You’re Probably Right

86:55

How to Devalue the Ex Who Discarded You Episode #386

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/10/04

How do you stop giving enormous emotional value to someone who already stopped choosing you?In Episode 386 of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down what it really means to “devalue” an ex after being discarded.This is not about revenge.It is not about humiliating them.It is not about pretending the relationship never mattered.It is about bringing their value in your mind back down to the level of the evidence.Sometimes the beginning was euphoric.The attention was intense.The chemistry was

en

21:48

The Difference Between Saying You’re Sorry and Being...

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/09/18

There is a difference between saying you’re sorry and actually being sorry.And sometimes we give people credit for an apology they never really gave us.In Episode 384 of You’re Probably Right, MCM breaks down the difference between remorse, discomfort, apology, access, forgiveness, and actual change.Someone can be upset that you are angry with them.They can miss talking to you.They can miss your attention.They can miss your help.They can miss the version of you who used to answer the phone, do the

en

67:10

The Delilah Effect: When One Person Has Your Number

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/09/15

You can be sensible about almost everybody.Then one particular person sends seven words:“I was just thinking about you today.”And suddenly everything you had decided starts feeling negotiable again.In Episode 383 of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores what he calls The Delilah Effect: the strange power one person can have to get past the judgment, boundaries, and common sense you use successfully everywhere else in your life.Your Delilah does not have to be a woman.It can be a man.It can be anybody

en

70:34

Are These Real Red Flags, or Am I Overthinking His...

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/09/06

Are these real red flags?Or are you overthinking his behaviour?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM takes on one of the hardest questions a woman can ask when something in a relationship no longer feels right.Because once something feels off, it can be difficult to know what you are actually responding to.Are you noticing something real?Are you remembering something old?Are you seeing the beginning of a pattern?Or did the man simply have a strange Wednesday?That distinction matters.One slow

en

66:40

How Can You Plan a Future With Someone You Barely Know?

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/09/05

How can somebody talk about a future with you when they barely know who you are?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores one of the quieter problems in modern relationships: people planning futures with people they have not truly become curious about yet.They can talk about the trip.The house.The wedding.The children.The holidays.The life you might build together.But somehow they have never asked what made you laugh when you were eight, what your neighbourhood felt like, what ordinary

en

93:21

Are We Actually Compatible Enough for a Future Together?

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/09/04

Are we actually compatible enough for a future together?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM takes on one of the most important questions a couple can ask before marriage, commitment, children, shared finances, or building a life that cannot easily be untangled.Compatibility is not just liking the same food.It is not watching the same shows.It is not laughing at the same jokes.It is not both wanting to stay home on Friday night.And it is not chemistry strong enough to make two people ignore

en

61:53

I Really Thought They Would Choose Me. But I Was...

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/08/31

Why did it feel so real if they were never really choosing you?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM talks about the kind of relationship that can leave you more confused than an actual breakup.Because sometimes there was never a clean beginning.And because of that, there was never a clean ending.Somebody came into your life, got closer than almost anyone else, received your help, your patience, your attention, your care, your loyalty, and maybe even your body, but still never gave you the

en

72:58

Can I Trust Him, or Is He Lying, Hiding Something, or...

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/08/29

Can you trust him?Or is he lying, hiding something, or seeing someone else?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM answers one of the most painful questions women ask when something in a relationship no longer feels clear.Maybe his explanation does not make sense.Maybe his phone suddenly became guarded.Maybe there are new gaps in his time.Maybe another woman’s name keeps appearing.Maybe the story keeps changing.Or maybe your own past has made it hard to trust anybody, even a man who has not

en

83:01

Is He Emotionally Available, and Why Won’t He...

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/08/28

Is he emotionally available?And if he cares, why won’t he communicate openly?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM answers one of the most frustrating questions women ask when a man seems present in some ways but emotionally hard to reach in others.Emotional availability does not mean a man walks around with a perfect inventory of his feelings.It does not mean he always knows what he feels.It does not mean he never gets defensive.It does not mean he cries on command, explains everything

en

80:58

Why Is He Pulling Away, Becoming Inconsistent, or...

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/08/26

Why is he pulling away?Why is he becoming inconsistent?Why did the communication suddenly change?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM answers one of the most common and painful questions women ask when a man’s behaviour starts shifting.The answer is not found in one quiet day.Not one missed call.Not one cancelled plan.Not one slow reply.The real question is whether his communication, availability, affection, effort, honesty, or respect has fallen below the pattern the relationship already

en

65:25

Do They Really Want to Be Alone, or Just Free From...

