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The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert

Get to the root of emotional issues and learn the best way to relate to yourself and others by honoring your personal boundaries and making decisions that are in alignment with what"s most important to you. This is not a "common-sense" personal growth and development show. You won"t be told to think positively or create affirmations. The Overwhelmed Brain is about accessing that deeper mental and emotional strength inside you so that you can decrease or even eliminate old fears and evolve into the

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38:22

The games our loved ones play

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/04/06

"Go ahead, have a great time! Wait, are you leaving without me? What about my needs? No, I mean go ahead and have fun. I'll be good! Hey, don't feel bad about leaving me alone, I'll be fine. Oh, you don't feel bad? Why are you leaving me alone? How can you do this to me?" Need I say more?

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53:49

What is love?

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/03/30

How you define love will be what you get from it. If you don't have a definition for love, you may get stuck with something that appears to be love, but is really something else altogether. If you are 100% happy with the people you love in your life, skip this episode.

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27:58

Never put your faith in anyone who makes you feel...

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/03/23

People who care about you should lift you up, not kick you when you're down. If someone keeps dragging you lower, trusting their words is like giving a vampire the keys to the blood bank.

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38:54

When every argument is petty and unresolved

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/03/16

Arguing isn't fun, but if it's going to happen, it should at least be productive. But what if it's never productive and you never get anything resolved? That's the question I tackle today.

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31:46

The big life lessons that can change everything for...

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/03/09

There are some life lessons that we have to force ourselves to go through in order to make our circumstances better. Those lessons can feel like a massive leap over a bottomless chasm. But the rewards for such a leap can mean the difference between living a full life or one restricted by fear and uncertainty.

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48:44

Am I really the problem?

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/03/02

If you find that you define yourself in a negative way based on someone else's perception of you, you must listen to this episode. Is what they're saying about you really true? If you think that, we need to address that right away.

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48:33

Should payback for bad behavior be a relationship norm?

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/02/23

What are your rights in a relationship with someone who is mistreating you or acting badly? Is it okay to get back at them and reciprocate with similar or worse behavior? What's fair in relationship warfare? Good question!

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40:50

Decluttering the overwhelmed brain

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/02/16

If you find your mind feels like an overstuffed closet, and your actual closet is also overstuffed, I'll try to help you balance the mental and physical clutter in this episode. It's a special episode that strays away from the norm, but hey, out of eleven years of doing this show, one off the beaten path isn't going to hurt.

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37:36

When empathy is used against you

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/02/09

Some people can be draining, especially if they play the victim after they've done bad behavior and expect you to empathize with them. Some people are very, very good at doing that. I talk about those people today.

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47:26

What can keep you stuck with the same results over...

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/02/02

Our childhood coping mechanisms shape our adult relationships. Sometimes the old fears keep us from moving into new, better territory, keeping us stuck where we are.

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38:05

Washing your hands of a problem that won't go away

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/01/26

Some problems won't go away until you walk away from them. But walking away can be hard... sometimes impossible. And sometimes it involves sacrifice. And is walking away the only answer?

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39:47

The pressure of sex and expectations in an...

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/01/19

Sometimes emotional and sexual expectations can be challenging to balance in a long-term relationship... but do they have to be? Or is intimacy just difficult with certain people who seem entitled to receive it instead of trying to build it from the ground up?

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01:10:20

Feeling like you have no choice but to submit to...

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/01/12

You know the type: They do nothing and you do everything. In this episode, I share the struggle of a woman who has a rocky relationship with her adult daughter who moved back in with her. I share a lot of thoughts and lessons we can learn what we can do, if anything, when the other person in your life is making things unnecessarily harder.

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42:51

The partner who likes things as they are when you're...

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2025/01/05

When you live with your romantic partner... And their relatives... And your partner doesn't seem to want that to change... What are your choices? Very hard question! I thought I'd tackle that today.

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29:21

The people who avoid you

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2024/12/29

Are you trying to reconnect with someone who’s unresponsive? Maybe they want nothing more to do with you and maybe you don't know why? And maybe this episode gives you the final step to take with others who seem like all they care about is avoiding you.

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44:31

The judgments you have about others that keep you...

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2024/12/22

If you’ve ever found yourself trying to change someone's habits or feeling frustrated by their behaviors, this episode might help you learn what it takes to deal with and maybe even heal with someone you just can't seem to fully accept.

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57:15

How your coping mechanisms may be interfering with...

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2024/12/15

How you cope with challenges affects... well... your whole life really! It can be helpful to know what your coping mechanisms are and where you learned them so that perhaps you can examine them and choose different responses in the future. If it were only that easy.

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45:02

The massive, impossible, overwhelming circumstances...

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2024/12/08

Problems can add up, compound, and create a situation so impossible to get out of that there seems to be no hope. Is it total defeat or is there anything you can do?

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36:13

Can you heal from the big reveal of your partner's past?

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2024/12/01

So you get someone special and you're feeling pretty good abou things, but then they reveal something they did in their past that takes all those good feelings away. Now you're not sure what to do about it. Can you get over it? Will you ever look at them the same way again? I tackle that specific issue in this episode.

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35:07

Those "Nothing" people when you ask what's wrong

The Overwhelmed Brain ·

2024/11/24

What do you do when someone won't share what's on their mind? They're acting very different, but they're refusing to say why. They might even tell you nothing's wrong. But you know something's up...

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