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The Openlove101 Show

John & Jackie Melfi

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we"re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the

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13:27

Handling Rejection and Canceled Dates

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/06/11

In today's episode, John and Jackie discuss the common experience of handling rejection and dealing with canceled dates. They explore the emotional impact of these situations, sharing personal anecdotes and insights on how to navigate the complexities of dating in both single and married life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of not jumping to conclusions, maintaining open communication, and learning from rejection experiences. John and Jackie offer practical advice for those new to

16:02

Open Relationship Partner Permission and Consent

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/06/04

When it comes to consent, what's usually discussed is getting consent from the person with whom you would like to have a physical interaction. What's not talked about as much is giving consent to your partner on what you're comfortable with them doing with others so that they don't cross any boundaries you may have. The tricky part to this whole thing is doing it without being too controlling or possessive. After all, shouldn't each person have the right to their own body and actions? (You're not

12:00

Open Relationships and Playing With Couples

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/05/21

You know what they say, "The only thing constant is change." And that includes playing with couples in our open marriage. How it started is not how it is today. How we go about it. What we do while we're playing. The things we think about. The things we do with our partner. What's ok and what's not. Check it out!

13:59

The Ups and Downs of the Lifestyle: Cultivating Good...

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2024/05/14

In this episode, John and Jackie explore the concept of transforming negative experiences in the lifestyle into valuable learning opportunities. The conversation revolves around handling discomfort, setting boundaries, and fostering positive communication within the swinging community. Reflecting on past experiences, Jackie shares personal insights on the significance of being an advocate for oneself. The discussion touches on the challenges of vocalizing boundaries and preferences, highlighting

17:10

Open Relationship Advice: How To Handle Fear & Jealousy

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/05/07

Open Relationship Advice: How To Handle Fear & Jealousy John and Jackie answer a follower submitted question in this week's episode! Do you have any advice or techniques to help alleviate self-doubt and stress and is it common for the wife to take the leadership role in the lifestyle adventure? Listen hear John and Jackie's answer!

18:59

Navigating Friendships in Open Relationships

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/04/30

In this episode, John and Jackie delve into the intricacies of friendships when one person is in an open relationship. Courtney shares her experiences as the friend in an open relationship, facing both positive and negative reactions from friends in monogamous relationships. The conversation explores the dynamics, challenges, and societal perceptions surrounding open-relationships within friend circles.

14:53

Threesomes are Amazing

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/04/23

Today we talk about threesomes because they are amazing! What guy (and even lots of gals) doesn't fantasize about a threesome experience?! In fact, it's one of the most popular ways to break into the lifestyle and we'll tell you why in our video!

15:30

Navigating Religious Perspectives in Open Relationships

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/04/16

In this episode, John and Jackie respond to a viewer's question about reconciling religious beliefs with an open relationship. John and Jackie share their personal journeys of questioning and deconstructing religious beliefs as they explored open relationships John and Jackie encourage you to embrace your authentic self, challenge societal norms, and recognize the strength in holding strong, shared values within your relationships.

12:02

How to Talk to Your Dating Partner About Your Open...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/04/09

In this episode, we answer one of your questions posted in the YouTube comments in one of our videos: What about the folks you're dating? Do they know about your relationship and how do they fit in? And if there are issues, why did you continue and why not just stop? A very good series of questions, I might add!

16:52

Navigating Uncomfortable Boundaries in Open...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/04/02

In this episode, John and Jackie discuss the complexities of dealing with uncomfortable boundaries in open relationships. The episode explores various approaches to handling discomfort when partners want to explore activities that may challenge established boundaries. They touch on options such as refraining from the activity, finding ways to ease discomfort, and introducing play partners to fulfill certain desires. They emphasize the importance of communication, honesty, and self-reflection in

12:13

Importance of Honesty in Open Relationships

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/03/26

#116 So what happens when your partner is honest (which of course you want them to be) and they share something with you... And that honest something makes you sad, makes you angry, makes you scared, or worse. What do you do now with that? That's what we talk about today!

10:33

Does Fantasizing About Someone Else Mean Cheating?

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2024/03/12

#112 A couple asked us the other day if it's bad to fantasize about someone else while being intimate with your partner. Is that wrong? Is it cheating? Is it bad? Let's dive into this rabbit hole of fantasy talk and where it could go!

12:21

Becoming Role Models in the Lifestyle

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/03/05

In today's episode, John and Jackie explore the topic of being role models in the lifestyle. Jackie shares her personal journey into non-monogamy, emphasizing the importance ofexploring sexuality with love and breaking free from societal stigmas. They discuss how beingopen about their experiences has allowed them to become advocates for the lifestyle,encouraging others to prioritize their relationships and embrace new adventures.

11:46

How do you NOT approach couples in swinging lifestyle? 🚩

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/03/05

Today, John and Jackie discuss red flags to keep in mind when you are looking to meet people in the lifestyle! From being too direct out the gate to ignoring their boundaries, there are many red flags to look out for when talking to someone.

11:31

Dealing with Fear in Open Relationships

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/02/27

#113 The other day we did some coaching for a couple who wanted some help with their open relationship. They had finally found a third person who was interesting and attractive to both of them and they wanted this person to be part of their throuple. The couple was both excited about it, but as time went on, the woman in the relationship became more encompassed in her fear, which then of course triggered some of her partner's fears (based on past relationships). So at this point, he wants

23:35

Why Non-Monogamy Fails!

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/02/20

In today’s episode, John and Jackie explore the reasons why non-monogamous relationships may fail. Listen in as they discus the crucial aspects of communication, consideration of partner’s feelings, managing expectations, and the significance of respecting boundaries. They also share personal insights and experiences, emphasizing the importance of open and honest discussions in navigating the challenges of consensually non-monogamous relationships.

15:18

Introducing Consensual Non-monogamy to Your Partner

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/02/13

#111 Ok so you're interested in this consensual non-monogamy thing, but how do you tell your partner about it? How do you approach the topic and introduce them to CNM without freaking them out?! Watch this video (perhaps together) and discover how!

09:03

How to Find Play Partners

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/02/06

#110 We had a comment/question from a couple in an open relationship where the wife is having a much easier time finding play partners than the husband, which led him to ask the question: How do I find more play partners? Let's jump in and discuss that!

08:33

Is CNM all about sex?

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/01/30

#109 When people think Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), many of them think about the exciting and juicy non-monogamy part where you get to have sex with multiple partners. Lots of it. A lot of the time. But is that true? Is that what CNM is all about? Let's explore and discuss that today!

09:56

Is sex all about penetration?

The Openlove101 Show ·

2024/01/23

#108 We talk about what to do if someone in a couple is having trouble staying hard during a swinger encounter and address common misconceptions about swingers always having perfect sex. Since staying hard can be challenging for some men, we discuss ways we can take pressure off our male partners and how sex isn't just all about penetration.

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