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PODCAST

Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction

Sam Tielemans, LMFT

Break free from pornography and rebuild the trust in your relationship. Hosted by licensed marriage therapist Sam Tielemans, Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction is your go-to podcast for overcoming porn addiction, restoring emotional and sexual intimacy, and healing after betrayal trauma in your marriage. Each episode offers practical tools, relationship advice, and real stories of men and couples navigating the path of porn recovery and restoring your marriage. Whether you’re just starting

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03:45

Mini Episode 1: If You Struggle With Repeated...

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2024/12/02

Welcome to today's first mini episode! I'm testing something new and am going to do a podcast that's less than 5 minutes long that gives you a specific tool to implement or a thought to consider. These will be designed to give you something actionable that you can implement quickly to see changes fast. In today's episode, I share with you a specific thing that you can do if you struggle with personal or relationship setbacks. If you seem to keep hitting the same wall or struggle to maintain

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21:15

172: When He Starts Making Progress, She Gets Scared...

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2024/11/28

Sometimes when a husband is making good progress personally and in the relationship, his wife has fears and doubts:“How can I know that he’s telling the truth?” “What if he’s just gotten better at hiding it?” “it's scary to bring down my wall because I don't wanna get hurt again…” This can be discouraging for both people, especially if a husband really is doing well. He can feel deflated and hopeless thinking that there’s nothing he can do to make things better. In this episode, I share with you

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171: One Step 100 Times vs 100 Steps – The Few Skills...

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2024/11/21

In this episode, I reflect on a powerful moment from a couples counseling session where a wife expressed feeling overwhelmed by the journey ahead.I shared a mindset shift with them: it’s not about 100 steps—it’s one step done 100 times. Inspired by Bruce Lee’s quote about doing 10,000 kicks, rather it's practicing 1 kick 10,000 times, we’ll explore how true progress comes from simplifying and focusing on a few key actions repeated consistently. Join me as we break down the most important

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19:24

170: 3 Step Framework to Solve Problems in Your...

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2024/11/14

A lot of couples feel stagnant on this journey and don’t make the progress that they hope and it’s slow and discouraging.And what I’ve come to recognize as one of the most important aspects of this work is clarity. If you don’t have perfect clarity about what the unresolved issues are, what’s causing them, and how to address them, then progress is slow. Many women feel a lack of security or trust in their marriage because the pornography use hasn’t been resolved. Many husband struggle with urges

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24:08

169: Rebuilding Trust After Pornography Use (Assumed...

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2024/11/07

When a relationship is damaged by pornography use and dishonesty, many couples wonder if it's possible to actually fully rebuild trust again.There are often lots of staggered or trickle disclosures, which caused a lot of damage to the trust. So can it actually be rebuilt again? The answer is yes. But it requires a very specific approach and that's what I want to share with you in today's episode. The more clarity you have about what steps to take and how to rebuild trust, the more you can focus

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23:31

168: The Best Tool to End Fights Faster And Find...

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2024/10/31

Are you and your spouse tired of arguing about the same thing over and over again?Are you feeling stuck not knowing how to find closure and repair the damage of pornography use in your marriage? Most couples get stuck when discussing the pain and hurt they feel and conversations end in fights or distance. In today's episode, I want to share with you, one specific tool that you can implement immediately to have better conversations with each other. And when you know how to have conversations in a

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167: Managing Urges and Triggers vs Being Free From Them

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2024/10/24

When a man struggles with porn pornography use, it can cause a lot discouragement and fear for both him and his wife.So many women live in constant anxiety that the other shoes going to drop and they're gonna get hurt again. Husbands often feel an underlying sense of inadequacy because they haven't been able to quit despite their best efforts to stop. In today's episode, I share with you some specific things you do in order to break out of the negative pattern and find hope of overcoming this

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166: Success Story: Freedom after 30 Years of...

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2024/10/17

Mike struggle with pornography for 30 long years.The feelings of hopelessness and anxiety debilitated him at times because no matter what he did to quit, it just didn’t bring him the freedom he was so desperately seeking. He found this podcast and discovered that there was a new way to approach things after listening to some episodes. He decided to reach out to work with me and he felt an immediate change even after the first call (which he’ll share in the episode). Now that he’s finished with the

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19:35

165: Why He Turned To Porn or Someone Else and Not...

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2024/10/10

When pornography use is discovered in a relationship, it obviously has such a huge impact on a wife.Understandably, she takes it very personal. It makes her question everything about the relationship, him and herself. She'll often and wonder if she good enough for him? Does he actually love her? If so, how could he have done this? What does all of this mean for me and for us? These are very difficult questions that she asks, and it comes from a place of broken trust and security. In the healing

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164: Live Call: Overcoming Inadequacy, Shame, and...

