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Dr Corey and Pam Allan

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28:27

Attachment Styles and Cycles | Dr Laurie Watson #665

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2024/02/28

In this conversation, Dr Laurie Watson joins me as we discuss the dynamics of relationships and how they can impact sexual intimacy. We explore the misconceptions and expectations that couples often bring into therapy, as well as the triggers and defensive mechanisms that can lead to negative cycles.We also discuss the importance of recognizing patterns and understanding attachment styles in order to create healthier relationships. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the need for communication,

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40:23

Yes, But … #664

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2024/02/21

This week we discuss the impact of trauma on reactions and responses in marriage. An email from a listener points out she felt that trauma was not adequately addressed last week. We explore more how both partners are responsible for their reactions and responses, and that there is no hierarchy of pain. We also discuss the importance of regaining a sense of safety in the relationship and the need for both partners to work on themselves. Takeaways Both partners are responsible for their reactions and

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35:07

More Destructive: His Porn Or Her Reaction? #663

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2024/02/14

Today let's explore the impact of reactions and perceptions in relationships, specifically in the context of discovering pornography usage. There are lots of complexities with the aspects of honesty, trustworthiness, fear, and shame. Like how others perceive us, the importance of acknowledging others, the reactions to the discovery of pornography usage, motivations for lying, managing fear and shame, breaking the cycle of fear and reaction, recognizing the scripts we carry forward, and seeking

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28:40

Get Past Your Past | Jason VanRuler #662

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2024/02/07

In this conversation, I'm joined by Jason Van Ruler as we discuss the importance of addressing past wounds and traumas in order to move forward in life and relationships. We talk about the concept of scripts and how our past experiences shape the narratives we tell ourselves. Learn more about Jason here - https://www.jasonvr.com/ Takeaways Addressing past wounds and traumas is essential for personal growth and healthy relationships. Scripts, formed by past experiences, shape the way we perceive

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37:22

Who’s Responsible For Whose Orgasm? #661

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2024/01/31

In today's episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the truth about pressures in marriage and sex. We explore the dynamics of power distribution in sexual relationships and the responsibility each partner has for their own pleasure. We also dive into the impact of how we relate to our sexuality and the importance of facing responsibility and making conscious choices. The overall goal? Have open and honest conversations about your sexual relationship and to take ownership of your own

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34:31

The Truth About Pressures In Sex #660

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2024/01/24

In today's episode, we continue the discussion on the topic of mercy sex and the pressures and obligations that can arise in marriage. Let's explore the impact of religious beliefs and family of origin on sexuality, and the importance of peeling away layers and developing new ones to create a more fulfilling sex life. So what are the practical steps for dealing with pressure and obligation, shifting responsibility, and finding your voice? Takeaways Pressure and obligation can arise in marriage, and

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45:58

Busyness and Unhealed Trauma | John Eldredge #659

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2024/01/17

In this conversation, John Eldredge joins me as we discuss the impact of busyness and unhealed trauma on relationships. John brings up the concept of inner ages and how unresolved childhood trauma can surface in adult relationships. It is important to create space for our younger selves and having honest conversations about the needs and fears that arise. We also discuss the fragility of the world and how it can affect individuals and relationships. Learn more from John here -

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33:34

Mercy Sex In Marriage #658

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2024/01/10

In this episode, we discuss the concept of mercy sex in a marriage. What are the characteristics of mercy sex and the impact it has on both the lower desire and higher desire spouses? We also discuss the pressure to have sex and how it affects the dynamics of a relationship. As well as a discussion on how to move from mercy sex to freely chosen sex, where both spouses are actively participating and enjoying the experience. Takeaways Mercy sex is characterized by a lack of initiation, a distaste for

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34:23

The Search For Intimacy #657

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2024/01/03

In this episode, we address some of the feedback from last week's episode about a husband losing attraction to his wife. We explore the impact of such revelations on men and women - is there a difference in how it impacts each gender - and we explore the concept of facing dilemmas and making choices in relationships. The key here is the importance of self-validation and differentiation in personal growth. That is the best way to achieve relational growth as well. Takeaways Accept and love family

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29:49

My Husband Doesn’t Desire Me #656

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2023/12/27

In today's episode, we dive into a listener's question about a lack of desire in her marriage. After working through the Our Intimate Choices worksheet, the husband shared he has no desire or attraction towards his wife. What does she do now? It's important she faces the truth of the system and begins recognizing the underlying dynamics. In this process it is imperative she recognizes the importance of separating self-worth from a spouse's opinion and works to make choices that align with her

