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Reality Test

Dr. Kay and Dr. Ray

Two Psych Doctors Spill the Tea on Mental Health Concepts & Presentations Shown in your Fave RealiTV Shows! Ever find yourself wanting to debrief that reality tv episode with your therapist? Or maybe you"ve wanted to ask them questions about something you"ve learned from the reality tv interactions, castmates, or news cycle?Come debrief with two licensed psychologists as they explore what we can all learn about ourselves, our relationships, and our society from our fave reality television shows

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78:10

OCD, Partner Grief, & Patriarchal Language | Golden...

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2024/09/30

Dr.s Kay & Ray start by discussing Bach Nation news, such as the producer drama associated with Serene & Brandon, and background checks (which simply cannot be this hard??). Next, Dr.s Kay & Ray recap the second episode of the Golden Bachelorette, incorporating their six segments. Segments include what would be different if producers were psychologists and what Dr.s Kay & Ray would say to a client with a presenting concern that appears in the episode. Ever wonder what your the...

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63:19

Episode 54: Joan’s Goldmen! Part 2

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2024/09/24

Drs. Kay & Ray finish review of Joan Vassos’ Goldmen, who remain in the show to vie for her heart & hand! Combining bios with their first impressions from the premiere, Dr.s Kay & Ray discuss each castmate’s Bachelor Nation bio & photo, and, as relevant, their Insta bio & photo. They also discuss the men’s answers to questions about their most romantic past dates, ideal future dates, why they’re a catch and why Joan is a catch.If you want to follow along on the slides that...

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69:20

Joan’s Goldmen! Part 1

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2024/09/23

After discussing the recent news about Devin (which includes discussion of domestic violence), Drs. Kay & Ray review Joan Vassos’ Men— 24 Goldmen vying for the inaugural Golden Bachelorette’s heart & hand! Combining bios with their first impressions from the premiere, Dr.s Kay & Ray discuss each castmate’s Bachelor Nation bio & photo, and, for those who have Instagram, their Insta bio & photo. They also discuss the men’s answers to questions about their most romantic past ...

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67:46

Award Show | Week of 9/9 | Who got TESTosterboned...

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2024/09/20

Dr.s Kay & Ray review any and all of the reality TV they watched over the week, awarding moments and/or castmates with the 6 weekly awards (all with “test” in their titles)! And the TESTosterboned (most patriarchal) award gooooes to… whom? Or, what? Hint: this man from Love is Blind UK came up a few times…What about the opposite award, the Bechdel TEST (most feminist)? Or the TESTimonial award (best confessional)? To which moments or whom did the remaining 4 awards go? To whom would ...

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108:42

Love is Blind UK Season 1 | Our First Full-Season Recap!

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2024/09/16

Friends! We’re recapping AN ENTIRE SEASON of reality television in celebration of our first 50 episodes!In this approach to podding, Dr.s Kay & Ray are recapping the whole first season of the UK version of Love is Blind (streaming on Netflix)!--The international Love is Blind franchise features castmates getting emotionally intimate and then engaged sight unseen (from within separate “pods”), prior to testing their physical relationship with their affianced on a tropical trip and with typ...

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36:03

Award Show | Week of 9/2 | Devin TESTosterboned Himself

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2024/09/11

Dr.s Kay & Ray review any and all of the reality TV they watched over the week, awarding moments and/or castmates with the 6 weekly awards (all with “test” in their titles)! And the TESTosterboned (most patriarchal) award gooooes to… whom? Or, what? Hint: there can really only be one appcropriate awardee.What about the opposite award, the Bechdel TEST (most feminist)? Or the TESTimonial award (best confessional)? To which moments or whom did the remaining 4 awards go? To whom would you wa...

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51:16

Bachelorette Jenn’s Finale | Jesse doing God’s &...

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2024/09/09

Dr.s Kay & Ray tackle the finale of Jenn’s Bachelorette season (21), attending to Devin’s sudden change in behavior following the proposals and to how their discussion of it went at After the Final Rose. Numerous aspects of production felt coercive of Jenn, and suggest the importance of producers recognizing & supporting their leads’ (and castmates’) “no”s. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Reality testing is whe...

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33:34

Award Show | Week of 8/26 | Hakeem is so much more

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2024/09/04

Dr.s Kay & Ray review any and all of the reality TV they watched over the week, rewarding moments and/or castmates with their 6 weekly awards (all with “test” in their titles)! And the TESTosterboned (most patriarchal) award gooooes to… whom? Or, what moment? (Hint: one awardee seems to be preoccupied with being THE number one!)What about the opposite award, the Bechdel TEST (most feminist)? Or the TESTimonial award (best confessional)? To which moments or whom did the remaining 4 awards ...

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49:13

Bachelorette, ep.s8 & 9 | Allegations, Fantasy Suites...

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2024/09/03

Dr.s Kay & Ray start by discussing Bachelor Nation news, including the allegations against Marcus, and the social media activities of Devin. They go on to focus on The Bachelorette, with segments on episodes 8 & 9 of Jenn Tran’s season (21), discussing fantasy suites and the Men Tell All. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective realit...

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38:38

Award Show | Week of 8/19 | What’s up with Jeremy’s...

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2024/08/29

Dr.s Kay & Ray review any and all of the reality TV they watched over the week, rewarding moments and/or castmates with 6 awards (with “test” in their titles)!And the TESTosterboned (most patriarchal) award gooooes to… whom? Or, what? Hint: It has to be someone/thing new, now that the permanent installment has left our TVs!What about the opposite award, the Bechdel TEST (most feminist)? Or the TESTimonial award (best confessional)? To which moments or whom did the other 5 awards go? To wh...

