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The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

Traver Boehm

For people who see through the veil of the civilized paradigm.

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00:16:04

My two best techniques for building an incredible...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/07/01

Last week I talked about getting your vision board to become your reality and closing the gap between the life you want to be living and the life you are living.AND — many of you reached out and asked for techniques that you can use if you don’t have a community around you and you can’t afford to hire a coach or a consultant. I get it. In this short solo episode I share my two favorite techniques for building an amazing life — ones I still use to this day. Enjoy. Please do share this with one

00:14:00

Do you need permission to live the life you want to —...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/06/24

In my experience of over twenty years of coaching humans, most of you will get stuck in one place — needing permission.Whether that’s to write your book, start your business, or even just be the healthiest one in your family, permission is a big wall for many people to climb. And — it may not be the only wall. In this short, potent solo episode I break down the three reasons why most people don’t achieve their dreams and how you can start to change that immediately. Enjoy. Please do share this

01:02:00

Art, Jiujitsu, and the UNconventional Life with Chris...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/06/17

Chris Haueter is one of the dirty dozen — the first 12 non Brazilian, Brazilian Jiujitsu Black Belts. He’s also a philosopher poet, an incredible historian, and a teacher. He’s also my old instructor and my old corner man. In this episode we get to catch up after nearly two decades and Chris shares his thoughts on a number of topics including how he built a life around teaching the art he loves. Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. Cheers, Traver Take our free

00:32:17

Developing these attributes will change your life...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/06/10

After coaching humans for over 20 years through the good times and the challenges of their lives, I know people and what helps us get past our blocks, our heartbreaks, and our limiting beliefs.In this solo episode I’ll break down the six attributes I feel you need to either get through a hard time, or engage in a challenging endeavor like building a business, learning to surf, or creating the UNcivilized life of your dreams. They are: —Resilience — Tenacity — Faith — Curiosity — Humor —

00:45:19

LIVE coaching session — Permission to go for it

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/06/03

This week I have something special for you, I’ve recorded a live coaching session with one of the Kill The Nice Guy graduates. This episode is for you if you’ve ever struggled with the idea that you need permission to live life on your terms, to build what you want to build, and to go for something big. On the call is a young man named JC who’s struggling to go against the conditioning he grew up with to play it safe, “get a good job,” and do what’s reasonable. Here at UNcivilized we have no place

00:15:17

How to best support a man on his path — w/ Traver Boehm

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/05/27

I get asked this question all the time so let’s dive into it. There are amazing ways you can support your man as he begins therapy, men’s work, or any other path to higher consciousness and healing.I’ve worked with thousands of men over the years and know these three points are crucial to being there for your man, without letting it take over your own life. Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. Cheers, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "No

00:44:35

LIVE coaching session — Why having poor boundaries...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/05/20

This week I again have something special for you, a recorded live coaching session with one of the Kill The Nice Guy graduates. This episode is for you if you’ve ever struggled with anger and don’t see the connection between having loose or porous boundaries — and the resentment and anger that naturally builds up. On the call is a man named Kevin who gives and gives and gives and also has a lot of built up anger for the people in his life who end up leaving. This is such a common experience for all

00:15:12

If you’re using anything to escape your life, listen...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/05/13

At the root of most addictive behavior is a deep dissatisfaction with one or many areas of a man’s life. I know because it wasn’t long ago that I needed to escape from my life multiple times a day with alcohol, marijuana, porn, exercise and work. Just to name a few. In this episode I share with you the ROOT of this challenge and give you a frame for your life as a man. One that will create the type of life you don’t want to escape from. It’s not magic but it works. Enjoy. Please do share this with

00:15:56

You’re allowed to leave any relationship — with...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/05/06

This past month I’ve been on the phone with far too many men who are stuck in bad relationships — and refuse to leave them. Why? Because they’ve made it some sort of badge of honor to stay and suffer rather than leave and start over. In this episode I break down how you can shift areas of your marriage or relationship, and then why it’s more than okay, no matter what society tells you, to seek your happiness elsewhere. Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in your life, or

00:18:01

The 4B Movement, Passport Bros, and The UNcivilized...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/04/29

In this fiery solo episode I break down The 4B Movement coming out of South Korea, The Passport Bro Movement here in the US, and the wildly needed UNcivilized Relationship Paradigm.This episode is going to upset a lot of folks because, well, I’m in support of both movements despite the massive implications they will have societally. And I see them both as canaries in the relationship coal mine indicative of massive changes that need to come forward. AND — at the end I outline a new way of

