Beyond Success

Dr. Strange gives you a masterclass in human psychology. Stephen Strange was the classic narcissist who tied his entire identity to his career.  So when he lost his surgical hands, he was ready to give up on life.  But instead of sulking, he redeemed his narcissistic characteristics by becoming selfless.  In this episode, we’ll dissect Stephen Strange from the first Dr. Strange movie, so you don’t make the same mistakes he did.  Listen now. Show Highlights Include: Why basing your self-worth on

Everyone has an inner critic who beats up on your mental health. And the worse your trauma is, the harsher your critic becomes.  But everyone approaches this problem backwards:  They think criticizing their inner critic will scare it away. But this only makes your inner critic double down and create more agony for you.  In this episode, you’ll discover why accepting your inner critic will actually lift its control over your mental health.  Listen now.  Show Highlights Include: Why celebrating your

There are two paths to transformation: The Fixing Method and The Acceptance Method.  The former is what you’ll get from any self-help book or life coaching. And while it might work for a short burst of time, it creates even more mental chaos down the road.  The latter is the approach IFS therapy uses. And it creates lasting change through radical self-acceptance (even aspects of your personality that humiliate you).  In this episode, you’ll discover how radical self-acceptance leads to more success

The self-help industry is a multi-billion dollar industry which feeds off your insecurities like a poisonous leech. And while they promise to boost your confidence, attractiveness, and happiness, it actually does the exact opposite. Especially over the long term. The self-help industry lures you into a trap which leads to burnout, misery, and even self-contempt. In this episode, you’ll discover why self-help is toxic and how to improve your life without relying on shady self-help tactics. Listen now

Many guys ask me if it’s possible to be vulnerable and sexually attractive women.  And while this answer may shock you: Yes you can. In fact, you can become more attractive by becoming vulnerable.  But here’s the problem:  Most guys confuse vulnerability with the notorious “Attraction Killer.” This “Attraction Killer” poisons every single attractive quality you have and makes love impossible as long as it haunts you.  In this episode, you’ll discover what this “Attraction Killer” is and how to

Matt Reeves’s new movie, The Batman, is a case study in psychology.  Both Batman and Riddler have deep psychological trauma. They both handle it in immature ways. And it reminds me of almost all guys who are trying to do better with women.  Batman, Riddler, and many single guys who can’t get women create a false self, disown their shadow parts, and exile their inner child out of fear. But they don’t realize this cripples the healing process.  In this episode, you’ll discover what Batman and Riddler

Most men think their emotions are a sign of weakness. Then they wonder why attracting love seems impossible.  Here’s the truth about attraction:  It’s an emotion, just like happiness and sadness. And when you repress your emotions, you supress your attractiveness to the opposite sex. Yes, even the “bad” emotions.  But don’t worry.  In this episode, I share 3 powerful stories about men who repressed their emotions and sabotaged their love lives. And how they took back control of their emotions and