Unfiltered : Single Christians Tips on Life

What does the Bible say about waiting on God? More specifically, how to wait on the Lord for that special Christian date, or husband or wife? One of the most difficult things for Christian singles interested in dating and marriage is waiting on the Lord for that special soulmate. This is especially true as we see our single friends meet their dream date, get married, and move on. Loneliness and anxiety start to creep in as we wonder when God […]The post Christian Dating and Waiting on God appeared

Thinking about dating a friend? Should I confess to my crush?  A Christian single guy wrote us asking if it’s a good idea if best friends date one another.  So what do you think? Should friends date each other? I know the cynical among us may agree with that line from When Harry Met Sally, “a man and a woman can’t really be just friends.” But that’s the topic of another article. Let’s get back to the issue of whether […] The post Christian Dating Advice: Dating a Friend-Should Friends Date? appeared

Many singles write us asking for Christian dating principles or Christian dating rules to guide their dating lives. Well, listen. I don’t claim to be a Christian dating expert, but I do know that the Scriptures have some wonderful stuff from which we can cobble some general Christian dating principles. The pursuit of love is universal, yet for Christian singles, this journey is not merely about finding a compatible partner. It’s about aligning the heart’s desires with God’s plan and […] The post

Do you have an issue with making peace with your past? Many Christian singles can’t get over the past. Several years back, I went on a Christian singles retreat, where the topic at hand was making peace with my past. Christian single after Christian single shared their sad stories of how a bad past experience, a soured relationship, or a sexual sin had held them back from living victoriously in the present. Although many Christian singles there that weekend desired […]The post Making Peace with

Commitment phobia is the fear of commitment. When we speak of commitment phobia among singles, we are referring to folks who avoid committing to long-term relationships such as marriage. People who suffer from commitment phobia come in all varieties. Commitment phobes (no, I didn’t make this term up!) can be both male and female, Christian and non-Christian, teens, single parents or seniors. Commitment phobia among singles can occur for several reasons and can keep someone single. However, most

How does one get over unrequited love as a Christian Single? In my personal experience, unrequited love is like death, only worse. Unrequited love occurs when the person you absolutely are “head over heels” in love with does not reciprocate the same desire and feelings. Can you think of anything more emotionally and spiritually painful than unrequited love, or being ghosted by the one you love? At least in death, a Christian single is done with pain. In unrequited love, […]The post Unrequited Love:

Sometimes learning how to let go of a toxic Christian dating relationship can be harder than finding a girlfriend or boyfriend. Even when we know letting go of a particular relationship is in our best interest, like in the case of an abusive dating relationship, or dating a married person, or dating an unbeliever, it is not always an easy decision. Many times a Christian single may struggle over feeling guilty or think that the right person will never come into […] The post How to Let Go of a Toxic

Looking for Bible quotes about patience for Christian singles? In the journey of life, patience is more than a virtue; it’s a lifeline, especially for Christian singles in a world where the paths of friends and peers diverge towards marriage and family life. The waiting period, often filled with questions and longings, can be challenging, yet it is within this very season that the Bible offers profound wisdom and comfort. This article delves into key Bible quotes about patience, providing […] The