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Dr Corey and Pam Allan

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27:55

I know he loves me, but… #745

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/09/10

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we dive into the complexities of marital intimacy and emotional disconnect, sparked by a listener's email. We explore themes of self-love, communication barriers, and the impact of conditional love on relationships. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of personal growth and taking responsibility for one's own emotional well-being, while also addressing the challenges of maintaining connection in a marriage. The goal? Learning to focus on being the

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32:57

Can I Get My Spouse To Care? #744

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/09/03

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the complexities of marriage, focusing on health, sexuality, and the impact of personal choices on relationships. A wife emails us asking how she can help her husband care about their sex life. Our conversation explores how anxiety can manifest in physical ways, the importance of integrity in communication, and the need for collaboration in addressing marital challenges. We also emphasize the significance of facing personal issues and the impact

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37:47

The Intersection of Sexuality and Spirituality | Dr...

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/08/27

In this conversation, Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins me as we explore the intricate relationship between sexuality and spirituality, emphasizing the importance of intimacy and personal growth within marriages. We discuss the challenges of navigating desire, vulnerability, and the dynamics of relationships, while also highlighting the need for authenticity and self-discovery. Dr Jennifer also shares insights from her upcoming book and courses, aiming to help individuals and couples create deeper

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33:19

Stop Outsourcing Desire To Your Spouse #742

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/08/20

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore the concept of outsourcing sexual desire within marriage. We explore how individuals often hand over the responsibility of sexual energy to their partners, leading to a disconnect in intimacy. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of owning one's desire, understanding the biological and environmental influences on sexual interest, and recognizing the dynamics of engagement and presence in sexual relationships. We encourage listeners to ask

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32:30

Initiation Takes Two #741

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/08/13

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore the complexities of sexual initiation within marriage, focusing on the dynamics between higher and lower desire partners. What are the challenges of initiating intimacy, the pressures involved, and the importance of communication and understanding each partner's needs? Our conversation emphasizes the need for both partners to take responsibility for their roles in the relationship and to work together to create a healthy sexual climate. Enjoy the

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29:07

My Body Shuts Down Right Before Orgasm #740

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/08/06

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore into the complexities of vaginismus and its impact on sexual relationships. We explore the emotional and psychological aspects of sexuality, emphasizing the importance of understanding desire, inhibition, and shared responsibility in intimate encounters. Our conversation highlights the need to reframe sexual expectations and focus on connection rather than solely on orgasm. Through a listener question we encourage all couples to reflect on their

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28:33

Marriage Advice That Isn’t Helpful #739

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/07/30

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore common phrases and beliefs about marriage that may not hold true. Phrases like 'You complete me,' the 50-50 marriage proposition, and the idea that love conquers all. We dive into the complexities of marriage, emphasizing the importance of individuality, communication, and realistic expectations. What are your own beliefs and what phrases resonate with you? Enjoy the show! On the Xtended Version … In the XTD content, we do a deep dive into the

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31:15

Best of SMR: Anxiety As A Smoke Signal | Dr John...

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/07/23

An episode from the vault - Dr. John Delony joins me as we talk through the concept of anxiety as a smoke signal, indicating that something is amiss in our lives. He encourages individuals to face their discomfort and choose the hard path of growth and change (sound familiar?). He also highlights the significance of belief in something bigger than ourselves and the need to drive our own lives instead of trying to control others. Lastly, we discuss the importance of self-awareness and taking

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37:56

Surrendered Sexuality | Dr Juli Slattery #737

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/07/16

In this episode, Dr. Juli Slattery joins me as we dive into the complexities of Christian sexuality, exploring themes of trust, identity, and the integration of faith with sexual intimacy. We discuss the challenges Christians face in surrendering their sexuality to God, the importance of understanding behavior versus identity, and the biblical perspectives on sexuality. Juli emphasizes the journey of discovering a deeper intimacy in relationships and the role of God in sexual experiences,

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25:24

Willingness vs Intent #736

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/07/09

In this episode, we answer a listeners question about how to address an issue that has come up now that his wife has had a partial hysterectomy and gets too wet so there is a loss of friction. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We explore the difference between a willingness vs intent to have sex. Only this segment is one where Pam and I are not on the same page and it goes a completely different way than Corey was thinking it would beforehand. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go

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28:53

Too Much Focus On The Beginning – Live from the...

