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Turns Out I"m Into It!

Turns Out I’m Into It is your backstage pass to the world of kink—where curiosity is queen, shame is stripped away, and nothing is off-limits. Hosted by somatic sexologist Harley Rabbit, this podcast delves into the psychology of desire, exploring how BDSM, power dynamics, and play can unlock self-discovery, intimacy, and even healing.From abduction fantasies to shibari, age play to non-monogamy, Harley serves up candid personal stories and juicy interviews with kink experts from around the globe

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27:52

#46: Strength in Darkness - Soothing Trauma with BDSM

Turns Out I"m Into It! ·

2024/03/27

Send us a Text Message.Summary:In this episode, Harley Rabbit concludes the mini-series on degradation play, pain play, and taboo kinks by discussing trauma and its relationship to kink. She addresses the misconception that kink is a symptom of trauma and emphasizes that kink is a normal and healthy expression of human sexuality. Harley explores how kink can play a role in alleviating trauma and discusses two pathways for exploring trauma in kink: repetition with agency and resolution. She pr...

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22:18

#45: The Truth About Turn-Ons

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2024/03/20

Send us a Text Message.SummaryIn this episode, Harley Rabbit explores the concept of arousal beyond romance and challenges the idea that love is the sole source of arousal. She introduces the concept of the four emotional aphrodisiacs: closeness, anxiety, guilt, and anger. Harley shares a personal experience of fulfilling a fantasy and discusses a study on peak erotic experiences. She delves into the connection between negative emotions and arousal, emphasizing the importance of finding a bal...

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26:45

#44: When bad feels really good - kink is NOT abuse

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2024/03/13

Send us a Text Message.SummaryIn this episode, Harley Rabbit explores the difference between abuse and kink. She shares personal stories and examples to illustrate the importance of agency in kink scenes. Harley discusses how agency creates a safe container for exploring negative emotions and sensations, such as embarrassment, anxiety, and pain. She emphasizes the need for consent, negotiation, and boundaries in kink play to ensure the well-being of all participants. Understanding agency is c...

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45:49

#43: EDK Will Denison - Live Sex Shows, Pole Dancing...

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2024/03/06

Send us a Text Message.Today I am starting a new series called Every Day Kinksters. The idea is to interview regular, everyday people, either from Fetlife or wherever, and ask them about their journey - because we all have a story to tell!Today’s episode came about because I was talking to one of my classmates, Will Denison, and he casually mentioned he used to do live sex shows… so of course I stopped him right there, and asked if he would tell his story on my podcast. Thankfully, he agreed!...

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37:28

#42: Advice for new submissives (don't make these...

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2024/02/28

Send us a Text Message.Recently I’ve had quite a few DM’s from subs who are new to kink, but are unsure on how to find a good Dominant partner, and how to stay safe in general. So, I figured this would be a great topic for this week’s podcast!First of all, if you are a sub and you’re just starting out on your kink journey, well done!!! This is an amazing world, and you are going to learn and experience so much more than you could in your vanilla life.That said, I totally get this can be overw...

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#41: The Art of Erotic Photography - Interview with...

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2024/02/21

Send us a Text Message.This week it was my absolute pleasure to speak with artist, kinkster and fet!sh photographer KinkyLens! I know many of you enjoy taking sexy photos of your kinky explorations, and this episode is packed with tips and advice for capturing those magic moments on camera.Len speaks about his experiences, including what it’s like to photograph couples having sx! He shares about his journey in k!nk, beginning with magazine cutouts of lingerie, all the way up to working and te...

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28:15

#40: Is it ok to Fantasize About Someone Else?

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2024/02/14

Send us a Text Message.This question brings up a lot of feelings for the best of us. Maybe the thought of your partner fantasising about someone else feels really icky for you? Or maybe you are like me, and you need to have all sorts of fantasies during sex, but you feel guilty about it, like you’re disconnecting from your partner? In this episode we will discuss the role of fantasy during sex, and hopefully disarm some of these negative feelings. Fantasy is a healthy and normal part of ...

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52:10

#39: Life in the Fast Lane - Talking About Premature...

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2024/02/07

Send us a Text Message.There are many things in life we’d like to happen quickly. The 3 minute planking part of your workout, waiting for the microwave countdown timer, or the last hour of the work day when your partner just texted you an eggplant emoji… Unfortunately, sex usually isn’t one of them. Today’s episode is all about Premature Ejaculation; what it is, and what you can do about it. I was lucky enough to have an anonymous guest offer to be on the show today, and share his h...

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28:48

#38: Why I Told my Mum I was Kinky…

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2024/01/31

Send us a Text Message.There are lots of reasons we keep our kinky lives a secret. For some of us, secrecy is part of the fun! For others, it might be about privacy. But for lots of us, we keep this stuff secret because we are afraid of what others might think, if they knew the truth about us. This creates a source of shame, and leaves us feeling like we have to hide a part of ourselves in order to feel accepted. I recently had an important conversation with my mum, where I told her...

