Always Never Right

The one where you find out why we think self-care is very important for everyone, but maybe especially women. Long story short - Alone time is invaluable to parents.  And Retta and Aziz Ansari were totally onto something when it came to self care. If you'd like to share a cocktail with us while we chat, we're having an Aviation cocktail, and we learn Gillian still really, really hates gin, while Gina (gin's in her name, after all) feels guiltier and guiltier. You can get the recipe at

The one where you hear about a little of what we think is funny, regardless of whether it should be or not. Like, Gina's mom punching someone at a funeral, Gillian's mom insisting there's an entire country that uses apricots as currency, and dinosaur porn. If you'd like to share a cocktail with us while we chat, we're having a Jam Bramble tonight, because "Jam Bramble" sounds funny. You can get the recipe at AlwaysNeverRight.com You can also find the recipes - and us! - on our social media

The one where you find out that anxiety is normal and it’s okay to fizz out. All right, y'all.  Buckle up.  This is a toughy.  Gina talks about what it was like growing up as a walking giant stress chihuahua and living life with generalized anxiety disorder.  And not all of it is pretty.  So .... CONTENT WARNING ... We get into, among other things, self-harm and sexual assault.  If listening to this will cause you issues, do not listen.  We hate to get all down in the dumpa on ya, but at the same

The one where we let you know that no matter what, we know florals are best in upholstery, bouquets, and cocktails. Like we said before, we've both lost a lot of weight. That has made dressing and shopping INCREDIBLY OVERWHELMING AAHHHH!!!!  So, listen for some advice and some panic about underwear.  Drinks highly recommended. If you'd like to have this week's cocktail with us while we chat - the Black Orchid - get the recipe at alwaysneverright.com! You can also find the recipes - and us! -

The one where you learn if we are too old for winged eyeliner, message tees and fun hair colors. BONUS— Gina confesses her Goth transgressions from the 80s. Okay, so Gina never went full goth. But the fact she THOUGHT about it. If you'd like to have this week's cocktail with us while we chat - the Black Manhattan - get the recipe at alwaysneverright.com! You can also find the recipes - and us! - on our social media

The one where you find out why Stick and DB are asses. Okay, we acknowledge that in THEIR stories, WE'RE the villains.  But they aren't doing this podcast, are they?  We are!  So you get our sides. Which are ... opinionated.  And dare I say quite valid. But our kids, ah, our sweet babies!  They're awesome.  And they make the exes worth it.  But damn, you know that whole, "Don't put your relationship issues on your child?" thing you have to do during and post divorce?  There are days you have to go

The one where you find out why we know that we can do anything. Yeah, we've both had bariatric surgery, for varying reasons, but both with great results.  We talk about what led to us these decisions, and how we've adjusted to the new lifestyles. You can find the recipe fot this week's cocktail - The Witty Comeback - on our website if you'd like to have a drink with us while we chatter on about this pretty major life decision.  Cocktails take the edge of the seriousness.  Which you can tell,

The one where you find out how Gina’s old-fashioned childhood has influenced her professional style. Welcome to our podcast!  Always Never Right is a podcast for Gen Xers entering middle age who want to know, what the f*ck?  Gillian Farrell and Gina Biggs have been slogging through with various levels of success. This is very much an introductory episode, so you can begin to get to know us.  And since it's our first, it's messy.  But that's us, so have fun! Fair warning, we cuss a lot. We