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The Conscious Love Show

Shane Kohler

Navigating the complex journey to love, consciously and spiritually, with Shane Kohler

society & culture relationships

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01:13:07

Why am I still Attracting This? When you thought you...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/06/25

You’ve done the work. You’ve cried the tears, read the books, maybe even taken the courses. You know your patterns. You’ve said no to the toxic ones, sworn off the avoidants, and promised yourself: Never again.And then… it happens again. You meet someone. He’s charming. He sees you. There’s chemistry. And somewhere deep in your gut, it feels like a homecoming. But before long, it starts to unravel. You realize you’re bending. Shrinking. Questioning yourself. And you’re back in something that feels

01:11:11

Why He’s Not Committing (Even If He Loves You)

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/06/18

Why do some men pull away even when love is present?In this episode, we break down one of the most confusing dynamics in modern dating: when emotional connection exists, but commitment never fully arrives. I’ll unpack the deeper fears, unspoken blocks, and hidden conflicts that cause men to hesitate—even when they genuinely care. You’ll learn how to recognize these patterns early, avoid getting trapped in limbo, and position yourself for the kind of partnership that doesn’t leave you waiting and

01:06:57

When Being Happy and Single Becomes a Barrier to...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/06/11

Grab your spot in my upcoming 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge here.You say you’re happy and single — and maybe you are. But what if that happiness is secretly a barrier? A quiet defense against the love you crave. In this episode, we explore the seven subtle beliefs that often hide beneath independence and self-sufficiency — the ones that sound like empowerment, but may actually be keeping you from the deep connection your heart truly wants. If you’re single life feels safe and comfortable, but

12:16

QUESTION - How Can I Want Love and Still Be Happy...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/06/06

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a powerful question: How can I want love and still be happy without it? If you’ve ever felt torn between desiring a romantic relationship and learning how to find contentment in your own company, this episode is for you.I’ll share insights on how to cultivate self-love, personal fulfillment, and inner happiness while still holding space for the desire for love. We’ll discuss how to embrace your current season of life, find joy and purpose

01:14:55

Are You Punishing Yourself for Not Finding Love Yet?

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/06/04

You want love—but are you turning your life into a self-imposed prison because you haven’t found it yet?In this episode, we unpack the quiet ways people punish themselves for being single, stuck, or in love-limbo. From numbing your joy to turning dating into a full-time emotional job, we explore how romantic longing can morph into identity and self-worth issues. You’ll learn how to stop chasing love like a cure and start showing up to your life like the love you're seeking is already here, because

17:35

QUESTION-How do I Share Body Insecurity with a Partner?

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/05/30

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we address a vulnerable and important question: How do I share body insecurity with a partner? If you’ve ever felt uncomfortable opening up about your body insecurities, or worried about how your partner might respond, this episode will guide you through the process of sharing in a healthy, supportive way.Join me, as we explore how to communicate your feelings with honesty and vulnerability, while ensuring your partner understands your needs without

01:09:30

Healing the Shame You Carry Around Your Body (and...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/05/28

You’ve read the books. You’ve done the mindset work.So why do you still feel uncomfortable in your skin? In this episode, we’re unpacking the deeper layers of body shame—where it actually comes from, why it lingers even after years of healing, and what it really takes to feel confident, grounded, and beautiful in your body again. This isn’t about changing how you look. It’s about changing how you relate to the vessel that holds you. We’ll talk about: Why body shame isn’t just about appearance—but

12:53

QUESTION - Is Being Busy a Valid Reason for Distance?

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/05/23

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a common relationship question: Is being busy a valid reason for distance? If you’ve ever felt pushed away by a partner who claims to be too busy to connect, or found yourself justifying emotional distance with the busyness of life, this episode will provide insight into this dynamic.We’ll explore how busyness can sometimes be a genuine reason for lack of connection, but also how it can be used as an excuse to avoid deeper intimacy. I’ll

01:07:44

He’s Pulling Away, Do You Reach Out—Or Is That Chasing?

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/05/21

He’s pulling away. You feel it in your chest, in the lag between messages, in the subtle silence that suddenly feels heavy. And now you’re frozen—wondering if reaching out makes you brave… or makes you look desperate.In this episode, we unpack the confusing space between self-respect and self-abandonment, and why “matching his energy” might just be your nervous system’s way of protecting you from deeper vulnerability. If you’ve ever held back from expressing how you feel—not because you didn’t

01:08:22

Why You’ve Done So Much Work—But Still Don’t Feel Free

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/05/14

Enrollment for Inspired Love closes soon! Click here to get started.You’ve read the books. You’ve journaled the patterns. You’ve cried on the therapy couch, tracked your triggers, and rewritten the story a hundred different ways. So why do you still feel trapped in the same emotional loops? In this episode, I’m speaking to the woman who’s done the work—and is still waiting for the inner freedom it was supposed to deliver. We’ll explore why awareness alone doesn’t create transformation, how your