00:11:44

Nickelodeon, P Diddy, and Andrew Huberman — with...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/04/22

What a crazy month in the civilized world, huh? Who ever would have thought such juggernauts as Nickelodeon, P Diddy, AND Andrew Huberman would come to light for being toxic and horrible — at the same time. For us at UNcivilized, this is a sign that the civilized veil is falling, truth is emerging, and as men — it’s time for us to deal with what’s in our own shadowy closets. In this solo episode I talk about what I see and most importantly, how you can make positive changes in your own life because

00:20:33

Nice Guys —why trying to belong is strangling your...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/04/15

I’ve often talked about and taught the notion of Attachment vs Authenticity when it comes to Nice Guy work. And the idea of attachment is real — but it’s taken me a few years of working with it and hearing about it quite often for it truly to stick.Thus I’m now shifting to talking about Belonging vs Authenticity — especially with but not exclusive to Nice Guys. In this short solo episode I break down why your need to belong may be strangling you of your authentic expression and I give you three

00:12:52

UNcivilized masculinity vs Traditional masculinity...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/04/08

An Instagram follower asked me the difference between aspects of Traditional Masculinity and our UNcivilized Masculinity and rather than write him back a novel, I decided to record this solo episode for you.In it, I jump right to the point and outline what’s great about Traditional Masculinity and — what needed to be upgraded about it. Thus the creation of UNcivilized Masculinity. I outline what makes us different and why…key word — relationship. Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in your

01:00:44

Francis Weller — Living a soulfully UNcivilized life.

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/04/01

Francis Weller has been an inspiration for me for years now. The way he speaks and shares his work around initiation and living a soulful life hits me in my core. It stops my frantic mind and makes me feel like the world is going to be okay…even if it may not be.In this episode I get to sit down with Francis and have a frank conversation about men, about getting in touch with our deeper parts, and with what we need to do to make sure we as a species don’t got extinct. You know, light fluffy

00:15:27

Three massive changes I’ve had from men’s work with...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/03/25

In this short and punchy solo episode, I answer another question from Instagram:“What were the most transformative parts of men’s work for you?” I dive into the top three for you so you can decide for yourself if these are pieces you want to try on yourself. Outgrowing substances like alcohol, weed, and porn Getting to be authentically me in men’s groups Having Michael Gay say, “Set the tone…” and turning the embodiment lightbulb on Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in your life, or

00:16:05

Where to begin your men’s work journey with Traver...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/03/18

Last week I was on a call with a man who asked me this profound question, “Where do I begin my men’s work journey? There are so many places I can start from?”In this episode I break down a great starting point for you if you’re about to embark on your men’s work journey, or where to return to if you’ve currently been on a break and aren’t sure where to pick back up.I also share a new frame for you that takes the edge and anxiety out of how overwhelming the decision may be. Enjoy.Please do share

00:18:52

What to do when you struggle finding your purpose...

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/03/11

In this short solo episode, I break down the two main blocks I see when people try to figure out their purpose.Knowing why you’re here and what you’re here to do is a BIG deal. And being stuck without knowing either can lead to a lot of undue suffering. This episode will help ease that suffering and give you a path forward when you’re in between major chapters of your life. Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. Cheers, Traver If you look at the civilized world and

00:16:51

Failure to Launch

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/03/04

I actually did walk through the woods to go to school, and sometimes it was freezing. I figured out pretty early on that there are a lot of guys who get things handed to them where I didn't. I also figured out I wasn't the smartest but I had the willingness and ability to outwork just about anybody. But we all had one thing in common.Failure to launch. We all hit "failure to launch" in our lives, multiple times. The way you get out of that rut is... Listen to this podcast. And

00:09:01

Advanced Concepts — Space holding vs Selfishness

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/02/26

After BDSM teacher Andy Buru came into The UNcivilized Nation and dropped this notion for all of us, I’ve been seeing how potent of an idea this is — balancing space holding and selfishness actually is. AND how confronting it is for so many people to lean into the one that’s not their natural way.In this short solo episode I break down why being able to do both will change your sex life, your income, and your relationships at large. Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in your life, or

00:38:13

Duey Freeman — What men fear most is being afraid.

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm ·

2024/02/19

This is an important episode and please stay to the end of it where we go into a depth we never planned on. Last week Duey quoted a book he’s reading about how men mostly fear the experience of being afraid. I put my knife and fork down and asked him to tell me more. As he did, I knew we had to record this episode and share it with you all. It starts a bit slow but then we get into hard hitting concepts that you can use to shift your life immediately. Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in

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