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It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+ Relationships

Lindsay Goodman

It"s Not All Rainbows is a podcast hosted by Lindsay Goodman, a trauma recovery coach & survivor of narcissistic abuse in a queer relationship. Many licensed professionals have called narcissistic abuse "the most severe form of domestic violence" and yet, most survivors of this insidious abuse suffer behind closed doors. Most people, including mental health practitioners and first responders do not understand what this type of abuse can look like and how it can affect survivors. INAR will

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00:15:33

Waiting For The Right Moment To Leave?

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/04/05

In this episode, I talk about how often survivors of abuse wait for the "right moment" to leave their abuser and the pros and cons of doing so. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching/ LGBTQ+ Support Group: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:18:01

ANY Response is an Open Door to An Abuser

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/03/29

In this episode, I talk about how ANY response is an open door to an abusive person. Sometimes it can be tempting to respond "LEAVE ME ALONE" or "I NEVER WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU AGAIN." However, an abusive person will take this as another opportunity. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching/LGBTQ+ Support Group: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:16:25

Do Abusive People Set Boundaries?

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/03/22

In this episode I talk about what it looks like when a haelthy or non-abusive person sets a boundary vs when an abusive person sets a "boundary." Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman LGBTQ+ support group (one Saturday a month): calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:43:21

Interview with Andrew Campbell Author of Not Without...

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2023/03/15

In this episode I interview Andrew Campbell, author of Not Without My Pet, Understanding the Relationship Between Victims of Domestic Violence And Their Pets. You can find Andrew at @amcampbell84 on twitter You can find his book Not Without My Pet here: https://www.amazon.com/Not-Without-Pet-Understanding-Relationship/dp/195626700X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=6ZQKKQDJTO76&keywords=not+without+my+pet&qid=1677855810&sprefix=not+without+my+pet%2Caps%2C204&sr=8-1 My website: thelindsaygoodman.com

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00:21:23

Reverse Hoovering

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/03/08

In this episode I talk about an insidious but easy to spot tactic of abuse: the reverse hoover. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:24:00

Reaching For Comfort Where There is None

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2023/03/01

In this episode, I talk about the way trauma bonded survivors often reach out to their abuser for help and support where there is none. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:16:15

Things My Abuser Said I Would Never Do Without Them

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2023/02/22

In this episode I talk about some of the things that my abuser told me I would never be able to do without them that I'm doing just fine since I left! Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:19:57

Have You Lost Your Voice?

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2023/02/15

In this episode I talk about the difference in how I talked about an unhappy but not abusive relationship vs the abusive relationship while I was in then. Quite often, abuse victims LOSE THEIR VOICES. Have you experienced this? website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:19:19

Their First Move Was PROBABLY Calculated

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2023/02/08

In this episode, I talk about how the first move from your abuser was probably a calculated move on their part rather than a chance encounter. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:25:46

Hoovering Examples From My Screenshots

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2023/02/01

In this episode I read examples of hoovering attempts from my own screenshots of emails/texts from my abuser. Learn to spot hoovering when you see it and RUN. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:16:17

Reading A Letter To My Abuser

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2023/01/25

In this episode, I read a letter I recently found that I had written to my abuser while I was still with them. I talk about gaslighting and trauma bonds and how this letter is a perfect example of both. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:23:32

Am I The Toxic One?

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2023/01/18

MANY survivors of abuse ask themselves "am I the toxic one?" In this episode I talk about why we so often end up feeling this way. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:19:14

Breadcrumbs Can’t Sustain You

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2023/01/11

In this episode I talk about a few of the breadcrumbs I "tolerated" while I was with my abuser and some of the ways you can tell that was indeed breadcrumbing and not a kind gesture. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:22:02

Some Abusers Are DV Experts

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2023/01/04

In this episode, I talk about a personal experience I had (TW: Physical abuse) with an abusive person who had an uncanny interest in psychology and domestic violence. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:17:53

Do Narcissists Have Friends?

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2022/12/28

In this episode, I talk about some of my observations when it comes to abusive people and their "friends." Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:25:42

The Smear Campaign Started Way Before You Left

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2022/12/21

The dreaded smear campaign. Many people are held back from leaving their abuser because they fear the smear campaign. In this episode, I talk about when the campaign actually begins, how it looks, and what to do about it. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: https://calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:46:30

Interview With Trey De La Torre, Survivor of Abuse in...

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2022/12/14

In this episode I interview Trey De La Torre (@iwaslikeyo_trey) about his experience with abuse in a queer relationship. Trey's website: https://treydelatorre.podia.com Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:20:53

Holidays With A Narcissist

It’s Not All Rainbows: Surviving Abusive LGBTQIA+... ·

2022/12/07

In this episode I go into detail about how an abusive person can behave during the holidays. Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:21:39

Should You Share Your Story?

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2022/11/30

In this episode, I talk about a big question survivors face when coming out of an abusive relationship. "Should I share my story?" I dive into some considerations when making this decision, some ways that you may be able to share your experience safely, as well as pros and cons. Website-thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: https://calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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00:22:53

Look Out For THESE Feelings in a New Relationship

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2022/11/23

In this episode I talk about some of the feelings I felt early on in my relationship with my abuser. These can be HUGE red flags! Website: thelindsaygoodman.com 1:1 trauma recovery coaching: calendly.com/thelindsaygoodman --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotallrainbows/support

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