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What Does the Average Man Really Want From a Woman? |...

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2026/06/05

In Episode 349 of You’re Probably Right, I answer a question a lot of people ask but rarely answer honestly:What does the average man really want from a woman?Not the rich man.Not the celebrity.Not the womanizer.Not the man with endless options.The average working man.The regular man with bills, pressure, responsibility, fatigue, and limited room for error.This episode breaks down The Big Five:He wants a woman he does not have to mentally guard from the world.He wants to feel wanted for himself, not

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76:00

348. When the Small Letdown Finally Tells the Truth

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2026/06/03

I once knew a guy who mistook a rare feeling for proof, and it almost cost him his self-respect.This episode is for the people who give deeply once they believe something matters. The people who remember details. The people who attach meaning to moments. The people who are not stupid, not weak, not desperate, but maybe too willing to believe that intensity must be pointing toward character.Because sometimes the chemistry was real.The warmth was real.The private moments were real.But real is not the

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Episode 347: Why Didn’t I Know I Was Enough?

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2026/05/31

In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, I reflect on what happens when you look back at an old version of yourself and realize you were not as worthless, hopeless, unattractive, or broken as you felt at the time.This is a personal rumination about weight loss, old Smule recordings, self image, deep sadness, being treated like your value depended on someone else’s approval, and the painful realization that sometimes we spend years trying to prove our worth to people who should never have

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44:57

Episode 346 You’re Not Trying To Get Them Back....

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2026/05/24

In Episode 346 of You’re Probably Right, I talk about the difference between missing a person and missing a moment.Sometimes you are not really trying to get them back. You are trying to get back to the one stretch of time where life felt rare, electric, and almost impossible. The look. The chemistry. The feeling. The peak. And once you have touched something like that, it can take a long time to admit that what you are chasing is not the person anymore. It is the pinnacle.This episode is about what

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74:54

Have You Actually Ever Really Been in Love? Love,...

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2026/05/18

real love, love or attachment, love or loneliness, love or lust, love or fear, emotional attachment, emotional dependence, marriage and love, Christian marriage, covenant marriage, relationship truth, fear of being alone, infatuation, desire versus love, timing in relationships, love and duty, have I ever been in love, what is real love, relationship patterns, loneliness in relationships, when feelings fade, love versus convenience.

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69:37

A Match Made in Hell, Part 5: When Fruit Tells the...

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2026/05/02

Episode 341 of You’re Probably Right Podcast closes out the A Match Made in Hell series by asking the deeper question most people never get to: not just what happened, not just what label fits, but what fruit did the bond actually produce.This episode moves past the usual modern language of trauma, attachment, avoidance, narcissism, and emotional unavailability, and asks what those patterns reveal at a deeper moral and spiritual level. Mike breaks down the difference between psychological labels and

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50:32

A Match Made in Hell, Part 2: Why Vague People Keep...

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2026/05/01

Episode 340 of You’re Probably Right Podcast continues the A Match Made in Hell series with a deep look at the vague, self-protective, selectively intimate person. This is the kind of person who can do warmth, chemistry, closeness, eye contact, private vulnerability, and emotional access in the moment, but struggles with clarity, consistency, accountability, repair, and clean endings.That is what makes them so damaging. Not always obvious cruelty. Not always coldness. Sometimes the damage comes from

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50:15

A Match made in hell Part 4: Why You Still Want Them...

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2026/04/29

A Match Made in Hell, Part 4: Why You Still Want Them After Their Behaviour Already Answered YouWhy do you still want one more moment with someone who already showed you where you stand?In this episode of You’re Probably Right Podcast, we break down the painful psychology behind unclear relationships, mixed signals, emotional ambiguity, situationships, shame, overgiving, and why the person who was never fully chosen can still feel deeply attached.This episode is for anyone who was given warmth

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67:52

Why You Lose Yourself in Relationships: Overgiving,...

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2026/04/17

Overgiving can look like love until it turns into self-betrayal. This episode explores inconsistent affection, emotional confusion, and the habit of becoming useful just to feel chosen. If you’ve ever felt yourself shrinking in a relationship, this will help you see the pattern clearly.

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29:43

Episode 335 — Old Pain Is Still Deciding What the...

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2026/04/13

Episode 335 of You’re Probably Right picks up where Episode 334 left off. If Episode 334 was about old pain still deciding what the new man gets, this episode goes even deeper into what that actually does to new love. This is about how past hurt, unresolved wounds, and emotional survival mode can quietly make the next person pay for damage they never caused.Mike breaks down how old relationships may be over on paper but still alive in the nervous system, still shaping trust, intimacy, softness, and

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52:54

Old Pain Is Still Deciding What the New Man Gets |...