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/08/20

Do some people really want to be alone?Or do they want connection without obligation?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM gives a deep, direct, and uncomfortable breakdown of modern aloneness, controlled connection, and the way some people say they want peace, space, and independence while still wanting access to other people when it benefits them.This is not an episode attacking solitude.Solitude can be healthy. Prayer can require solitude. Reflection can require solitude. Sometimes a

en

45:26

The Most Boring Episode of You’re Probably Right

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/08/15

This might be the episode I should have erased.I sat down with ten introspective questions that were supposed to lead somewhere interesting. They didn’t. The questions weren’t great, my answers weren’t much better, and somewhere along the way I realized I was recording an episode that probably had no business becoming an episode.So naturally, I finished it.This is what happens when a podcast reaches Episode 368 and the host refuses to pretend every conversation is profound. No big breakthrough. No

en

80:48

Why Am I So Afraid of Being Found Out?

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/08/12

What if social anxiety is not always about being afraid of people?What if it is about being afraid of what people might discover if they watch you closely enough?In Episode 367 of You’re Probably Right, MCM talks about childhood bullying, social anxiety, learning struggles, performance pressure, public speaking, interviews, relationships, singing, podcasting, and the fear of being judged while trying to do something in real time.This episode explores why some people can function, work, talk,

en

57:48

Why Do I Over Explain When I Feel Put on the Spot?

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/08/09

What if you are not bad at communicating, but sometimes have too many thoughts arriving at once?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM uses himself as the case study while exploring verbal processing, memory, social pressure, over explaining, and why some people communicate very differently when they feel watched, rushed, questioned, or evaluated.This is a reflective episode about what happens when your mind moves faster than your mouth can organize.MCM talks about why a person may remember

en

28:24

When Caring Becomes Carrying: Why I Wrote Care...

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/08/03

t what point does caring about someone become carrying the entire relationship?In Episode 365 of You’re Probably Right, Michael Charles Murray explains why he wrote Care Without Carrying: How to Love Deeply Without Losing Yourself in an Unequal Relationship.This episode examines the difference between supporting someone through a difficult period and becoming responsible for maintaining the entire relationship. It also explores why emotional spikes can hide damaging patterns, why being needed is not

en

105:12

Your Best Wasn’t the Problem

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/07/27

What if your best was not the problem?In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM talks about rejection, effort, self-blame, and the painful realization that more love, more loyalty, more patience, or more hard work does not always change another person’s decision.This is not only about romantic rejection.It is about the person who pulls away before they explain why. The friend who stops calling. The family member who creates distance. The workplace that starts making decisions around you instead

en

30:21

Episode 351: Why Are We All So Replaceable Now?

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/06/21

Episode 351: Why Are We All So Replaceable Now?Ghosting. Situationships. Breadcrumbing. Monkey barring. Orbiting. Ghostlighting.Modern dating seems to invent a new word every week, but what if all of these behaviours are really pointing to the same problem?In this episode, MCM explores a theory that might explain why commitment feels harder than ever before.What if modern dating has become sampling?Just like Netflix, YouTube, Facebook, and TikTok, people now have endless options at their fingertips

en

33:53

Episode 350: Should I Take Them Back? 10 Questions...

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/06/18

What do you do when someone who hurt you tries to come back around?This episode is not about marriage. Marriage is a different covenant, a different commitment, and a different agreement before God. This conversation is about dating, talking, situationships, and relationships that never reached that level.In Episode 350, MCM breaks down the question many people search when an old person returns:Should I take them back?But before you answer that with emotion, nostalgia, attraction, chemistry,

en

95:30

What Does the Average Man Really Want From a Woman? |...

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/06/05

In Episode 349 of You’re Probably Right, I answer a question a lot of people ask but rarely answer honestly:What does the average man really want from a woman?Not the rich man.Not the celebrity.Not the womanizer.Not the man with endless options.The average working man.The regular man with bills, pressure, responsibility, fatigue, and limited room for error.This episode breaks down The Big Five:He wants a woman he does not have to mentally guard from the world.He wants to feel wanted for himself, not

en

76:00

348. When the Small Letdown Finally Tells the Truth

You’re Probably Right ·

2026/06/03

I once knew a guy who mistook a rare feeling for proof, and it almost cost him his self-respect.This episode is for the people who give deeply once they believe something matters. The people who remember details. The people who attach meaning to moments. The people who are not stupid, not weak, not desperate, but maybe too willing to believe that intensity must be pointing toward character.Because sometimes the chemistry was real.The warmth was real.The private moments were real.But real is not the

en

All Episodes

Similar Podcasts

The Deep Dive Lab: Unraveling Materials Science

Son Hoang

New Books in Political Science

New Books Network

Station 151

Pale Matter | Realm

Beyond the Divide

Koala Moon

StarTalk with Neil deGrasse Tyson

Neil deGrasse Tyson