15:22

QUESTION - What If He Wants Me Sexually—But Not...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/05/09

Click her to learn more about the Inspired Love 8-Week Journey.In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a complex and often painful question: What if he wants me sexually—but not emotionally? If you’ve found yourself in a situation where physical attraction is strong, but emotional connection feels lacking, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on. We’ll explore the dynamics of emotional vs. physical intimacy and why some people may struggle with deeper emotional

01:06:22

What It Really Means to Be in Your Feminine (and Why...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/05/06

Click here to Learn More about the Inspired Love 8-Week JourneyYou’ve heard the words: “embodied,” “soft,” “surrendered,” “in your feminine.” But what does that actually mean when your nervous system is wired for control… and the world rewards you for it? In this episode, we’re cutting through the fluff. You’ll learn what feminine energy really is—and why so many powerful women feel both drawn to it and terrified by it. We’ll name the survival strategies that have kept you sharp, guarded, and

01:08:42

The Core Feminine Needs and Why Men Struggle to Meet...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/04/16

Why do so many women feel so unseen, unheard, and invalidated in their relationships with men?And what is happening with men that they are unable or unwilling to meet a woman's deepest heartfelt needs? In this episode, we peel back the layers to expose the truth about a woman's deepest needs and why men struggle to meet them. But not only that, we're exploring exactly how women can call men forward to invite them into higher consciousness and deeper love. So if you're ready to rewrite the narrative

16:45

QUESTION-Can Two Wounded People Really Have a...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/04/11

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a deep and thought-provoking question: Can two wounded people really have a conscious relationship? If you’ve ever wondered whether past trauma or emotional wounds can prevent you from building a healthy, loving partnership, this episode is for you.I’ll share insights on how to navigate a relationship when both partners have their own wounds, and how it’s possible to heal together while still creating a conscious, connected relationship

01:05:30

Attraction vs. Addiction: Are You Drawn to Wounding...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/03/25

We may feel that we're following our heart, when in reality, we’re following our trauma.In this episode, we explore the seductive pull of the trauma bond — how it masquerades as chemistry, intensity, and “meant to be,” but is often rooted in pain from the past. Learn how to tell the difference between true love and addictive attraction, and how to break free from the cycles that keep you chasing wounding instead of receiving love.

01:05:56

Stop Waiting for a Commitment; It’s Lowering Your Value

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/03/12

To grab your spot in the upcoming 7-Day Conscious Love Challenge, click here.Click here to get started with the Aura App for FREE! You think waiting patiently for a commitment shows loyalty and love—but it’s actually lowering your value. In fact, high-value people always ask for what they want and it is impossible to communicate your value without speaking about your most heartfelt desires and calling someone to the plate. In this episode I'll explain why. Here, we’ll unpack why waiting in

10:06

QUESTION - How to Use Discernment When Anxiety is High

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/03/07

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a crucial topic: How to use discernment when anxiety is high. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by anxiety and struggled to make clear decisions, this episode is for you.I’ll guide you through the process of tuning into your inner wisdom, even when your mind feels clouded by worry and uncertainty. We’ll explore practical strategies to separate anxious thoughts from your true feelings, how to trust yourself in moments of high tension, and ways

01:16:30

He Likes You but He Doesn't Love You Enough to Choose...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/02/26

Grab your spot in the upcoming Inspired Love Program here.Click here to get get 7 Days FREE on the Aura App! You feel the connection. He says he cares. But when it comes to stepping up, he hesitates. Why? In this episode, I'm breaking down the 5 types of men who will ALWAYS avoid commitment and the 4 reasons that women tolerate this. If you've ever encountered one of these men or been one of these women, this episode will tell you exactly what you need to do next. Tune in and learn how to

13:50

QUESTION: Should a Woman Chase a Man?

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/02/07

You’ve met someone you’re excited about—but he’s not making a move. Do you step up and chase him, or do you wait and risk losing the connection?In this episode, we’re tackling one of the most debated questions in dating: Should a woman chase a man? I’m breaking down the difference between healthy pursuit and over-investment, why chasing often leads to the opposite of what you want, and what to do instead to inspire a man to step forward. If you’ve ever found yourself initiating, overextending,

01:05:38

Why You're Not Meeting the Right Person [3 Specific...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/02/05

Click here to learn more about The Inspired Love 8-Week Journey To activate your FREE trial of the Aura App, click here. You swear you’re ready for love, so why does it feel like you’re either attracting the wrong people or struggling to find anyone who truly fits? You meet someone promising, but something always feels off—or you find yourself walking away for reasons you can’t quite explain. What if the real problem isn’t where you’re looking, but how you’re looking? What if the standards

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