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The Conscious Love Show

Shane Kohler

Navigating the complex journey to love, consciously and spiritually, with Shane Kohler

society & culture relationships

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66:23

You Don't Understand the Power You Have Over Men —...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2026/03/25

Most women feel like men hold the power in dating.Like they’re waiting to be chosen… hoping he’ll step up… wondering where they stand. But what if that entire dynamic is backwards? What if you’ve been holding more influence than you realize this whole time… and the way you show up is shaping far more than you think? In this episode, we’re looking at the hidden dynamic between men and women that no one’s naming, and why everything changes once you see it.

64:08

Why He Loses Interest When You Stop Chasing

The Conscious Love Show ·

2026/02/25

Click here to learn more about the Inspired Love Journey and book your intro call. Most women have watched men pull away when they tried to chase them. So they stop. They pull back. They go quiet. And tell themselves they’re finally “doing it right.” And then… he still drifts anyway. In this episode, we unpack the subtle overcorrection that quietly kills attraction. This is the reason men pull away when you stop chasing them and the powerful middle path that nobody talks about.

70:44

Why He Pulls Away the Moment You Start to Care

The Conscious Love Show ·

2026/02/11

Most women feel stuck in the same impossible dilemma.If you say what you want, you risk pushing him away. If you hold it in, you slowly disappear inside the relationship. So you oscillate. Between being “too much.” And pretending you don’t need much at all. But somewhere in that tension… he starts to pull away. In this episode, I’m breaking down the invisible dynamic that creates that pressure — and the path that allows you to stay true to yourself without forcing a future he hasn’t

71:21

Men Only Want Sex (At First) Here's What Makes Him...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2026/02/04

Most women think the problem is that men “only want sex.”That belief quietly shapes everything that happens next. How fast you attach. What you tolerate. Who you chase. Why things keep ending the same way. And why you’re left wondering what you did wrong… again. There’s a deeper pattern underneath all of this. One almost no one is talking about. In today’s episode, I unpack a perspective that will likely challenge the way you’ve been interpreting men, dating, and your own role in the

67:31

Why You’re Attracted to the Men Who Don’t Want You

The Conscious Love Show ·

2026/01/21

Click here to learn more about the Inspired Love ProgramIf you’re consistently drawn to the men who don’t choose you… and oddly unmoved by the ones who do, this episode is for you. This pattern isn’t bad luck. It isn’t “chemistry.” And it isn’t because something is wrong with you. It’s a learned attraction — and once you see how it was formed, you can’t unsee it. In this episode, we’ll explore why desire so often locks onto unavailability, how that pattern gets mistaken for love, and what

69:13

Why Men Don't Commit (And What Makes Him Change His...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2026/01/14

To learn more about working with Shane in the Inspired Love Program, click here.Why do so many connections feel close… but never quite arrive where you want them to go? He cares. There’s chemistry. There’s history. And yet — no commitment. This episode isn’t about what you should say, do, or demand. It’s about a deeper question most people never stop to ask. What actually makes commitment possible in the first place? And why does it seem to appear effortlessly for some people — and remain

60:18

This Year, Stop Trying to Fix Yourself to Be Loved

The Conscious Love Show ·

2026/01/07

Click here to learn about taking the Inspired Love Journey in 2026Most women don’t enter a new year hoping to become someone else. They enter it quietly wondering what’s still wrong with them. Why love hasn’t landed yet. Why you still feel anxious, attached, or unsettled. Why all the work you’ve done hasn’t delivered the thing you want most. Somewhere underneath it all is the belief that there’s still something you need to heal… something you need to fix… And you’re not wrong. There is

54:31

If the Love You Were Seeking Didn't Arrive This Year...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/12/17

To join our January Inspired Love session, click here.If the love you were seeking didn’t arrive this year, this episode is for you. Not to explain why. Not to tell you what you did wrong. Not to convince you that “everything happens for a reason.” Just to remind you of something most people forget when things don’t unfold the way they hoped. If you’re ending this year feeling tender, disappointed, reflective, or unsure how to carry yourself into the next one, this is a simple message from the

76:50

The 7 Feminine Power Codes that Men Can't Resist

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/12/03

Click here to learn more about joining the 2026 Inspired Love ProgramIf you've ever wondered exactly what it is that calls for a man's devotion, respect, commitment, and trust, the answer is in this episode. There is a lot of information in the mainstream culture right now and most of it is honestly very disempowering for women in their relationships with men. In this episode, we'll debunk the common myths that are perpetuated by supposed alpha males and dating "gurus" and break down the seven

80:00

Shane's Diary Entry #4: Reclaiming My Masculinity in...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/10/29

Modern culture tells men to be softer, safer, and more sensitive—until we lose respect for the very men who listen.In this episode of Shane’s Diary, I share my personal journey of reclaiming my masculinity after years of suppressing it to be “good.” From growing up under the shadow of a hyper-religious mother who called every masculine impulse sinful, to living with a father who embodied its most toxic extremes—I learned to distrust my own nature. When I found spirituality, I thought peace meant

