中国人喜欢说一个词叫：惜福。就是珍惜新的福报，不要随便消耗它，如果一个人所有福报都变成金钱了，那是很可怕的事，因为接下来任何风吹草动，都能搞垮一个人。人这一生，积攒了多少功德，享受了多少生活，都是被记录好的。

Hi, I'm Heather Garbutt and I'm a calling in the One Love and Relationship Coach, and I'm here today to give you the roadmap to find true, committed romantic love. Last week we went through the initials of desire, starting with the letter D, and that was really defining what you want in a relationship. All of the beautiful qualities that you would like to have for yourself and in that quality relationship, somebody who shares your values, who appreciates you, who can communicate with you is your

好的关系，是从身边的小事做起，提出积极的沟通邀请，并积极回应别人提出的沟通邀请。而好的伴侣，是一位“美好瞬间的收集者”，会通过一些看似无关紧要的互动，比如一个微笑、一个轻声的招呼，向对方释放美好的信号。

不断地在工作中去锤炼自己的长板，让自己真正成为一个有一技之长，不怕被淘汰的人。多武装自己，更新自己，提升自己的职场竞争力，才是我们不被淘汰的根本。

Good morning. My name's Heather Garbutt and I'm a love and relationship coach. This morning I'm here to talk to you about rewriting your love story. I'm following the path of my workshop, which is named Desire. Today we're starting with the letter D, and that is really defining what you want in your love life with your partner and how you want to feel in your yourself. So let's just close our eyes for a moment and go in deep, take some lovely deep breaths, and as you breathe in, feel that

每个人的内心都具有觉悟的潜质，每个人都有解除迷惑烦恼的能力，也就是说每个生命都具有自我拯救的能力。谁是最好的心理治疗师？佛法的智慧告诉大家：你自己才是你最好的治疗师。

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生命的决定，首先你要尊重他的生命业力，同时要转他的业力到他的愿力上去，先迎合，后引导。这就是太极的力量，所以这两者之间是不矛盾的，是你既要抓住他的业力、习惯，又要在一个恰当的点，以一个合适的机缘转到他的自主和自觉上来。

男性力量，更多地表现在向外拓展、向外扩张的状态；而女性力量则更像是一股滋养、承载、包容、允许的力量。这两种力量在我们内心流动，潜移默化地影响着我们的生命样貌。当两者保持一定平衡的时候，你生活也会有条不紊地向前迈进。