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30:12

Overcome Destructive Anger | Natalie Hixon #655

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2023/12/20

The 2024 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway is June 13-15, 2024. Register now. On the Regular Version ... Natalie Hickson joins me as she shares her mission of helping moms overcome anger and anxiety in motherhood and marriage. We discuss the challenges of transitioning into parenthood and the triggers that can lead to destructive anger. Natalie emphasizes the importance of recognizing and expressing anger in a healthy way, and she dives into the SIT and PRAY method. We also explore the concept of anger as

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32:16

How Do I Flirt With My Spouse? #654

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2023/12/13

Today we discuss the topic of flirting in relationships. Plus, let's explore the concept of 'good naked' and 'bad naked' and how it can impact erotic energies. It is important to maintain energy and tension in your relationship. One way to do this is through the process of flirting with your spouse. How you ask? We go over several tips today - including being congruent with who you are, using playful teasing, complimenting each other, and showing genuine interest. We also discuss the role of body

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30:10

No-Nut November May Be Dangerous #653

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2023/12/06

Today we discuss the Our Intimate Choices worksheet, a communication tool designed to facilitate conversations about boundaries, preferences, and comfort levels in a couple's sex life. We also touch on holiday etiquette and the role of sex toys as stocking stuffers. It is important to have open and honest communication in marriage and the benefits of using tools like the Our Intimate Choices worksheet can enhance both intimacy and understanding between spouses. Takeaways Be aware of your

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32:13

Is Sex A Normal Function? #652

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2023/11/29

Come join the conversations in the SMRNation Community at my.smr.fm The 2024 Passionately Married Getaway is June 13-15, 2024. Register now. On the Regular Version ... Today we revisit a segment from the archives - A wife wants to know more how to help her husband and his struggle with pornography usage. A husband wants to know how to talk about sex more with his wife - who was raised by her grandfather and never taught anything about the subject, even how to talk about it. On the Xtended Version

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51:21

Your Brain On Sex | Dr Emily Nagoski #651

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2023/11/22

The 2024 Passionately Married Getaway is June 13-15, 2024. Register now. Everyone gets the full show ... We revisit a conversation with Dr Emily Nagoski, about how sex works in your brain. There is updated science, so she updated her work. What changed? Listen to find out. Learn more about Dr Nogowski here - https://www.emilynagoski.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Honeylove: Get Up to 60% OFF @honeylove by going to https://honeylove.com/passion! #honeylovepod Academy: Join the Academy and go

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35:11

What Money Means | Bill Nelson #650

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2023/11/15

The 2024 Passionately Married Getaway is June 13-15, 2024. Register now. On the Regular Version ... I'm joined by Bill Nelson, a Certified Financial Planner and Certified Financial Therapist. We dive into the world of money and marriage and meanings. Learn more about Bill here - https://pacesetterplanning.com/ On the Xtended Version ... Pam and I discuss our take our takeaways from the conversation with Bill. It's all about the meanings of things - not the things. Enjoy the show! Sponsors

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35:38

Connection Codes | Dr Glenn and Phyllis Hill #649

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2023/11/08

Come join the conversations in the SMRNation Community at my.smr.fm The 2024 Passionately Married Getaway is June 13-15, 2024. Register now. On the Regular Version ... I'm joined my Dr Glenn and Phyllis Hill as we walk through their marriage tool for deeper connection and conversation. You can learn more about the Connection Codes and pick up the 4 Minute Tool here - https://connectioncodes.co/passionatelymarried On the Xtended Version ... Pam and I discuss our take on the Connection Codes tool

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29:01

What If I Married The Wrong Person? #648

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2023/11/01

Come join the conversations in the SMRNation Community at my.smr.fm The 2024 Passionately Married Getaway is June 13-15, 2024. Register now. On the Regular Version ... Why do people get married? Let's explore several reasons and motivations. Plus, what do we most often expect from our marriage and life as it pertains to others? On the Xtended Version ... Can you marry the wrong person? Is this even the best question to ask? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper with

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32:29

Sorry Not Sorry #647

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2023/10/25

Come join the conversations in the SMRNation Community at my.smr.fm The 2024 Passionately Married Getaway is June 13-15, 2024. Register now. On the Regular Version ... Apologies are a part of every life and relationship. But what about the times when we think we're apologizing but we're really not? We listen into a recent mastermind group call where the guys are talking about saying I'm sorry and addressing the hurt. On the Xtended Version ... We unpack the first segment a little more, then jump

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51:28

Resentment Revisited #646

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2023/10/18

Everyone gets both versions again ... Today we revisit a conversation from the archives. I’m joined by colleague Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and we talk about the marriages where everything seems to be great – except in one area. What’s happening here? Plus, how do you address resentment in marriage and life? Learn more about Dr Jennifer here – https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... HoneyLove: Get 20% OFF @honeylove + Free Shipping at https://honeylove.com/passion

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