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2026/04/11

Sometimes the problem is not that she doesn’t care. Sometimes old pain is still deciding what the new man gets. In Episode 334 of You’re Probably Right, Michael C. Murray explores emotional unavailability, old relationship wounds, heartbreak, and how unresolved attachment can affect new love, trust, intimacy, and long-term relationships. If you’ve ever felt like someone was present but still guarded, this episode will hit.

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Why Mixed Signals Keep You Stuck | Episode 333

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2026/04/10

Most people don’t stay stuck because of love.They stay stuck because nothing ever made sense.In this episode, Michael C. Murray breaks down why mixed signals are so hard to move on from — and why the confusion hurts more than the ending itself.This isn’t about overthinking.It’s about understanding the pattern that keeps you emotionally tied to something that never fully formed.If you’ve ever found yourself replaying conversations, questioning what was real, or trying to make sense of someone who

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49:18

Social Gravity -How Ordinary People Become More...

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2026/04/07

On this episode of You’re Probably Right, I break down the idea of social gravity and why some people seem to pull more response out of the world than others. This is not just about looks, status, or confidence. It is about what people notice, how they read you, whether you seem intentional, and whether you feel easy to engage.We get into salience, coherence, warmth, approachability, humour, presence, and social ease, and why ordinary people who feel overlooked are often not lacking value, but

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Users vs. Marks - The Greased Rung Episode #330

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2026/04/04

In Episode 330, Users vs. Marks: The Greased Rung, I break down a pattern a lot of people have lived through but struggle to explain clearly. This episode is about the kind of person who doesn’t come close to build something real, but comes close because there’s something in you they can use.I talk through how these dynamics often work: the scouting, the story, the tailored bait, the sample, the breadcrumbs, the confusion, the false clarity, the feeling of having to stay “online” and hold your place

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Bonus Episode: Dinner With the Podcast After...

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2026/04/02

Episode 329 is a bonus episode, and this one is more personal than usual. I sat down to eat and talk through something a lot of people know too well: what happens inside you after a painful breakup.This is not a polished lecture or a neat list of answers. It is a real time reflection built around 20 honest questions about heartbreak, rejection, rumination, emotional attachment, trying to fix what ended, and figuring out what the pain actually revealed. Sometimes a breakup is not just about losing a

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Episode 328: Trusting God After Painful Relationships

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2026/04/01

In this episode, I am handling this part of the series a little differently. Instead of coming at it like a formal teaching, I wanted to approach it as a careful question period. The issue is too important to speak on casually. So the real question I am asking here is this: What does the gospel do with the ways pain has changed how we love?We talk about what happens when pain reshapes the heart through withdrawal, control, overgiving, performance, and fear of people. We also walk through Scripture

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54:57

What Healthy Love Feels Like After Toxic Relationship...

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2026/03/19

What does healthy love actually feel like after pain?In this episode, we explore why real love can feel unfamiliar when you’ve been shaped by heartbreak, inconsistency, anxiety, emotional unavailability, or toxic relationship patterns. Sometimes healing makes you expect peace, but when peace finally arrives, it can feel boring, suspicious, or “not enough” simply because it doesn’t trigger the chaos you once called chemistry.This conversation breaks down the difference between healthy love and

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59:42

How Heartbreak Shapes 10 Surprising Relationship...

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2026/03/17

How Heartbreak Shapes 10 Surprising Relationship PatternsSubtitle: Patterns of PainWhy do some people disappear when things get real? Why do others keep options open, chase hard and then go cold, overgive to feel secure, or stay emotionally armored even in love?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, Michael C. Murray introduces a framework for understanding how unresolved relational pain can quietly reshape behavior in love. Through 10 patterns — the Vanisher, Window Shopper, Magnet, Collector,

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Episode 324 After the Pattern What Healing Actually...

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2026/03/17

After you recognize the pattern, what do you actually do next?In Episode 324, I break down what healing really looks like in love after heartbreak, emotional pain, and repeated relationship patterns. We talk through four major adaptations people fall into after hurt: withdrawal, control, compensation, and losing yourself. Then we get specific about what each pattern is trying to protect, what it costs, what healing asks you to stop doing, and what healthier love starts to look like instead.This

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Episode 323 – How Pain Reshapes Love | What Do I Do Now?

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2026/03/15

Episode 323 – How Pain Reshapes Love | What Do I Do Now?When love breaks you, the real question isn’t why it happened—it’s what you do next.In this episode of You’re Probably Right, we dive into the uncomfortable middle stage of healing after relationship pain. Why do old patterns keep repeating? How do you actually rebuild trust in yourself? And what does real emotional healing look like after heartbreak, betrayal, or toxic love?We unpack relationship patterns, emotional recovery, and the

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