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The Kink Perspective

The Kink Perspective

The Kink Perspective looks at BDSM through psychology, not performance. It’s an honest examination of power, connection, and what really shapes relationships inside kink, without romanticizing dysfunction or avoiding hard truths. Hosted by Chris C, trauma-focused psychotherapist with more than two decades of lifestyle experience. Donate Here Direct link for donation: https://donate.stripe.com/aEU4hz39QaFG3Mk9AG

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00:22:10

Season 3 Episode 47 - BDSM and The Double-Edged Sword...

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2024/11/19

On today's show, I discuss the powerful role of praise in kink dynamics, exploring how it can deepen emotional connections while also addressing the potential pressures it creates. I dive into the fine balance between using praise as a tool for empowerment versus a means of control, offering practical tips for both Dominants and submissives on how to keep praise uplifting rather than limiting. Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are looking

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00:50:56

Season 3 Episode 46 - BDSM and the Middle East...

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2024/11/12

On today’s show, I discuss BDSM in the Middle East, where cultural, religious, and social factors shape how kink is explored. From leading a “dual life” to navigating privacy and trust in hidden communities, I dive into the unique challenges faced by practitioners in countries like Saudi Arabia, UAE, Egypt, and Israel. Despite significant risks, individuals are finding ways to connect, express themselves, and explore their desires.Special thanks to those who contributed their insights from these

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00:24:42

Season 3 Episode 45 - BDSM and Healing Emotional...

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2024/11/05

On today's show, I discuss the often-overlooked struggle for emotional intimacy in BDSM relationships. Join me as I explore the concept of emotional neglect and its impact on our ability to feel wanted and connected. We'll dive into the triggers that can stir up feelings of inadequacy, the weight of past experiences that shape our emotional responses, and the essential practices of self-advocacy and open communication. Whether you're new to BDSM or have been navigating these dynamics for a while,

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00:46:15

Season 3 Episode 44 - BDSM and Kink Dictation and...

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2024/10/29

On today’s show, I’m diving into what happens when outside voices—sometimes even from within the BDSM community—start influencing our personal choices in kink. This episode unpacks how pressures and opinions can quietly shift our boundaries or make us doubt our preferences. I’ll talk about reclaiming agency, staying true to what genuinely fulfills us, and how to shut out the noise while prioritizing respect and consent. It’s all about finding freedom and authenticity in your own kink

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00:31:34

Season 3 Episode 43 - BDSM and Rules for...

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2024/10/22

On this episode, I discuss the complexities of supporting couples through divorce and the importance of establishing rules for disengagement across different relationship dynamics. We’ll explore the emotional roller coaster that comes with transitions, how to offer meaningful support to those navigating change, and practical tips for setting healthy boundaries. Whether you're in the BDSM community or simply interested in relationship dynamics, this episode offers insights that can help us all

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00:25:40

Season 3 Episode 42 - BDSM and Burnout...

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2024/10/15

On this episode, I discuss burnout in the BDSM lifestyle—how to recognize the signs, why it happens, and practical steps to handle it. Whether you're feeling disconnected from your scenes or just overwhelmed, I've got insights to help you navigate these challenges and rekindle your passion. Join me as we explore how to take care of yourself and maintain a healthy relationship with your kink.Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are looking

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00:27:20

Season 3 Episode 41 - BDSM and the Role of Emotional...

The Kink Perspective ·

2024/10/08

In this episode, I dive into the connection between emotional processing and power exchange in BDSM. I'll break down how understanding our emotions can help strengthen trust, communication, and connection in kink. Plus, I share some practical tips for building emotional awareness so both partners can better navigate their desires and boundaries. Whether you're new to BDSM or have been in the lifestyle for a while, this episode offers insights to deepen your dynamic. Don't forget to hit the follow

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00:35:00

Season 3 Episode 40 - BDSM and Sexual Shame...

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2024/10/01

On this episode, I discuss the complex interplay between BDSM and sexual shame. We explore how societal norms can create barriers to embracing one’s sexuality, the impact of guilt and stigma, and the importance of open dialogue in the BDSM community. Through insights and observations, I highlight strategies to navigate these challenges and encourage listeners to foster a more accepting perspective towards their desires and identities. Join the conversation as we work to dismantle misconceptions and

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02:02:30

Season 3 Episode 39 - My discussion with Honeybeeeee...

The Kink Perspective ·

2024/09/23

On this episode I chat with the one and only Honeybeeeee. We cover everything from her life and family to her personal pursuits and her unique take on BDSM. With plenty of laughter, insight, and real talk, Honeybeeeee opens up about her experiences and what the lifestyle means to her. It's a laid-back, genuine conversation that touches on the highs and lows of her journey. Relax, tune in, and enjoy the ride!Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find

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00:39:44

Season 3 Episode 38 - BDSM and Navigating Polyamory...