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51:54

Bachelorette ep.7 & Love Island Reunion! | Producers...

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2024/08/27

Dr.s Kay & Ray start with some updates from Bachelor Nation & Love Island, including the Mesnicks’ tea spill about the (arguably racially biased) information with which Bachelor producers were briefing date hosts during filming. Next, they cover episode 7 of Jenn Tran’s Bachelorette season (21), discussing hometown dates, HuJus, and the man huddle at the brewery. They also address Bachelor producers protecting the image of the show as unmanipulated reality, and the effects of su...

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72:21

Award Show & Guest Host | Week of 8/12 | Would you...

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2024/08/20

Dr. Kay rounds out her solo week with a half episode award show, followed by a BRAND NEW SEGMENT with a BRAND NEW GUEST HOST! Check it out to find out what & who we’re talking about! As always, the TESTosterboned award goes to the most patriarchal moment or castmates from the past week in reality television, and, this week, Dr. Kay has three examples! But Dr. Kay subsequently counteracts all the patriarchal nonsense with two examples for the Bechdel TEST award and two examples for th...

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42:43

Bachelorette, ep.6 & Big Brother ep.s 1-12 | Sam I am...

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2024/08/19

Dr. Kay goes solo for a week, while Dr. Ray visits London for a TSwift concert! Dr. Kay starts with some updates from pop culture, before covering episode 6 of Jenn Tran’s Bachelorette season (21), with a focus on Marcus’ trauma and Sam Mean’s disturbing behaviors. Dr. Kay also covers some examples of implicit racism and white fragility from Big Brother. Dr. Kay ends with her Top 3 Jenn menn! -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------...

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50:52

DOUBLE EPISODE | Week of 8/05 | Bachelorette ep.5 &...

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2024/08/13

This week, Dr.s Kay & Ray were in Seattle for a work conference, so they recorded both episodes at once from the hotel room! They go through the usual segments, ranging from what producers would do if they were psychologists to sociopolitical topics that arose in the episodes. Then, they do a mini-award show, with a sole focus on the TESTosterboned & Bechdel TEST awards.Plus, hear how/if Dr. Kay’s & Dr. Ray’s guesses for Jenn Tran’s final 3 men have shifted since last week!—------...

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46:54

Award Show | Week of 7/29 | Permanent Installment for...

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2024/08/06

And the TESTosterboned (most patriarchal) award gooooes to… whom? Or, what? Hint: there is a permanent installment for this award… paired with a new honorable mention from New Jersey for Dr. Kay. What about the opposite award, the Bechdel TEST (most feminist)? Or the TESTimonial award (best confessional)? To which moments or whom did the other 5 awards go? To whom would you want them to go? Check out the episode to compare their choices to your own!Hear how/if Dr. Kay’s & Dr. Ray’s guesse...

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84:23

Bachelorette, ep.4 & House of the Dragon ep.s 1-7|...

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2024/08/05

Dr.s Kay & Ray start with some updates from pop culture, before they cover episode 4 of Jenn Tran’s Bachelorette season (21), discussing Dr. Kay’s extensive theory on why Matt is a PRODUCER PLANT, whose presence was planned from before the season started filming. They also address Sam “Mean”’s continued distressing behavior: his focus on control, lack of emotional support/attunement/awareness, and use of a blaccent when angry/aggressive (despite being white, from Myrtle Beach). Last, Dr. ...

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37:57

Award Show | Week of 7/22 | “You have to be wary of...

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2024/07/30

Ariana Madix brought her full self into the Love Island finale, the best couple won (spoiler alert–winning couple discussed in this episode), and a previous Australian bachelorette issued a warning to Jenn Tran. All of these moments are amplified as Dr.s Kay & Ray dispense their 8 awards (all with “test” in their labels) to moments & castmates from the realiTV shows they watched this past week. And the TESTosterboned (most patriarchal) award gooooes to… whom? Or, what? Hint: they...

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56:05

Love Island, ep.s 34-36 & Bachelorette, ep.3 | Sam...

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2024/07/29

Dr.s Kay & Ray cover episode 3 of Jenn Tran’s Bachelorette season (21), and the final episodes (34-36) of season 6 of the US version of Love Island (although Love Island is discussed more in the award episode tomorrow). In terms of the Bachelorette, they discuss the dramas associated with Sam M(ean) & Sam N(ice), one of whom referred to himself as having a “Chaddish moment”, and the other of whom took accountability for moving fast, resulting in sociocultural discussions that run...

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35:38

Award Show | Week of 7/15 | Sibling Love… “You made a...

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2024/07/23

One Love Island castmate’s brother said the castmate “made a bit of a dick of [him]self”, while another’s sister spoke to the sisterhood & feminist support this season. Both moments are amplified as Dr.s Kay & Ray dispense their 8 awards (all with “test” in their labels) to moments & castmates from the realiTV shows they watched this past week. And the TESTosterboned (most patriarchal) award gooooes to… whom? Or, what? Hint: Dr. Kay’s TESTosterboned award went to a particular...

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65:20

Love Island, ep.s 29-33 & Bachelorette, ep.2 | Marcus...

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2024/07/22

Dr.s Kay & Ray cover the latest episodes (29-33) from season 6 of the US version of Love Island. In terms of The Bachelorette, they discuss the second episode of Jenn Tran’s season, including the Devin & Thomas of it all, as well as the positives associated with Jenn’s organic feminism, and her time with Marcus, Dylan and Grant. Last, they discuss the sociopolitical influences of misogyny, the “bullying” narrative, and the objectification of humans. Dr.s Kay & Ray also ...

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