We also discuss Quinn's personal story as a DV survivor. Quinn's Instagram: @itsquinnpadillaQuinn's Website: https://www.rellawellness.com/Article I cited: https://voicemalemagazine.org/abusive-men-describe-the-benefits-of-violence/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more

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1:14:13

Psychological Abuse, Blindness, & Resilience Through...

Why She Stayed ·

2024/10/08

On this episode, I am joined by Sherrie Lynn Lilley who is a DV survivor and owner of HEAL Creative Coaching. We speak about emotional & psychological abuse and how she navigated the trauma as a blind woman and as a mother of 5 amazing children. Sherrie's Instagram is @sherrielynnlilley Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:03:06

"Reactive Abuse", Abusers Who Discard, Hoover, &...

Why She Stayed ·

2024/10/01

On this episode we discuss topics of emotional & verbal abuse, abusers who initiate "breakups" as a form of manipulation, hoovering, anxiety they create, and how you can be pushed to a point of reacting to their mistreatment. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:10:11

Abuse, Second Guessing Yourself, Withdraw, & The...

Why She Stayed ·

2024/09/24

On this episode we are talking about Claire's story and why it's so hard to break free from an abuser and then keep up the strength to stay gone. We also discuss projection, monitoring, accusing, and how they try to pull you back in and make you second guess your decision to leave at every turn. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:02:15

The Insidious Nature of Abuse & Spiritual Abuse -...

Why She Stayed ·

2024/09/18

On this episode, Tatenda Mandingwa and I have an open conversation about the insidious parts of abuse, questions you can ask yourself to gain clarity, and what spiritual abuse can look like. Tatenda's IG: @tatendamandingwaMy IG: @gracestuart26 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:09:15

It's Not High Conflict, It's Abuse- Maureen's Story

Why She Stayed ·

2024/09/10

On this episode, I'm joined by my guest Maureen where we talk about her domestic violence story and the importance of calling abuse by name. We talk about the cognitive dissonance that happens when you are trapped in the cycle of abuse and how she eventually was able to identify what was truly happening to her. Maureen's Instagram: @themaureenmurphyTW: emotional abuse, SA, other sensitive topics. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:02:34

Surviving an Abusive Marriage and Post Separation Abuse

Why She Stayed ·

2024/09/03

Savannah shares her DV story about emotional abuse, sexual abuse, substance use, and the escalation of physical abuse within a marriage. We also discuss post separation abuse, the challenges when a child is involved, and words of wisdom and hope for coming out on the other side. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Inside the Abuser's Mind- Part 2

Why She Stayed ·

2024/08/27

Today I am joined by Abuse Educator and DV Advocate, Eleni. We discuss commonly asked questions to provide you with education, strength, and understanding.Eleni's Instagram: @no_narcsenseTiktok: @nonarcsense Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:12:17

Kidnapped by her Abuser: Lex's Story

Why She Stayed ·

2024/08/20

On this episode, Lex will be sharing her domestic violence story and how the early warning signs of control and manipulation escalated over time and lead to a kidnapping incident by her abuser that she survived. Lex now has a passion for DV advocacy and speaks out to help people recognize the signs.Her social media pages are:Instagram: @lexruhlenTikTok: @lexlittlepickleTrigger Warning: Physical abuse, language, emotional abuse Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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