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Episode 585: Women are dirty (understanding their...

PsycHacks ·

2026/01/05

Pre-order my new book: https://amzn.to/4oZUgpa Contrary to popular belief, women are not made of sugar and spice. Their sexual fantasies are far more devious and socially unacceptable than most people realize. By examining women's prototypical romantic fantasy, we can approach an understanding of their dark desires – an analysis corroborated by many examples hidden in plain sight. Women are dirty: make of it what you will. Join my community: https://the-captains-quarters.mn.co Buy my book, "The

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10:00

Episode 584: Become a monster (owning your darkness)

PsycHacks ·

2026/01/02

Pre-order my new book: https://amzn.to/4oZUgpa You are the monster you a running from in your nightmares. How could it be otherwise? Shadow work is the process of owning your darkness and integrating it into your conscious personality. The impulses and desires we disavow tend to become the evils we project into the world. You can either become a monster – or be hunted by the monsters of your own making. Join my community: https://the-captains-quarters.mn.co Buy my book, "The Value of Others" Ebook:

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10:26

Episode 583: Staying at home (no one wants to do it)

PsycHacks ·

2025/12/29

Pre-order my new book: https://amzn.to/4oZUgpa For the last few decades, both men and women have been trying to talk the opposite sex into staying at home with the kids. However, if this were as wonderful as both sides make it out to be, then each would be clamoring to do so themselves. The fact is that no one wants to do it, because staying at home is associated with certain challenges that many adults are ill-prepared to meet. It's time we move beyond the propaganda – on both sides. Join my

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10:46

Episode 582: Women walking away (are men to blame?)

PsycHacks ·

2025/12/26

Pre-order my new book: https://amzn.to/4oZUgpaThe results are in: women are more dissatisfied in their relationships than men are. However, before we interpret this as yet another signal that men need to “do better,” we need to ask ourselves: are women more satisfied out of their relationships? In reality, there is a host of evidence to suggest that women exhibit lower satisfaction than men in a variety of contexts – suggesting that their relationships may not be the issue. Are men to blame for

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14:48

Episode 581: Sex and attention (the most reinforcing...

PsycHacks ·

2025/12/22

Pre-order my new book: https://amzn.to/4oZUgpaThe most reinforcing good you can give to a man is sex, and the most reinforcing good you can give to a woman is attention. This asymmetry is responsible for the power imbalances in many exclusive relationships, in which women typically eliminate their competition, but retain their optionality. Fairness and equality aren't the same thing – and what's good for the goose isn't always what's good for the gander. In this episode, I examine the role that sex

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14:28

Episode 580: Modern women (you can't have it both ways)

PsycHacks ·

2025/12/19

Pre-order my new book: https://amzn.to/4oZUgpaIn the wake of the death of the lady, we see the rise of modern women. Today's women are attempting to secure the benefits associated with both of their roles in the historical sexual marketplace without any of the liabilities – and this is creating a host of intersexual misunderstandings. The truth is that you can't have it both ways – irrespective of whether you're a man or a woman. However, for a variety of reasons, this isn't going to change anytime

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13:48

Episode 579: Death of the lady (where are all the...

PsycHacks ·

2025/12/15

Pre-order my new book: https://amzn.to/4oZUgpaModern women ask “where are all the real men?” However, to answer this question, we need to look through the lens of the traditional sexual marketplace and the historical divide between “ladies” and “prostitutes.” Learn how these roles shaped male behavior, female strategy, and the rise (and fall) of chivalry. The death of the lady has ushered in the contemporary sexual marketplace. First in a two-part episode. Join my community:

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12:45

Episode 578: Is having a boyfriend embarrassing?...

PsycHacks ·

2025/12/12

Pre-order my new book: https://amzn.to/4oZUgpaIs it really cringe for women to have boyfriends now? In today's episode, I respond to Vogue's viral article (“Is having a boyfriend embarrassing now?”) and explain why the trend against relationships isn't quite as empowered as it seems. Learn how social validation, political ideology, and intrasexual competition shape what women are told to value. The truth is single is not a flex. Join my community: https://the-captains-quarters.mn.co Buy my book,

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10:45

Episode 577: Get better (advice for men)

PsycHacks ·

2025/12/08

Pre-order my new book: https://amzn.to/4oZUgpaTelling men to “get better” is vague, moralistic, and (typically) rooted in frameworks that prioritize women's needs and desires. However, men can – and should – get better. In today's episode, I argue that men get better by becoming stronger, richer, and more attractive – as these things might be the closest we get to inherent goods. Ignore the voices pushing weakness and decline. Invest in yourself and watch your world transform. This is my advice for

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10:45

Episode 576: She takes and takes (why he feels used)

PsycHacks ·

2025/12/05

Pre-order my new book: https://amzn.to/4oZUgpaSome men complain to me about their women: “she takes and takes.” However, the real problem in the relationship is that he gives and gives. This is why he feels used. In this episode, I discuss how poor boundaries, emotional discomfort, and scarcity mentality all conspire to make men complicit in their own relational resentment. Cultivate abundance – and the optionality it passively generates – and you'll watch many of these issues disappear. Join my

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12:07

Episode 575: The ring test (love and business)

PsycHacks ·

2025/12/01

Pre-order my new book: https://amzn.to/4oZUgpaThe ring test is one that I would encourage every man seriously considering marriage to conduct, as it will expose a woman's true motivations for wedlock – and your own latent romanticism. Marriage is not about love. Marriage is a business contract that is primarily concerned with the ownership and distribution of resources. Before you propose, ask the only questions that really matter: “Can I afford her?” and “Is she worth it?” In love and business,

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10:38

Episode 574: How to find yourself (understanding what...

