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Totally Absolutely Engaged

Totally Absolutely Engaged is your behind-the-scenes look at the modern wedding industry - packed with expert insights, hilarious stories, and honest advice for couples planning their big day.Hosted by Isla and Paul, CEO of one of the UK’s top event rental suppliers, each episode features candid conversations with wedding professionals - from planners and florists to photographers and venue stylists. Together, they share their biggest wedding tips, industry secrets, and even their ultimate wedding

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39:38

Wedding Dress Shopping: The Mistakes Brides Make &...

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2026/10/05

Send us Fan Mail Wedding dress shopping is meant to be exciting… but between budgets, family opinions, social media, alterations and suddenly questioning every decision you make, it can also feel VERY overwhelming. In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Rhian are joined by Jez and Jacob, the directors of SayOui, a bridal boutique in Sandbach, Cheshire, to get the honest truth about what actually happens when you go wedding dress shopping. From why around 70% of brides arrive ...

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73:42

Wedding Singer Secrets: Pricing, Song Requests & What...

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2026/09/28

Send us Fan Mail What does it REALLY take to be a wedding singer? This week, Paul and Rhian are joined by Tasha Bennett, a wedding singer, songwriter and former successful photographer who has built a huge following online and now has a diary that stretches years into the future. But being a wedding singer isn't just turning up, singing a few songs and going home. Tasha talks honestly about everything couples don't necessarily see, learning songs, preparing tracks, protecting her voice, trave...

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16:20

What Actually Happens at a Wedding Fair? | The Hub...

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2026/09/24

Send us Fan Mail Thinking about coming to The Hub Show? Here’s exactly what you can expect. In this special episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Rhian go behind the scenes and talk through everything happening at the next Hub Show on Saturday 4th October, 12–3pm. With 27+ trusted wedding suppliers, free entry, free parking, food, drinks, entertainment, demonstrations, samples and plenty of advice, this isn’t your typical wedding fair. Paul and Rhian explain: 💍 Who will actually be

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35:08

How Much Should You Spend on a Wedding Photographer?...

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2026/09/21

Send us Fan Mail Wedding photography is about so much more than simply showing up for eight hours and taking a few pictures. In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Rhian are joined by Maddie Farris Photography, a Manchester-based wedding photographer known for her relaxed, natural approach and alternative wedding style. Maddie chats honestly about finding your people, why she doesn’t follow wedding trends too closely, and how couples can make sure their wedding day reflects w...

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39:51

Wedding Advice We Actually Agree On (And A Few We...

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2026/09/14

Send us Fan Mail Season 3 is officially here! And we're kicking things off with a proper catch-up with Paul and Rhian as we get to know our new co-host, settle into the brand-new set and dive straight into some very honest wedding opinions. In this episode, we're asking the questions engaged couples are actually thinking about: - Do you really need to invite everyone who invited you to their wedding? - Do you need a £30,000 wedding to have an amazing day? - Can Pinterest actually make wedding...

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0:52

Welcome to Totally Absolutely Engaged!

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2026/09/07

Send us Fan Mail Planning a wedding and wondering what you actually need, what’s worth spending your money on, and which wedding rules you can completely ignore? Welcome to Totally Absolutely Engaged! The wedding podcast for couples who want honest answers, real advice and none of the wedding planning fluff. From wedding insurance and budgets to bridesmaids, wedding guests, suppliers, traditions and everything in between, Paul & Rhian are here to tackle the questions couples are actually ...

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22:39

Wedding Cake Secrets Every Couple Should Know |...

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2026/08/03

Send us Fan Mail Does anyone actually eat the wedding cake? How much should you budget? And is fruitcake finally dead? 🍰 We are looking back on one of our favourite episodes of season 2, and we're joined by Cheshire wedding cake designer Rhian, who shares everything couples should know before booking their wedding cake. From choosing flavours your guests will actually eat to avoiding expensive mistakes, this episode is packed with honest advice, behind-the-scenes secrets and practical

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21:06

I Do or I Don’t? Part 3 | Coloured Wedding Dresses,...

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2026/07/27

Send us Fan Mail It's time for the final I Do or I Don't? episode, where the Totally Absolutely Engaged team give their brutally honest opinions on some of the biggest wedding planning debates. Would you wear a black wedding dress? Are weekday weddings actually worth it? Should children leave the dancefloor after 9pm? Is a champagne tower a must-have or a complete waste of money? This episode covers some of the most talked-about wedding trends of 2026, with plenty of laughs, disagreements and...

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32:29

Wedding Flowers: Florist Tips, Budgets, Seasonal...

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2026/07/20

Send us Fan Mail Planning your wedding flowers? In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we're joined by Jen from Peony Rose Florist to answer the questions every engaged couple wants to know before booking their florist. From how much wedding flowers actually cost to choosing seasonal blooms, avoiding expensive trends and making the most of your budget, this episode is packed with honest advice that could save you money and help you get the look you've always wanted. Jen takes us behin...

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40:43

Engagement rings, wedding bands, lab grown diamonds...