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2024/10/03

Have you ever struggled with feelings of an adequacy or not being accepted?And has that been a trigger for you in the past that has led you down the path towards pornography use? If so, you’re not alone. In fact this is a really common trigger for a lot of guys because feelings of rejection or failure or not being enough create heavy negative emotions that we want to get away from. In this episode, I'm doing a live call with Steve, where we deep dive into his feelings of inadequacy to help him

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20:03

163: How to Soften The Pain of Betrayal Due to...

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2024/09/26

I once worked with a woman who was completely overwhelmed because her husband continued to struggle with pornography use.She was at her wits end. She felt like a ball of anxiety always waiting for the other shoe to drop and could never really feel comfortable in her skin and safe in the relationship. The moment she started to let her guard down it just so happened that he would mess up again. They had been in this loop for the past 10 years of their marriage. When she reached out, she asked me this

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162: The Blueprint For When A Husband Can’t Break The...

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2024/09/19

It's very discouraging for both a husband and wife when a man gets stuck in the cycle of falling back into pornography. Use every few weeks or months. In this situation, a wife feels continual anxiety, just waiting for the other shoe to drop. A husband feels discouragement and hopelessness feeling like he's not making progress despite his best efforts. In this episode, I share with you exactly how to break this cycle for good and how you can create safety in your relationship, knowing that the root

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23:12

161: 3 Relationship Pillars to Help Create Connection...

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2024/09/12

When pornography use is discovered in a relationship it undermines the very foundation and security.It often creates suspicion, fear, uncertainty, and a total lack of security and connection. After having worked with hundreds and hundreds of couples, I want to share with you the three of pillars that I've seen help create connection and security, faster than anything else. For therapy with Sam: I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started

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20:16

160: What If He Secretly Returns to Pornography? How...

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2024/09/05

One of the biggest fears that women have in this process is that her husband will return to pornography since she won't know about it.She’ll bring down her wall, start to trust him again, and then the other shoe will drop and she'll be devastated again. How can she know if he is still stuck in his pattern? If there’s been dishonesty in the past, how can she know if he is telling the truth or not now? It's critical for a husband to demonstrate change in a way that helps her to believe him again

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21:58

159: Struggling to Quit Porn For Good? You're Likely...

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2024/08/29

Have you ever wondered why you haven't been able to quit pornography permanently?Do you feel like you know the tools but just aren't using them in the moment you need them most? If the tools you've been trying to implement haven't brought you freedom yet, you're using the wrong ones. This creates a problem in a relationship as well – A woman can't trust her husband who keeps returning back to pornography, even if he is trying his best. There's nothing wrong with you, it's just the approach that

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158: Success Story: How Kevin Eliminated Pornography...

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2024/08/22

Many couples fear that it's not possible to eliminate pornography use from their lives. Men struggle for decades with urges and temptation without the right tools.This leads them to fall back into old patterns and makes them believe they can't ever quit. Kevin was a man who went through my program and not only got the tools to quit pornography for good, he lost the desire to view it at all. No more temptation. No more urges. This is what freedom looks like. In today's episode, he shares with you

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21:30

157: Build Security Back Into Your Marriage With This...

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2024/08/15

Many couples struggle with feelings of uncertainty and insecurity in their marriage. Years of deception and lying erodes the foundation of trust, and a lack of communication or transparency keep things stuck. In this episode episode, I share a very easy-to-implement tool that can help you to build security in your marriage again. But missing this can keep your wheels spinning in your marriage despite making progress on a personal level. For therapy with Sam: I will work with you for 12 weeks to

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156: Is It Possible to Quit Porn and NEVER Return...

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2024/08/08

Many men and women wonder if quitting porn is actually possible to do or if it's something that just needs to be managed for the rest of their life.The good news: YES! It's 100% possible to quit and never return. In this episode I'll share with you specifically what I've seen work best to help men quit Porn and never return. The more you have about what the underlying problem is, the more the solution becomes obvious. Once you implement those solutions, the old patterns lose their power, which

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21:34

155: If She Stays, She Thinks He’s Just Getting Away...

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2024/08/01

One very difficult hurdle that many women struggle, with is the idea of forgiveness or staying in the relationship with someone who hurt them so much.If she forgives him, does that mean he's getting away with everything? Does it make her feel like she has no dignity left if she stays in the relationship? That she just accepts behavior she completely stands against? In this episode, I share with you a different way to look at the situation to help you feel more comfortable staying in the

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50:42

154: LIVE CALL – How to Resolve Triggers During /...

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2024/07/25

Rebuilding sexual intimacy after damage by pornography can be a challenge for many couples.A wife often has fears and concerns like: How do I know he's not fantasizing when we're intimate? What if he's just using me and I'm being manipulated? I feel inadequate and not attractive enough A husband often wants to know how to help his wife through her triggers and how to restore their intimacy together. In this episode, I meet with a couple live and help them work through these blocks and know what

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