81:52

Shane's Diary Entry #3: My journey to love, that path...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/10/01

Click here to learn more about the Inspired Love Program and book your intro call.In this episode I share my personal story coming from a broken home, no model for healthy relationships, and devastating heartbreak, to a long healing journey that led to creating the loving, conscious relationship I have with my wife today. Each month I'm dropping another entry of Shane's Diary where I share personal insights into the man behind the message. I hope you enjoy this entry and see a path to conscious

01:07:51

The Truth About Men in 2025

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/08/13

Grab your spot in The Conscious Love Challenge here.You’ve heard the story: women are evolving, men are falling behind. But what if that’s not the whole truth? In this episode, I open a conversation most people aren’t willing to have—one that might challenge everything you’ve been told about men, love, and the real reasons relationships feel so out of balance today. It’s not a defense. It’s not an attack. It’s an invitation. To listen deeper. To see what you’ve been missing. And maybe, to

01:05:35

Shane's Diary; Entry #1: Reflections on becoming a...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/08/06

Click Here to learn more about the Inspired Love Program and Book Your Intro CallI'm officially a father to a beautiful little girl and as I step into this new chapter of my life, I wanted to add something new to the podcast. Once monthly, I'm going to do a Shane's Diary episode where I take a pause from the regular content and share personal reflections, stories and insights from my journey to let you get to know the man behind the message and give you glimpses into how I embody the work in my

12:57

QUESTION - What to Do When He Goes Dark for Days?

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/07/18

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a frustrating relationship dynamic: What to do when he goes dark for days? If you’ve ever experienced the emotional rollercoaster of being left in the dark, unsure of where you stand with someone, this episode will offer the clarity and guidance you need.We’ll explore the reasons why someone might pull away, the signs of emotional unavailability, and how to protect your own emotional well-being in these situations. I’ll also share how to set

17:05

QUESTION - How To Stop My Anxiety From Ruining a...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/07/11

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we address a question that many people with anxiety face: How to stop my anxiety from ruining a relationship? If you’ve ever found your anxiety taking over in a relationship, causing overthinking, insecurity, or unnecessary conflict, this episode will help you gain control and find peace.I’ll share strategies for managing anxiety in a relationship, how to communicate your feelings without overwhelming your partner, and how to build trust and security

01:15:22

The #1 Way We Sabotage a Relationship Before It Even...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/07/09

You’ve felt it—that slow fade, the sudden shift in energy, the uncertainty that creeps in when a connection that once felt promising starts to feel… off.You start wondering if you’re asking for too much. You question whether to speak up or stay silent. And deep down, you just want to feel chosen without having to chase. This is the moment when we unconsciously sabotage connection the most. This episode is for anyone who’s tired of overthinking, tired of pretending you don’t care, tired of trying

12:50

QUESTION - How to Stand Out in Modern Dating and...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/07/04

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle the challenge of standing out in modern dating—especially in the world of dating apps. If you’ve ever felt lost in the sea of profiles or wondered how to make a meaningful connection in a swipe-happy world, this episode is for you.I’ll share practical strategies on how to present your authentic self, write a profile that attracts the right kind of attention, and navigate the virtual dating world with confidence. We’ll also explore how to

01:07:27

Is He Worth the Wait… or Are You Wasting Time?

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/07/02

You’ve been patient, understanding, and endlessly hopeful—believing if you just give him enough time, he’ll finally see your worth. But deep down, you wonder: Am I being loving… or just losing myself?In this episode, “Is He Worth the Wait… or Are You Wasting Time?”, we dive into the confusing space between staying open and staying stuck. We’ll explore the subtle but critical line between patience rooted in love and waiting that comes from fear of not being chosen. You’ll discover the signs that

16:40

QUESTION - How Long Should I Wait for Him to Choose Me?

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/06/27

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a question many women face: How long should I wait for him to choose me? If you’ve been waiting for a partner to make a decision about your future together, or wondering if you’re putting your life on hold while he takes his time, this episode will help you gain clarity.I’ll guide you through understanding the dynamics of waiting for someone to choose you, what it truly means to be chosen, and how to evaluate whether waiting aligns with your

01:13:07

Why am I still Attracting This? When you thought you...

The Conscious Love Show ·

2025/06/25

You’ve done the work. You’ve cried the tears, read the books, maybe even taken the courses. You know your patterns. You’ve said no to the toxic ones, sworn off the avoidants, and promised yourself: Never again.And then… it happens again. You meet someone. He’s charming. He sees you. There’s chemistry. And somewhere deep in your gut, it feels like a homecoming. But before long, it starts to unravel. You realize you’re bending. Shrinking. Questioning yourself. And you’re back in something that feels

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