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2026/07/13

Send us Fan Mail This week on Totally Absolutely Engaged, we're joined by Lee from Henry D. Johnstone Jewellers, an award-winning family run jeweller known for helping couples find engagement rings, wedding rings and bespoke jewellery they'll treasure forever. We discuss: • How engagement ring shopping actually works • Lab-grown diamonds vs natural diamonds • Current engagement ring trends • Choosing the right wedding rings • Creating bespoke jewellery • How to get the most value from y...

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19:51

Wedding First Looks, Unplugged Ceremonies & Wedding...

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2026/07/06

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, wedding professionals Paul, Isla and Esme are back with Part 2 of I Do or I Don't?, debating some of the biggest wedding trends couples are talking about right now. From first looks and destination weddings to personalised vows, unplugged ceremonies, matching bridesmaid dresses, signature cocktails and choreographed first dances, the team shares honest opinions, real wedding industry insight and practical advice for engaged coupl...

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44:25

Wedding Awards Debrief | Do They Really Matter When...

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2026/06/29

Send us Fan Mail Wedding awards are everywhere in the wedding industry but what do they actually mean for engaged couples? In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we're unpacking our experience at the latest wedding awards, discussing what goes on behind the scenes, what judges are really looking for, and whether awards should influence your supplier decisions. From industry recognition and supplier credibility to the realities of entering awards and what couples should focus on when c...

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46:37

How to Create an Unforgettable Wedding Party |...

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2026/06/22

Send us Fan Mail This week on Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Isla are joined by Matt and Joey from Dirtbag Entertainment and The Hustle to discuss everything couples need to know about wedding entertainment. From building one of the UK's most exciting alternative wedding entertainment companies to performing hundreds of weddings, Matt and Joey share their expert advice on choosing the right wedding band, creating an unforgettable wedding reception, and avoiding some of the biggest mista...

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46:59

Crazy Golf at Weddings? The Award-Winning...

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2026/06/15

Send us Fan Mail This week on Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Isla are joined by Pete and Philip, the brilliant duo behind Crazy Nine Golf, the multi-award winning wedding entertainment company transforming drinks receptions across the UK with their handcrafted mobile crazy golf course. From a chance conversation at a family gathering to becoming one of the most sought after wedding suppliers in the country, Pete and Philip share the incredible story behind Crazy Nine Golf, the secrets t...

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28:12

Wedding Icks, Open Bars & Child-Free Weddings | I Do...

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2026/06/01

Send us Fan Mail Would you ban kids from your wedding? Should bridesmaids pay for their own dresses? And are wedding favours actually pointless? 👀 In this hilarious and brutally honest episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we’re joined by Esme from behind the scenes as we play “I Do or I Don’t” — the ultimate wedding debate game where we blind react to some of the most controversial wedding trends and traditions. From open bars and DIY weddings to videographers, plus ones, save the dates,

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21:33

Wedding Planning Secrets from County Brides’ Duane |...

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2026/05/28

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged — the wedding podcast created specifically for engaged couples planning their big day 💍 This special BONUS episode follows on from our previous County Brides episode with wedding industry expert Duane, but this time we’re diving even deeper into advice specifically for brides, grooms, and newly engaged couples. If you're planning a wedding in the North West, chances are County Brides has already helped shape your

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Wedding Industry Marketing Secrets with County...

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2026/05/28

Send us Fan Mail In this special bonus episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we dive into the business side of the wedding industry with Duane from County Brides — one of the North West’s most recognised wedding marketing platforms. Following on from our previous County Brides episode dedicated to engaged couples, this supplier-focused special is packed with honest advice, marketing strategies, wedding fair tips, networking insights, and industry truths for wedding professionals looking to g...

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35:09

Confetti Down the Dress?! Wedding Videographer Horror...

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2026/05/25

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Unpacked, we sit down with wedding videographer Laura from Vision Wave Weddings to talk all things weddings, filming love stories, and the reality of working in the wedding industry. From starting out filming £400 weddings to capturing over 450 wedding days, Laura shares how she built her business, what really happens behind the scenes, and why wedding videography is so much more than just “content creation.” We also dive into: Wedding videographer horror s...

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Bride Reveals Wedding Regrets, Budget Mistakes & Best...

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2026/05/18

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we’re switching things up and hearing directly from a REAL bride! 💍 Bex joins us to spill everything about her wedding journey — from the engagement and venue search to budget shocks, family drama, wedding regrets, photographer mistakes, and the emotional reality of the big day. As both a bride AND wedding coordinator, Bex shares honest advice every engaged couple needs to hear before planning their wedding. We chat about: ✨

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37:51

What Couples REALLY Think About Wedding Suppliers...

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2026/05/11

Send us Fan Mail Planning your wedding? This episode is FULL of honest advice that every bride, groom, and wedding supplier needs to hear. In this solo episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we’re breaking down the biggest frustrations, misconceptions, and behind-the-scenes truths in the wedding industry — from BOTH the couple’s perspective and the supplier’s side. We discuss: • Why slow replies lose bookings • Why wedding suppliers don’t always reply instantly • The REAL reason wedding ser...

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