PsycHacks ·

2025/11/28

Pre-order my new book: https://amzn.to/4oZUgpaFinding yourself is not something that people do, once and for all. This is because we are always in the process of becoming who we are. At these moments of reflection, it's important to know how to find yourself. The key is understanding what you really want and developing the capacity to understand the feedback provided by your emotions when they come into contact with experience. If you fill yourself with activities and relationships that support you

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10:28

Episode 573: Body count (beyond the number)

PsycHacks ·

2025/11/24

Pre-order my new book: https://amzn.to/4oZUgpaMany men obsess over a woman’s “body count.” But the truth is that men will never learn the truth – and what they do learn won't reassure them. In this episode, I discuss why digging into a woman's sexual history is generally not a good idea, and why body count is an imperfect proxy for purity, loyalty, and long-term compatibility. It's time that men move beyond the number. Join my community: https://the-captains-quarters.mn.co Buy my book, "The Value

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10:20

Episode 572: The love trap (she can't fix you)

PsycHacks ·

2025/11/21

Many men believe that a woman's love will fill the emptiness inside of them – but it can't. This is the love trap. The bitter truth is that you can't feel another person's love. You can only feel your own love coming out of you. Consequently, it's a good idea for men to heal this emptiness on their own – through purpose, faith, and action. She can't fix you.Join my community: https://the-captains-quarters.mn.co Buy my book, "The Value of Others" Ebook: https://amzn.to/460uGrA Audiobook:

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10:48

Episode 571: How relationships work (on value)

PsycHacks ·

2025/11/17

In today's episode, I discuss the fundamental truths with respect to how relationships are created and maintained. It all centers on value. It is neither the good nor the loving nor the virtuous who are desired for relationships, but the people from whom others want things. This is how relationships work. Ignore these principles at your own risk.Join my community: https://the-captains-quarters.mn.co Buy my book, "The Value of Others" Ebook: https://amzn.to/460uGrA Audiobook:

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11:00

Episode 570: You can't cheat yourself (understanding...

PsycHacks ·

2025/11/14

While you can occasionally trick others, the truth is that you can't cheat yourself. This is why all real growth arises out of discipline and self-love. When people want something more than they want the process of obtaining it, they will be tempted to fraud. However, you can resist this temptation by understanding self love as sacrifice in the service of your goals.Join my community: https://the-captains-quarters.mn.co Buy my book, "The Value of Others" Ebook: https://amzn.to/460uGrA Audiobook:

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10:56

Episode 569: Man up (for the benefit of women)

PsycHacks ·

2025/11/10

Modern culture tells men to “man up” – but not for their own sakes. In today's episode, I expose how society defines masculinity for the benefit of women, and why this does men a disservice. The dominant culture does not want strong, prosperous, masculine men – but it's time for men to reclaim their self-definition.Join my community: https://the-captains-quarters.mn.co Buy my book, "The Value of Others" Ebook: https://amzn.to/460uGrA Audiobook: https://amzn.to/3YfFwbx Paperback:

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Episode 568: My new book (why you should read it)

PsycHacks ·

2025/11/07

I'm proud to announce that I've recently completed my new book, Starry Night. Since it's a bit different from my usual fare, I thought I would make an episode on why you should read it. Starry Night is a piece of historical fiction relating the final days of the painter, Vincent van Gogh. Through multiple perspectives, the story explores genius, madness, love, and the tragedy of suicide. It’s a philosophical novel that reveals profound psychological truths through narrative rather than analysis

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Episode 567: If he wanted to (maybe he would)

PsycHacks ·

2025/11/03

A popular meme that is circulating the internet involves women posting videos of men demonstrating uncommon provision and devotion with the caption: “if he wanted to, he would.” The idea here is that women should never accept less than full princess treatment in their romantic relationships. However, there is more to this trope than meets the eye. In today's episode, I discuss some of the surprising motivations behind female crowing. The truth is that if he wanted to, maybe he would – and maybe he

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11:09

Episode 566: The primary lie (you can't always get...

PsycHacks ·

2025/10/31

The primary lie is responsible for the vast majority of relationship dysfunction and the attendant relationship dysfunction industries, namely: the belief that you can have any relationship with anyone. It turns out you can only have certain relationships with certain people. However, people remain willfully blinded by their hope and their attraction. The truth is Mick was right: you can't always get what you want.Join my community: https://the-captains-quarters.mn.co Buy my book, "The Value of

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