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2024/09/17

On today's show, I am discussing the complexities for a new couple entering polyamory, from the initial excitement to the real-life challenges that come with navigating multiple relationships. I’ll explore the importance of communication, setting boundaries, managing emotions, and offer tips for those considering or currently exploring polyamorous dynamics. Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are looking for a therapist that is

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00:26:10

Season 3 Episode 37 - BDSM and Emotional...

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2024/09/10

On today’s show, I dive into the complex issue of emotional unavailability, a challenge that can affect both vanilla and lifestyle relationships. Discover how to recognize the signs of emotional unavailability, whether in yourself or a partner, and explore practical steps for improving emotional connection. From self-awareness and open communication to personal growth and resilience, this episode offers valuable insights for fostering deeper, more meaningful relationships. Don't forget to hit

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00:24:00

Season 3 Episode 36 - Isolating Partners...

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2024/09/03

On this episode I discuss into the complex dynamics of controlling relationships and the isolating tactics used by partners to undermine your autonomy. I explore how seemingly caring behaviors can mask deeper issues of control rooted in insecurity and past experiences. Learn to recognize the signs of coercive control and isolation, and understand the profound impact these behaviors can have on your mental and emotional well-being. I also discuss practical steps for addressing control, including

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00:28:37

Season 3 Episode 35 - BDSM and Personal...

The Kink Perspective ·

2024/08/27

On this episode, I discuss the critical role of personal responsibility within kink dynamics. I explore why it's essential to take ownership of our actions and how failing to do so can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, and hindered personal growth. Drawing from psychological insights, I examine the tendency to blame others and the impact this has on our relationships and self-awareness. Join me as I break down the importance of personal responsibility in creating healthier, more fulfilling

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02:29:15

Season 3 Episode 34 - Women, Kink, Politics and more,...

The Kink Perspective ·

2024/08/20

On this episode I’m joined by Stormy and Raven, two incredible women from the Fetlife community who bring a refreshing dose of honesty and humor to our conversation. We dive into how their political views shape their experiences within the BDSM lifestyle and tackle misconceptions about women in kink.Stormy and Raven keep it real, blending wit with straightforwardness in a way that makes this conversation both eye-opening and fun. They offer a unique take on the intersection of gender, politics, and

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00:28:50

Season 3 Episode 33 - BDSM and Vanilla Partners...

The Kink Perspective ·

2024/08/13

On this episode, I discuss how to introduce vanilla partners to the world of kink. Navigating this conversation can be both exciting and delicate, as it involves bridging different perspectives on intimacy and pleasure. I delve into understanding what it means to be "vanilla," address common concerns and misconceptions, and explore practical strategies for starting these discussions with empathy and care. We’ll also cover how to manage reactions, set boundaries, and ensure that both

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00:26:59

Season 3 Episode 32 - BDSM and Jealousy in Dynamics...

The Kink Perspective ·

2024/08/06

On this episode, I discuss the complex emotion of jealousy within BDSM dynamics. Explore how jealousy impacts both Dominants and submissives, and discover strategies for managing these feelings effectively. From fostering open communication and setting boundaries to reinforcing trust, learn how to turn jealousy into an opportunity for deeper connection and growth.Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are looking for a therapist that is

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00:39:55

Season 3 Episode 31 - BDSM and Disposable...

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2024/07/30

On this episode, I discuss disposable relationships and their profound impact on individuals and the BDSM community. I talk about what makes a relationship feel disposable, explore the traits and motivations of those who treat others as expendable, and examine the emotional and psychological damage caused by such dynamics. We’ll also cover strategies for healing and moving forward, offering insights into how to reclaim your self-worth and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.Don't

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00:37:15

Season 3 Episode 30 - BDSM and Self vs. Identity...

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2024/07/23

On this episode, I explore the balance between our BDSM roles and our true self. We’ll discuss how getting too absorbed in our BDSM identities can impact our mental and emotional well-being, and provide practical tips for maintaining harmony. Whether you’re a Dominant, submissive, or switch, this episode offers insights to help you stay connected to your core self while enjoying your BDSM experiences.Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you

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Season 3 Episode 29 - BDSM and Long Distance Kink...

The Kink Perspective ·

2024/07/16

On this episode, I discuss the complexities of "Bridging the Distance: Navigating Long-Distance Kink Relationships." Delve into how partners maintain emotional intimacy and explore desires across physical separations, exploring innovative communication tools and the psychological nuances of trust and vulnerability. Discover insights and strategies that redefine intimacy in the digital age, offering a roadmap for fostering fulfilling connections despite geographical boundaries.Don't

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00:37:45

Season 3 Episode 28 - BDSM and CNC...

The Kink Perspective ·

2024/07/09

On this episode, I explore Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) within the BDSM community. I discuss the nuanced definitions, psychological motivations, and therapeutic dimensions of CNC play. Discover how participants negotiate intense scenarios of power dynamics and role-play, exploring taboo desires within a framework of trust and consent and more...Don't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about

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