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26:51

#37: Outsourcing Sex: Advice for Opening a Relationship

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2024/01/24

Send us a Text Message.Not everyone is super well matched in the bedroom. You might be an amazing couple, but when it comes to sex you’re just not really compatible. This is the case for a lot of long term couples, but it doesn't have to mean the end of the relationship, or that you have to sacrifice a fulfilling sex life. While there are lots of things couples can do to improve their sexual compatibility, outsourcing sex is also a fantastic option! In today's episode, I will go th...

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19:24

#36: Are Open Relationships Committed?

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2024/01/17

Send us a Text Message.Most of us have grown up in a culture where monogamy is the norm. If you enter a relationship it is pretty much expected that you will be monogamous. But times are changing, and alternative relationship styles like polyamory and open relationships are becoming more popular, and more and more people are becoming more curious about them. I wanted to do an episode specifically about open relationships or ENM (ethically non-monogamous) relationships where I could addre...

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26:08

#35: Top 10 Vetting Questions for new Play Partners

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2024/01/10

Send us a Text Message.Happy new year! If you are wanting to have an exciting year of kinky experiences, it’s likely you might need to do some vetting. So what is vetting? And how do we do it well? Personally, my vetting process could use an update, so I did some research and found my top 10 questions I will be using to vet potential new play partners. (Honestly, I wish I’d known about these years ago).Each person's vetting process will be very different! Feel free to cherry pick fr...

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#34: Embracing Your Inner Child - Age Play with Bear

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2023/12/20

Send us a Text Message.Today we are doing a deep dive into Age Play! I was lucky enough to sit down with Bear, a kinkster from Perth, Western Australia, who is very active in the age play scene over there. Bear is extremely passionate about this space, as you will be able to tell in the interview. He is a little himself, and he also runs workshops and has recently opened up his own physical store Kelmscott, specialising in Little and Pet Play gear. We cover a lot of ground in this c...

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#33: Tied up in a Pool - Not What I Expected!

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2023/12/13

Send us a Text Message.Last night I got to experience something I’ve been wanting to try for a long time - I got to go into my friend's pool and be tied up in ropes! If this sounds super dangerous, that’s because it is! But with careful planning, the right people and knowing your own limits, it is possible to have these experiences in a relatively safe way. In this episode I take you through each step of my first time water bondage experience. I discuss everything from planning the ...

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#32: Extreme Scenes: Understanding Abduction Play...

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2023/12/06

Send us a Text Message.Are you curious about the darker, more extreme or taboo side of kink? I know I certainly am! In this episode we are taking a deep dive into CNC and Abduction play. I was fortunate enough to interview a Fetlifer who goes by the name of Cruciator. Cruciator has decades of experience in kink, and specializes in abduction play and multi day scenes. Although Cruciator clearly has a wealth of knowledge on many aspects of BDSM, In this episode we’ll focus mostly on ...

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#31: Kinks vs Values: Exploring your shadow self

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2023/11/29

Send us a Text Message.Most kinksters (myself included) struggle with shame. One of the reasons for experiencing shame is because what turns us on is often in opposition to our personal values. For example, you might identify as a feminist, and the idea of a dominant / submissive relationship might feel wrong to you - yet for some reason these dynamics turn you on. Or maybe you feel strongly about treating all people with respect, but you’re secretly turned on by the idea of degrada...

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#30: The 3 Dimensions of Sex

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2023/11/22

Send us a Text Message.It’s all well and good if you are into romance and passion - you know, the kind of sex you see in the movies - but what if you're not? What if you don’t fit the mould of socially sanctioned sex? Well many kinksters don’t, and that can lead to feelings of shame, guilt and being abnormal. Although only one very narrow type of sex is usually ever represented in film and TV, the Three Dimensions of Sex teaches us that there are in fact 3 distinct types of sex.In this e...

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#29: You're so perfect, I'm so proud of you! (did I...

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2023/11/08

Send us a Text Message.You are such a good girl / boy. Well done for clicking on this podcast. I’m so proud of you for being curious and wanting to explore kink!In this episode we are talking about praise kink. This has been blowing up on TikTok lately and I thought it would be a fun topic to explore on the show. I discuss what praise kink is, what it looks like and how it might bring more confidence to your sex life! I have lots of stories to share about how praise intersects with my ot...

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#28: Sleep Play - The Gateway Kink to CNC?

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2023/11/01

Send us a Text Message.What is Sleep Play? Well, Sleep Play is a kink where one person is asleep (or pretending to be asleep) while the other person engages in sexual activity with them. For some people, this sounds super creepy! But for others, there are lots of great reasons why Sleep Play can be a fantastic turn on! In this episode we will discuss how Sleep Play may look very different for different people, as well as give you the tools to discuss this kink with your partner(s).I...

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#27: Do you Find it Hard to say "no"?

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2023/10/25

Send us a Text Message.Have you ever found it challenging to utter that two-letter word, "no"? In this episode, I discuss the reasons why saying "no" can be an uphill battle for so many people. I also explore the important role personal boundaries play in nurturing not only your self-worth but also the health of your relationships.I will give you five of my personal favorite strategies to make saying "no" more manageable. This is particularly tailored for those who identify as people-ple...

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