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/07/02

In this episode, recorded live from the 2025 Sex Marriage Radio Getaway, we explore how spending too much focus on the beginning of a sexual encounter can actually hurt the desire levels in both spouses. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … The second portion of the live Q&A session from the 2025 Getaway. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Too Much Focus On The Beginning – Live from the Getaway #735 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

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26:22

Sex Quiz – Live from the Getaway #734

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/06/25

In this episode, recorded live from the 2025 Sex Marriage Radio Getaway, I quiz Pam and the audience on what they know about various aspects of sex. Follow along, or get a piece of paper and see how you score. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … A portion of the live Q&A session from the 2025 Getaway. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Sex Quiz – Live from the Getaway #734 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

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25:41

Grief and Infertility #733

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/06/18

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we address the complexities of navigating new relationships after experiencing loss. We discuss the challenges faced by a young widow who is trying to reconcile her past relationship with her new partner, emphasizing the importance of establishing boundaries, open communication, and allowing space for grief. Our conversation highlights the necessity of collaboration in relationships and the need for self-confrontation to foster personal growth and

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28:42

The Problem With Love Languages #732

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/06/11

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio we explore the Love Languages from Gary Chapman. Specifically we dive into how there are some problems with them that can actually be harmful to relationships. How exactly can something so widely known, and even loved, be possible? Listen to find out. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … An email from an Academy member wants to know about action steps to move beyond the "Nice Guy" - that's what we go through today. Sponsors … Paired App: Practice love

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45:49

Best of SMR: Obligation Sex | Jennifer Finlayson-Fife...

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/06/04

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we revisit an archive show with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife. We dive into the topic of obligation sex. Is it a part of every marriage? Is it harmful to one, or both spouses? To learn more from Jennifer and find her Room For Two Podcast – check out her site https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Best of SMR: Obligation Sex | Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #731 first appeared

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28:19

Desire For Sex Or For Your Spouse #730

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/05/28

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we dive into an email from a listener wanting help with the complexities of desire and connection in marriage. A husband is feeling used in a relationship where sexual interest seems limited to ovulation periods. Our conversation dives into the dynamics of sexual desire, the impact of past trauma, and the importance of communication in navigating these challenges. We explore the need for emotional connection and understanding in relationships, highlighting

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28:14

Mistakes We Make In Sex #729

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/05/21

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore common mistakes that couples make in their sexual relationships. They categorize these mistakes into those typically made by men and women, discussing issues such as communication, self-care, and understanding each other's desires. The conversation emphasizes the importance of connection and intimacy over mere physical encounters, encouraging couples to engage in open dialogue and prioritize their emotional and physical well-being. Enjoy the

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28:38

Best of SMR: Mutual Masturbation #728

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/05/14

We go back into the archives to one of the Best of SMR episodes. An email from a wife who has discovered the eroticism and freedom that can happen when masturbating together with her husband. What’s the difference between sexual thoughts and lust? A husband wanting to know what to do when he’s tried to live in a way that ignites his wife’s passion (according to an old post I wrote – https://smr.fm/heads-up-husbands-5-ways-to-ignite-your-wifes-passions/) and yet his wife had an affair. Enjoy the

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32:19

Understanding Our Functioning Is The Key To A Better...

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/05/07

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on the concept of regressions and how they affect emotional functioning. We discuss the different types of regressions, the impact of stress, and the contagious nature of regression in relationships. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and understanding one's emotional state to improve relationship dynamics. Takeaways Understanding regressions can empower individuals in

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28:39

Radical Living | Marni Battista #726

Sexy Marriage Radio ·

2025/04/30

In this episode, Marni Battista shares her journey from blaming her husband for her dissatisfaction to embracing change and personal growth within her relationship. Through her experiences and insights, she emphasizes the importance of asking better questions, designing a life together, and taking responsibility for one's own happiness. The discussion highlights the significance of collaboration, meaningful experiences, and the transformative power of change in relationships. Learn more about Marni

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