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The Openlove101 Show

John & Jackie Melfi

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we"re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the

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07:38

How Different Cultures Embrace the Swinging Lifestyle

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2024/11/05

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss how the Swinging Lifestyle is different in different cultures! They discuss the difference and similarities they have experienced first hand on their travels living in the lifestyle. Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

09:36

Managing Boundaries in Open Relationships:...

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2024/10/29

In this episode, John and Jackie are tackling some tough questions from their viewers about navigating boundaries in open relationships. "What do you do when your partner is interested in playing with another couple, but you're not?" And how do you handle shifting boundaries when one partner isn't comfortable with the change? John and Jackie share their personal experiences, practical advice, and the importance of communication and respect in maintaining a healthy relationship. Whether

08:54

Swingers Lifestyle And The Subject Of Consent

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2024/10/22

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss how the topic of "consent" has changed over the years. They discuss the importance of both nonverbal and verbal consent, respecting someone's answer if they consent or not, and how everyone should respect consent in any situation. Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

07:56

Keeping It Spicy: How New Experiences Can Revitalize...

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2024/10/15

In this episode, John and Jackie dive into the exciting world of keeping relationships spicy and vibrant. They explore how introducing new experiences, whether it's through food, activities, or even new people, can bring a fresh spark to long-term relationships. They discuss the importance of novelty in maintaining intimacy and connection, sharing personal anecdotes and practical tips on how to keep things interesting. From trying new restaurants to playing relationship-enhancing games, this

09:48

Swinging Advice For Non-Swingers

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2024/10/08

Join John and Jackie as they discuss how the relationship advice they give for non-monogamy helps their monogamous friends in their relationship! Whether you're new to the lifestyle or a seasoned participant, this episode is packed with enlightening information and plenty of laughs. Tune in and expand your swinger vocabulary with us!

18:04

Discover Swinger Terms You Won't Believe!

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2024/10/01

Join John and Jackie as they dive into the fascinating world of swinger terminology. Ever wondered what terms like "unicorn," "soft swap," or "airtight" mean? Join us as we play a fun game hosted by Courtney, where we define and discuss various terms used in the lifestyle. We share our reactions, insights, and some hilarious moments along the way. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or a seasoned participant, this episode is packed with enlightening information and plenty of laughs. Tune in and

08:21

When Swinging Doesn't Go As Planned!

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2024/09/24

Join John and Jackie in this blast from the past episode as they discuss what to do when you have a bad experience inside a lifestyle club or swinger party! If you have ever had a bad experience, you are not alone! Through out the years, many of our followers have reached out with their own stories and asking for advice when the night does not go as planned. So be sure to listen or watch this episode and see what you can do if you find yourself in a similar situation!

11:01

Are You Someone's Fantasy? (Surprising Truth About...

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2024/09/17

John and Jackie dive into the important topic of body image within the lifestyle community. They share insights on how everyone, regardless of their appearance, can find a place and feel accepted in lifestyle clubs, parties, and events. John and Jackie discuss common concerns from those new to the lifestyle, emphasizing that attraction is diverse and subjective. They highlight the inclusivity and acceptance found in lifestyle spaces, contrasting it with the often judgmental atmosphere of mainstream

09:03

Swinging As A Solution

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2024/09/10

Can swinging be a solution to marriage issues? Today we talk about a married couple who are having some challenges in their relationship and decided to try something different to see if it could help. The husband suggested they open up their relationship and see other people, which is something completely new and different for them. But what about the fears and concerns that come from that as they explore this new option? Things like insecurity, managing communication, and the importance of

53:46

From Playing Solo to Tik Tok Famous with The Swing...

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2024/09/03

In this episode, we sit down with the dynamic duo from The Swing Nation, Dan and Lacy, to hear about their incredible journey within the lifestyle. We kick things off with a fun chat about how they first met as a unicorn and a bull. Dan and Lacy share the story of their relationship’s evolution from casual encounters to a deep, loving connection, all while navigating the complexities of non-monogamy. We discuss the challenges and triumphs of maintaining an open relationship, including how they

07:30

Different Types of Open Relationships

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2024/08/27

In today's blast from the past episode, John and Jackie discuss different types of Open Relationships. From Swinging Relationships to Myths to Emotional Attachments! This short podcast is the perfect introduction to the different types of Open Relationships! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

20:28

The New Relationship Energy: Embracing Change in Open...

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2024/08/20

In today's episode, we dive into the exhilarating yet sometimes challenging topic of New Relationship Energy (NRE). We discuss the powerful emotions that arise when you meet someone new and how it can impact you and your partner. Whether you're new to open relationships or a seasoned pro, NRE can catch you off guard. We share personal experiences and practical tips to help you understand, embrace, and navigate these feelings with your partner. Join us as we explore how NRE can be a positive

09:23

How We Deal With Discrimination in Our Swingers...

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2024/08/13

John and Jackie answer a follower submitted question in today's episode! "Have You Ever Faced Discrimination in the Swingers Lifestyle?" In today's episode, they discuss their experience with people judging their relationship and how they deal with the stigma that comes from being in a "non-traditional" relationship. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

08:57

Setting Positive Boundaries in Relationships: A New...

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2024/08/06

John and Jackie explore the transformative power of setting boundaries in relationships from a positive perspective. Instead of focusing on what we don't want, we discuss how emphasizing what we are comfortable with can foster a more supportive and exciting partnership. Join us as we share practical tips and personal experiences on creating positive boundaries that enhance intimacy and connection.

09:58

Swinging Lifestyle And Playing Alone

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2024/07/30

John and Jackie sit down in this blast from the past episode and talk about Swinging in the Lifestyle and a few questions they received regarding swinging alone. They share about their journey navigating through the lifestyle and how they have grown as a couple. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

08:12

Single Men At Swingers Clubs (What Not To Do)

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2024/07/16

As owners of lifestyle clubs, we hear all the common complaints from members about single guys, so we figured we make a video and share some things NOT to do as a single male at swingers clubs. AVOID these at all costs if you want to connect and play well with others! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

17:02

Ask John and Jackie: Exploring Dynamics in the...

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2024/07/09

In this episode, John and Jackie tackle various aspects of navigating the swinging lifestyle based on questions from their audience. "How do I deal with the emotional challenges in witnessing my partner's satisfaction with someone else outside group scenarios?" Listen in for practical advice on handling attraction dilemmas, emphasizing communication and individual comfort levels in play situations.

11:43

Open Relationship Workshop - True Sex and Wild Love...

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2024/07/02

We went to an incredible open relationship workshop in Austin, Texas called "True Sex and Wild Love" and here is recap in case you missed it! (And yes we talk about the pink thing.) The event was hosted by Aubrey Marcus, CEO of Onnit, a company that makes and markets nutritional supplements, fitness equipment, and more in the spirit of optimizing human performance, and his fiance Whitney Miller, who is a relationship coach. (And they both happen to be in an open relationship.) The guest speaker at

11:57

Empowering Women in the Lifestyle

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2024/06/25

In this episode, John and Jackie dive into a conversation about the positive impact of the lifestyle on women. Jackie reflects on the acceptance and camaraderie among women in the lifestyle, where competition is replaced by celebration. They explore how consensual non-monogamy can empower women, providing a platform for sexual growth, independence, and breaking free from societal constraints.

12:34

Poly Relationships and How to Get Your Partner Into It

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2024/06/18

Want to have your cake and eat it too? Well, it takes two to tango. But, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. And, that's enough old proverbs (for now) :) Being in a swinging or poly relationship DOES take consent and understanding from all parties involved, but how do you do that? Well, we've got the video for you because that's the question we address today! Let the discussion begin!

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